Would it be rude to ask an escort for his HIV status?

[pubic_assistance]

That your an asshole? That's something we've known for a long time..

 

Maybe you should examine this statement. "The most effective way of avoiding HIV positive escorts (people)." I would just never think of saying something so shitty.

I do believe the original poster on this thread is asking how to avoid HIV people...so I hardly think my comment is "shitty"...simply an effective way of flushing them out if you are so inclined to want to know for sure.

[kenomora]

I don't think asking makes any difference. Everyone should perform their own risk assessment and proceed as they see fit. If you are concerned about getting infected, do not rely on others to keep you safe. Take PrEP or use condoms. It's not that complicated.

[Gymowner]

Yet what if you know you are positive.... do you not feel inclined even on meds that there could still be a very small small chance to transmit the virus and alter another person's life to not do something as simple as tell them and let them make the decision? Is it more about hurting ones fragile bruised feelings over another person's health and future?

 

There's an old saying the true essence of a man is doing the right thing when no one is looking.

[pubic_assistance]

Yet what if you know you are positive.... do you not feel inclined even on meds that there could still be a very small small chance to transmit the virus and alter another person's life to not do something as simple as tell them and let them make the decision? Is it more about hurting ones fragile bruised feelings over another person's health and future?

 

There's an old saying the true essence of a man is doing the right thing when no one is looking.

So true.

[Gymowner]

ill never forget in the early 2000's i met a very handsome guy in chicago at sidetracks. we had a conversation and he started to seem to pull away. i asked him what was wrong. now mind you meds were available then but very harsh and still not a certain future living with hiv. he looked at me and said that he was positive and we should just end the conversation then. i asked him why. he said "you wouldnt want to get involved with me now". my god. that man gave ME the right to decide if i wanted to get to know him due to Any circumstance whatsoever...let alone being positive.. what respect he gave me. ill tell ya what, i became so much more enamored with him that if he didnt live in L.A. i would have started dating him right then and there.

[+ Travis69]

Sad how many people, usually married or closeted, will say they are HIV negative but have never had a HIV test. Kind of throws a kink in some of the questions people ask.

[pubic_assistance]

Sad how many people, usually married or closeted, will say they are HIV negative but have never had a HIV test. Kind of throws a kink in some of the questions people ask.

NO sexually active person, should go without being tested on a regular basis.

Disgusting !... these people who lie about being clean, but are actually poz.

It's like they WANT to infect other people, to get back at the world.

[+ Travis69]

NO sexually active person, should go without being tested on a regular basis.

But the reality is many are not tested for HIV or anything.

[LivingnLA]

There are many people who lie abut their status or their testing regime. That's honestly why I'd believe a positive person showing recent test results who reported being undetectable and on PrEP than I would a "married guy" who maybe got an HIV test a year ago.

 

Men who have sex with men are a very high risk category for multiple STDs and STIs, especially in many large cities.

 

As someone who loves sucking cock and swallowing cum, it's become a very challenging environment. I now stick to only guys I've known for a long time. Otherwise, I insist on condoms even for oral sex.