Guys who are not REALLY escorts

[Fyton]

Very often, young guys approach me on Grinder, A4A, Scruff, and so on. I know the drill, so it does not take long before we both are comfortable with the reality. There will be an expensive meal, or concert, or fund raising event, and a sleepover with a grateful handover of cash at breakfast. I'd hardly call them escorts, if not for the fact, which they admit, that they do it routinely. They all me a daddy, and they expect money.

 

So, to get to my question, am I allowed to share with you their web presence? Am I allowed to do due diligence on them if that means exposing their social media (A4A, Grinder, and so on) accounts on this forum? I want to. I fear for my safety, of course.

Thanks

[+ José Soplanucas]

Very often, young guys approach me on Grinder, A4A, Scruff, and so on. I know the drill, so it does not take long before we both are comfortable with the reality. There will be an expensive meal, or concert, or fund raising event, and a sleepover with a grateful handover of cash at breakfast. I'd hardly call them escorts, if not for the fact, which they admit, that they do it routinely. They all me a daddy, and they expect money.

 

So, to get to my question, am I allowed to share with you their web presence? Am I allowed to do due diligence on them if that means exposing their social media (A4A, Grinder, and so on) accounts on this forum? I want to. I fear for my safety, of course.

Thanks

 

 

I would only share that information via PM.

 

I think we can share and discuss publicly only those who advertise their services.

[InterestingGuy]

Is there something in your profile that is making these guys reach out to you?

[Zapped]

I’m usually-happily married to a younger guy (59/27) who is very into monogamy, which I at first resigned myself to and have now embraced. So I’m off the market.

 

When I was “in circulation,” not that long ago, I did find a lot of younger guys into “daddies” but they didn’t seem to be into it for the money. They just had a thing for daddies. Of course, I didn’t spend a lot of money on them, so I didn’t set up an expectation. And no one in it for the money would have hooked up with me, I suppose.

 

Seems to me that since these guys aren’t advertising escorts, and you are showering them with meals and events and then gifting them cash, when none of that was explicitly agreed to (even though there are obviously unspoken expectations on both sides, some of which you may or may not be projecting), this isn’t an appropriate place to discuss those young men and disclose their screen names.

 

I am, though, wishing I knew someone like you when I was in college!

[+ Travis69]

If they expect money they are escorts. I would check with them before sharing any info about them, even in PMs.

[Nvr2Thick]