uwsman2
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uwsman2 got a reaction from liubit in Completely Lost
There are young men out there who are attracted to older men. Don’t assume that connecting with somebody is an impossible task. Get out into the world and be open to opportunities.
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uwsman2 got a reaction from + bigjoey in Completely Lost
There are young men out there who are attracted to older men. Don’t assume that connecting with somebody is an impossible task. Get out into the world and be open to opportunities.
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uwsman2 got a reaction from nate_sf in Completely Lost
There are young men out there who are attracted to older men. Don’t assume that connecting with somebody is an impossible task. Get out into the world and be open to opportunities.
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uwsman2 reacted to + robear in Completely Lost
Woulda shoulda coulda gets none of us anywhere. Be in the now and create the life you want for yourself, starting today. Make an inventory of your abilities and interesting things about you that others might share, drawing them to you. Are you a good cook, avid reader, green-thumb gardener, Star Trek nut, etc.? Emphasize the plusses, not on your (perceived) minuses.
Focus on meeting and learning to socialize with gay/bi men, without loading it with expectations of sex or romance, at least at first. Volunteer at a gay organization, join a gay book club, etc. Depends of course on where you live, may not be readily available if not in a big city, but the internet is your friend.
Finally, and maybe it's a cliche, but this is a big period of transition in your life. If not already doing so, find a gay-affirming therapist to help you unpack all this stuff. There are a thousand details that strangers on a chat board can't possibly process. Geography is not an impediment, since lockdown many therapists have remained available via Zoom etc. Contact a big-city LGBT+ org for help or referrals.
Good luck to you, and congratulations on your new journey!
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uwsman2 got a reaction from liubit in Gay escort guide?
Aaron Lawrence. There is a blast from the past. I actually had some play dates with him. A gorgeous twink back in the day, and very entrepreneurial. I suspect he made his pile from escorting, invested well, and retired to do other things.
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uwsman2 got a reaction from caramelsub in Do you find Zelenskyy attractive?
He is definitely a very handsome man, and his bravery enhances his attractiveness. But I do not find him particularly sexy.
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uwsman2 reacted to Kevin Slater in Gay escort guide?
Frankly, no. Not sure what advice I'd trust from someone who has only been on the one side of the transaction, once. Perhaps search harder. I'm sure there are some how-to guides out there, a few of them good even.
Never read it, but have heard others hold this one in esteem: The Male Escort's Handbook: Your Guide to Getting Rich the Hard Way by Aaron Lawrence. It may be dated by now.
You could also refer them to this site, specifically the ask a provider forum.
Kevin Slater
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uwsman2 reacted to Gentopman in Younger Tops / Older Bottoms
Yeah, the fantasy for younger men is for a Daddy to fuck them. The thing is, so many Dads can't get it up or keep it up, so they like to bottom. Younger guys who can get hard and top them is a godsend, so you can see how the fantasy started and why so many escorts are tops.
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