WstVlgChris

He's also not "into" much--at least per the things he's checked off in his ad. Perhaps mostly getting worshipped?

11 minutes ago, EVdude said:

No phone number for me. I’m not an RM member. Could that be the reason?

Even if one is a member, there's no phone.

On 12/21/2022 at 3:23 PM, musclestuduws said:

Anyone knows if rentmasseur is reliable in vetting reviews? I tried to submit reviews (both negative) and they did reject them claiming I didn’t have any emails to prove I actually met the providers. Ludicrous because I had contacted them directly by text. 

They insist on some contact through their own email system. If you send a post-facto "hi" to the provider (or vice versa), it usually suffices: you can submit the review again and it sails through. The rejection is undoubtedly an automatic thing

This year, my regular masseur, who is a Hindu, not a Christian, had no issue with my scheduling an appointment on Christmas Eve.  It was a nice treat/present to myself. 

On 12/23/2022 at 3:30 PM, BGUptown said:

I mean... these videos are not exactly in Oscar contention.

Or trying for documentary-style realism! lol

12 hours ago, CheckCar said:

https://www.xvideos.com/video70436163/straight_ginger_wrestler_can_t_hide_an_erection_on_a_massage_table_worldstudz

The client is certainly moaning and spasming during his orgasm!  Very hot; thanks for posting.

On 12/11/2022 at 8:03 PM, BabyBoomer said:

The masseur is not Tyler Saint it's Trace Michaels. Sorry, I don't know the name of the guy getting the massage.

~Boomer~

I'm a big fan of massage videos and have watched scores of them, but until now, I have to admit, I didn't realize Tyler and Trace were 2 different people! (I thought that the Trace videos were older, and that he changed his nom de porn to Tyler around the time he started getting tattoos). Now that you've pointed it out--thanks, @BabyBoomer!--and I looked at one of each guy's videos again, I see that, while there is some physical resemblance, I was definitely dense here!

4 hours ago, dutchal said:

Has he hit up anybody else?  Just solicited me on Scruff.

Yes, I had a similar experience on Rent Masseur the other day. Within minutes of browsing his ad, I got the same message you quoted in your opening post.  I asked a follow-up question, got 3 quick very persisent, very brief emails (the first, answering my question, "yes"--then 2 more pressing me to make an appt.). He's also on RentMen under a different name (I think)--some photos are the same. 

On 11/22/2022 at 10:43 AM, chibiguy said:

First time I’m seeing this video:

https://xhamster.com/videos/relaxing-massage-xhRxfVY

The client looks a bit like Dato Foland (the porn star). Thanks for posting.

He's on my shortlist of who I might hire next as well, so intel via this thread will be of much interest.  And thanks, Philly50, for posting that dreamy photo.

https://rent.men/ColeCummings

He's ideal for those who have always hankered to do it with a blue-haired human! 🤣

His ad now marked as "expired."

He's also on Rent.men, with no mention of massage services: https://rent.men/VinnyVal

At $300/hr, whether in or out, one suspects that it's not "just" massage.  LOL

https://rent.men/Calvin_NYC

Hi, ad created this past week (July 15) with one review, from a reviewer whose profile was created that same day.  So I'm suspicious.  

On the other hand, he DM'd me soon after I viewed his profile, with face pics. And seems friendly. 

Could we get a current rentmasseur link please?

Most of us have probably already heard enough on this chain to make him a Must to Avoid! 🤣

And for someone who describes himself as hairy, the public photos show a very smooth chest. 

Escorts, how open are you to barter arrangements? 

In the spring, I hired an escort who was very personable and we had a good conversation amid a very good session. It turned out he wanted my advice about the creative field in which I work and soon after the session I spent a couple of hours (3 at most) looking at his work and giving some advice. 

There was a miscommunication at that time--he didn't understand the etiquette of asking for a freebie. Although he later apologized (after he reached out to me asking whether I wanted to book another session, and I pointed out how he had failed), it affected me enough that I didn't feel quite right about hiring him again. Not that I have any animosity toward him. 

Now he's gotten back in touch, asking me to look at his creative efforts more in depth.  

I have the time to do this (and this is what I do for a living, albeit at a far lower hourly rate than the $300/hr he charges). And while we need to talk about the parameters of what level of feedback he wants and/or needs, I'm inclined to do it, to accept this gig.

I'm wondering whether I should bill him at my standard rate and leave it at that. Or should I suggest a barter arrangement?

Is bartering with an escort--your professional services in exchange for mine--okay, or is it somewhat creepy and exploitative?  If I were to present this option, I would do so respectfully and I  would certainly make clear that he could pay me in cash if he prefers.  

(To put it in perspective: At this point, it's hard to project how much work is involved for me, but at the very least it would be the equivalent of a 2 hour session for him, and it could possibly be as much as an overnight.)

If any providers have insight here, I would appreciate it.

I chatted with him before the pandemic on another site. He's a Brazilian with a professional degree who's moved to the US and is doing this kind of work now.  He was nice, charming to chat with, but we never got around to meeting and so no direct experience. 

I'm wondering whether any of you have encountered a situation similar to something that's come up for me. 

In the spring, I hired an escort who was very personable and we had a good conversation amid a very good session. It turned out he wanted my advice about the creative field in which I work and soon after the session I spent a couple of hours (3 at most) looking at his work and giving some advice. 

There was a miscommunication at that time--he didn't understand the etiquette of asking for a freebie. Although he later apologized (after he reached out to me asking whether I wanted to book another session, and I pointed out how he had failed), it affected me enough that I didn't feel quite right about hiring him again. Not that I have any animosity toward him. 

Now he's back in touch, asking me to look at his creative efforts more in depth.  

I have the time to do this (and this is what I do for a living, albeit at a far lower hourly rate than the $300/hr he charges). And while we need to talk about the parameters of what level of feedback he wants and/or needs, I'm inclined to do it, to accept this gig.

I'm wondering whether I should bill him at my standard rate and leave it at that. Or should I suggest a barter arrangement?

Is bartering with an escort--your professional services in exchange for me--allowable, or is it somewhat creepy? I really don't know whether my even asking might seem exploitative. If I were to present this option, I would do so respectfully and I  would certainly make clear that he could pay me in cash if he prefers.  

(To put it in perspective: At this point, sight unseen, it's hard to project how much work is involved for me, but at the very least it would be the equivalent of a 2 hour session for him, and it could possibly be as much as an overnight.)

 If anyone has had a similar experience, I'd appreciate any wisdom that you may have. 

He looks a lot like the Indian Hunk who joined RentMen a few weeks ago and this board quickly targeted it as a fake ad. (That said, I wish there were some real South Asian escorts in NYC!)

He's one of my regulars and I continue to enjoy his massages. (One of the reviews on rentmasseur is mine.) 

He's personable and over the years we've had many interesting conversations. He also does body grooming--mostly shaving my back. The massages are wonderful.

I agree. Very sexy. Might be worth the plunge!