WstVlgChris

Most of us have probably already heard enough on this chain to make him a Must to Avoid! 🤣

And for someone who describes himself as hairy, the public photos show a very smooth chest. 

Escorts, how open are you to barter arrangements? 

In the spring, I hired an escort who was very personable and we had a good conversation amid a very good session. It turned out he wanted my advice about the creative field in which I work and soon after the session I spent a couple of hours (3 at most) looking at his work and giving some advice. 

There was a miscommunication at that time--he didn't understand the etiquette of asking for a freebie. Although he later apologized (after he reached out to me asking whether I wanted to book another session, and I pointed out how he had failed), it affected me enough that I didn't feel quite right about hiring him again. Not that I have any animosity toward him. 

Now he's gotten back in touch, asking me to look at his creative efforts more in depth.  

I have the time to do this (and this is what I do for a living, albeit at a far lower hourly rate than the $300/hr he charges). And while we need to talk about the parameters of what level of feedback he wants and/or needs, I'm inclined to do it, to accept this gig.

I'm wondering whether I should bill him at my standard rate and leave it at that. Or should I suggest a barter arrangement?

Is bartering with an escort--your professional services in exchange for mine--okay, or is it somewhat creepy and exploitative?  If I were to present this option, I would do so respectfully and I  would certainly make clear that he could pay me in cash if he prefers.  

(To put it in perspective: At this point, it's hard to project how much work is involved for me, but at the very least it would be the equivalent of a 2 hour session for him, and it could possibly be as much as an overnight.)

If any providers have insight here, I would appreciate it.

I chatted with him before the pandemic on another site. He's a Brazilian with a professional degree who's moved to the US and is doing this kind of work now.  He was nice, charming to chat with, but we never got around to meeting and so no direct experience. 

I'm wondering whether any of you have encountered a situation similar to something that's come up for me. 

In the spring, I hired an escort who was very personable and we had a good conversation amid a very good session. It turned out he wanted my advice about the creative field in which I work and soon after the session I spent a couple of hours (3 at most) looking at his work and giving some advice. 

There was a miscommunication at that time--he didn't understand the etiquette of asking for a freebie. Although he later apologized (after he reached out to me asking whether I wanted to book another session, and I pointed out how he had failed), it affected me enough that I didn't feel quite right about hiring him again. Not that I have any animosity toward him. 

Now he's back in touch, asking me to look at his creative efforts more in depth.  

I have the time to do this (and this is what I do for a living, albeit at a far lower hourly rate than the $300/hr he charges). And while we need to talk about the parameters of what level of feedback he wants and/or needs, I'm inclined to do it, to accept this gig.

I'm wondering whether I should bill him at my standard rate and leave it at that. Or should I suggest a barter arrangement?

Is bartering with an escort--your professional services in exchange for me--allowable, or is it somewhat creepy? I really don't know whether my even asking might seem exploitative. If I were to present this option, I would do so respectfully and I  would certainly make clear that he could pay me in cash if he prefers.  

(To put it in perspective: At this point, sight unseen, it's hard to project how much work is involved for me, but at the very least it would be the equivalent of a 2 hour session for him, and it could possibly be as much as an overnight.)

 If anyone has had a similar experience, I'd appreciate any wisdom that you may have. 

He looks a lot like the Indian Hunk who joined RentMen a few weeks ago and this board quickly targeted it as a fake ad. (That said, I wish there were some real South Asian escorts in NYC!)

He's one of my regulars and I continue to enjoy his massages. (One of the reviews on rentmasseur is mine.) 

He's personable and over the years we've had many interesting conversations. He also does body grooming--mostly shaving my back. The massages are wonderful.

I agree. Very sexy. Might be worth the plunge!

2 hours ago, Bluefin said:

After looking at his profile he messaged me and said “Is daddy looking for a massage from baby” …..

I also got a message after looking at his profile, but without the Daddy/baby thing!  LOL

I've been discussing having a 4-hand massage as a birthday present to myself with one of my regular go-to masseurs. He has suggested Alex as the other masseur should we go ahead.

So, while I've not yet had a personal experience, the fact that my guy is recommending Alex means something, right?  (And I've seen the un-blurred pics; nice looking Slavic guy.)

I get my back shaved sometimes at Why Not? on West 4th St. in Greenwich Village. There's one guy there who I think is the manager and he always does it.  A good job, and not too expensive.

www.whynotmenspa.com