Is it tacky to ask an escort if he has friends he recommends?

[BluDay]

@queensboroboy I think it's less tacky in the situation you describe than someone looking for variety. In this case, your provider has stopped offering something you want. The question is how close is your relationship? If you are close enough, it should be OK, but if you think you'll hurt his feelings, explore without his advise.

[Inkdnaija00]

I didn't recommend any one and it was not because of competition but because both clients and escorts messed things up horribly! So I only did me and only me!

[MartyB]

I have learned that unless one is looking for a 3 way I would not ask an escort for a recommendation for another escort. I do my own due diligence and look at reviews inquire to those on this board I respect and look at for guidance to an escort I've never met and perhaps they have. In addition that 6 degrees of separation among escorts who know each other is quite real even among those who travel here from Europe.

[+ Eric Hassan]

for me, context matters. i've had regular clients come to town and when they've found out i'm not available, they'll ask me if there's someone else i recommend instead. or, i've been at the end of an enjoyable session and i'm asked for recommendations on other folks to see. i don't mind these requests - i've made it a point to get to know and get close with some working guys, and i can often make a good recommendation without hesitation. i'm happy to refer people to my buddies when appropriate, and often talk up guys i'm particularly fond of if i get the feeling my date would be interested.

 

i do mind the request when it's someone new who is clearly checking me out and i don't quite make their cut. if someone were to ask me for a recommendation after a "bad" session, i would not enjoy that request. i don't view other escorts as competition - they are my inspiration, my colleagues - so i'm happy to support and refer, but if you're asking because we didn't work out, you're barking up the wrong tree.

[Youngmilkman]

Curious on everyone's professional opinion. I have a great regular but I'm curious if he has any friends who are also looking to escort.

 

Is it tacky/rude to ask if he has friends he would recommend? Not as a replacement, but as a supplement?

 

Thanks all!

 

JT

If you make it very clear to him that you like to "rotate" a regular circle of guys (ie. keeping him regularly in the picture), this might be okay. Anything less tactful will sound very unprofessional.