"I don't want to be your friend"

[Rick Munroe]

I had a similar situation...but in reverse...and different. OK, it wasn't similar. But it kind of was. I had this very regular repeat client who liked to treat me as a sex object; it was pretty impersonal, which was hot (for a change of pace). But one day, after he was through using my mouth like a sex toy, he asked if I'd like to stick around and have dinner and watch a movie. I did, and it was fun, but apparently it changed our roles somewhat because I was now a "person" instead of a "thing." I mean, he never called me ever again and I'm assuming that that was the reason; the dynamics had changed and we seemed to be moving into "friend" territory, which I guess wasn't as much of a turn-on as using an objectified w~h~o~r~e. If I'm right, and that's the reason I never saw him again, then I totally understand, but I also wish I could go back in time and refuse that dinner & movie!

[Guest zipperzone]

>> You probably have lost him and it serves you right.

>

>The guy asked if could be handled in a better way zipper.

>Your last line just seems harsh (maybe hateful) for someone

>asking advice. Of course with written communication versus

>verbal communication it is often hard to tell one's true

>intent.

 

PWIT - You're quite correct, what I said certainly went past the advice stage that was requested. My advice was contained in my 1st paragraph.

 

The last paragraph was harsh and I intended it to be. Consider it as "tough love" if that makes it read any better.

 

You see, I too am in a service industry. I also charge by the hour (for an entirely differnt service than the one we are discussing here). But there are many instances when I go above and beyond, as it were, for a good repeat client and do not expect to be paid every dollar that I could rightly charge for. Call it good PR, or customer appreciation or whatever. It pays bigtime in the longrun as it usually ensures that the client will stay with me instead of shopping elsewhere.

 

So - I get really pissed off when I hear of an escort who is kevetching about some time he spent with his client that he wasn't able to take to the bank. I'm always reminded of the line in "Hello Dolly" uttered by Dolli Levi which goes something along the lines of "And on those cold winter nights, Horace, you can always snuggle up to your cash register - it's a little lumpy, but it rings"

 

You get out of life what you put into it. And if you give a little extra, it will come back to you in spades. Something that all young escorts would do well to remember.

[+ glutes]

Foxy, I will be your friend!

[JT Brooklyn]

Lookin..You have "Totally" said it all! :P

[Lookin]

Thanks, JT! As you may have guessed, I've had to spend some time dealing with my own boundary issues. Now the only boundaries I worry about are the ones with buttons or zippers. :9

[JT Brooklyn]

lookin..Once again you have said it all!

 

Enjoy those Zipper's and Things! LOL :P