Repeat? Repeat? Repeat? And Repeat! How Often If You and Why????

[Massguy]

Thanks JT,

 

It took me awhile to post on this subject becasue I felt staying with the same escort would be picked apart. I agree, we have something that works. In fact this escort was the first and only one. I have no desire to seek anyone else out.

Again thanks for your comments.

 

Massguy

[ncc1701d]

Massguy..I too have only seen exclusively one escort since our first encounter 3 years ago, with him being the first guy for me sexually as well. Since he (Steven Kesslar) does possess many wonderful qualities that I look for(as others have pointed out repeatedly within this thread), there really was no need for anyone else as I don't think our time together can be any better. Whatever the future will bring, I will always have fond memories of my time with him on all our trips together as well as our correspondences in between. So here's to being "exclusive"!!

[Massguy]

NCC,

I am so glad to hear that other people have found a single person to share some fun. I am sure you have many great memories with Steve. My adventures with Adrian have been beyond my wildest dreams. Having lived a sheltered life I wanted to experience things that I would have never done alone. Parasailing, going over and landing in the Grand Canyon by helicopter, even staying at a gay resort in Key West. I have done all these things with Adrian by my side. I consider myself a lucky person to have chosen Adrian for my first escort encounter over two years ago and never dreamed back then that a strong friendship would come from it.

I hope to hear from other guys like us who have that special, exclusive person.

Massguy

[+ Charlie]

I suspect that most of us have fairly predictable patterns where sex is concerned, and our way of interacting with escorts is not very different from our pattern of non-commercial sexual encounters. I had probably had sex with at least a thousand guys before I ever hired an escort, because I realized early in my sex life that what turned me on was novelty: no matter how hot the first experience with someone, the next was likely to be a bit of a let-down. Only in the early stages of romantic love with a couple of men have I been turned on repeatedly by the same person.

 

The pattern has been the same with escorts. Occasionally I have enjoyed myself so much that I have quickly hired someone again, only to feel disappointed. The only satisfactory repeats have been spread over a long period, so that there is the sensation of something new and different. I saw one escort three times in ten years, and the last time was the best (he retired immediately afterwards). Another I saw only on my birthdays for four years. The most times I hired a single escort was eight, spread over seven years, and the last couple of times were only because I was desperate and he was available.

 

I know others who hire the same guy again and again, and they probably would have a relatively monogamous relationship with someone if they weren't hiring. I don't think one approach is healthier or more moral than the other--it's just an expression of the psychology of the individual.

[Steven_Draker]

Isn't that strange that Munroe is the only escort that felt the need to attract attention to himself and his couple in this thread ?

 

SD ~

[Rick Munroe]

I'm not sure what you mean by "his couple" (is that a euphemism for my balls?) but anytime any of us escorts posts anywhere, we are drawing attention to ourselves. And I don't think any of us (escorts or clients or other) should ever feel inhibited about posting in certain threads...for example, many clients respond to threads in "Ask An Escort" and I think that's great. We can all learn a lot here if we keep an open mind.

 

You know, I've never understood competitive/jealous escorts...there's a market and a client for each of us, so personally, I don't look at other escorts as "competition" or get jealous when one is popular, etc. But to each his own!

[Steven_Draker]

I've stated previously on this board that you're not a competition for me. Furthermore I'm not in competition with anyone but myself, don't try to project your own feelings.

 

Steven Draker ~

[Guest TNT Ted]

>I've stated previously on this board that

>you're not a competition for me. >

 

Steven, Is that really true? If you were both traveling to my town at the same time, I might have trouble making a decision.

[Guest TNT Ted]

>Kent Larson and Mark #3 Chicago, definitely 10's... Your Taste

>is Fantastic.

>I will shortly be checking out one of these guy's Asset's, and

>I'm sure not be disappointed in any way! LOL :P

 

 

JT, sounds as if you've convinced that Chicago guy to visit the Big Apple. Congratulations, you smooth-talker. Yes, you're sure not to be disappointed. He's a complete package.

[JT Brooklyn]

Rick..You seem to be on a Growing List of "US" Guy's, that a supposedly "International" Escort, who never seems to leave this Country, will in a "sly way" of course, Criticize other's..Both Foreign and Domestic! ...LOL

 

Well Any Free AD is a good AD..lol :P

[Rick Munroe]

JT, to paraphrase Bill Holden on I Love Lucy, "They say it's when the 'international' escorts stop criticizing you, that it's time to worry!"

[Steven_Draker]

> Steven, Is that really true? If you were both traveling

> to my town at the same time, I might have trouble making a decision.

 

Ted, I don't see any of the escorts as competition - get to know me.

 

I'll let you go with Rick, since we've already met and I'll see you for a repeat next time :*

 

Steven Draker ~

http://www.hotsexystud.com/uk

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/steven_draker_brussels.html

[JT Brooklyn]

Rick.."Indubidably" .. You guy's enjoy your Travel's ..I'm sure like Kevin & Juan, having a "Travel Partner" Does Make it, that much more Interesting & Definitely Fun! :P

[jawjateck]

I have seen 6 escorts on more than one occasion. Each was vastly different in the satisfaction and pleasure they offered to me. I can't really point to a common thread except that all of them were easy to be with.

 

#1 was my first time ever with a guy. After a sensational first date, I invited him back to my hotel room two more times that week. He was a wonderful intro to the world of man-on-man fun. }( Lives 2000 miles away in a state I rarely visit, and he's gone from the scene now.

 

#2 was great the first time, but gradually his performance declined with each meeting. He lost interest in the gym, began to lose his muscle definition, hints that he was into drugs. I lost interest in him. Dropped him.

 

#3 was awesome fun in the sack and out in public. Very reasonable overnight rates. I was with him 5 or 6 times. We became buds, but alas, he returned to his corporate job, and moved to the left coast. Glad for him, but hated to see him go.

 

#4 was a steady, but not spectacular bottom. Nice guy, saw him several times, but the spark wasn't there to continue to invest in him. Dropped him.

 

#5 was a smokin hot jock in south FL. Saw him twice, and would see him again, but I rarely visit that neck of the woods.

 

#6 was one of the finest in the biz. Our travels have crossed twice in the good ole USA. He is top notch IMO. Look forward to crossing swords with him again some day. :9

 

The other 30 or 40 scorts have all been one-timers. There are several awesome studs in that group, but timing, travel, and distance will likely never allow repeats for most of them.

[JT Brooklyn]

TNT..It's a "Win- Win".. No matter who get's to me First! LOL :P