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met with him...and would attest to what you just said. and yes, he may not be the go-to person for great massages, but he definitely stretched me in pleasantly surprising ways ?

can't believe Dr. Jim Hartley is the Shady Grove Slayer ...lol, a shot in the dark, but that's who I bet the slayer is and I may have a non-soap, infamous hunk that could play Bolt Bigelow...id say he's well-educated - of the Ivy League kind as far as title goes, how about "A Memorable Trip Inside Shady Grove"

you got me at crazy rich asians...this weekend should be fun

@Merboy can do the cast interview for this play via YouTube! ? also, he may be running out of profile name combinations that combines Hung, IvyLeague, and Vers...if he's reading this, perhaps he can visit this thread for ideas: Provider Account Name Recommendations

does he need a professional fluffer? am sure I can take a few more days off... width=986pxhttps://alchetron.com/cdn/The-Fluffer-images-59deb013-a0f5-4037-843a-47725978ae7.jpg[/img]

Never heard of this Netflix show until a neighbor friend told me how he stumbled upon this last night and ended up binge-watching the stuff. Anybody heard of this and/or would recommend?

There are times, like this week, when I try to step back from everything (internet, phone, TV) and just self-reflect. Being 35 I guess for some people is still relatively young, though I wouldn't necessarily say it's too young given retirement age and average mortality rates. For some of the esteemed, more experienced members in the forum, would you say you have lived a fulfilled life? Perhaps it is never something one can plan and strategize for, though I wonder if there are some sage, hopefully non-judgmental advice or lessons learned, for those that have been on earth for a while on what they wished they have done or could have done to say they have lived a fulfilled life.

lol, I just did it - thanks for reminding about the feature! I chuckled a lil bit on one of the other posts in this thread but didn't wanna bring unnecessary attention as there's already a dedicated thread for it ?

all good - was referring to your post on this thread

I like him...great music, total hottie. width=986pxhttps://i.pinimg.com/originals/74/60/36/746036f55283f74bad797c886daf818d.jpg[/img]width=986pxhttps://storage.googleapis.com/bri-web-app-wordpress/2019/02/2656bfa5-shawn-mendes-strips-down-for-lat.jpg[/img]

my last post for a while... width=986pxhttps://i.pinimg.com/736x/ad/bc/c8/adbcc88adfd6a9e52c616f13983c8d33.jpg[/img]width=986pxhttps://i.pinimg.com/originals/01/db/4e/01db4e295740b9d8c53cfb12a4371ab9.jpg[/img]

I thought names with clicks were awesome, until Russell Peters gave a scenario when it might not be great in all cases ?‍♂️

Noah (idk - I just think it's unique enough and not too many letters to write or fill out a scantron form) and Cody coz I wanna manifest BDE - seems like folks with that name just have a nice equipment, right @Hung_Cody?

Thanks for the advice and suggestions, guys! Appreciate it.

I think your selfie on the In and Out of Jeans thread was already deleted, so I had to settle to looking at TigerToby's pic...assuming that was the guy you were referring to in your above post, then yea...impressive, definitely don't need this special. Lol.

*@joemendoza aggressively doing some @big dale dick hunt research on the forum*

Nice, @BuffaloKyle! My sexual adventures really just started in January last year, so I would say around 90-100 unique guys. I do not anticipate to be as slutty as I got last year, but I totally understand when guys no longer remember the number of men they have hooked up with. If I wanted to be accurate, then I should have started a spreadsheet, but am too lazy and scared (of getting hacked) to even think of doing something like that.

Are we on track?

Thanks, @HotWhiteThirties. Yea, I would plan to meet with him at some point when he's still here, but just feel like I wouldn't enjoy the experience if I pushed through it tonight. Would you have gone ahead with the 9p appointment? I figured I needed to give him more time so he could accept new appointments to fill the 10p slot, since I only paid for an hour.

I am not the best communicator, and I always think there are things I can do better in my interactions with people, including providers. Now, as you could read from my posts and retorts, I could be cheeky, sarcastic, and dirty-minded, and I own all of it. What I still have not managed to do consistently is effectively managing emotions when I feel some kind of way based on how I interpret written communication. This will be a learning moment for me, so I will be sharing an exchange I had with a provider I was supposed to meet tonight that I ended up canceling - open to suggestions on how I could have handled my emotion and the situation better: background: met with the provider last year, had a great time, gave him great review, and we texted occasionally even when he was not in the area provider is versatile, indicates into role-play based on the RM profile but we never discussed role-play in our session or any other time after we did the deed, he mentioned he was glad that I wasn't a bitchy bottom and mentioned some of the things he did not like of bottoms in general provider texted me last week indicating that he'd be in the area for a couple of weeks and asked if I wanted to meet up. I said yes, and flirty and dirty conversations between us ensued leading to this weekend, texts have always been fun and flirtatious until today (but nothing aggressive as one might think in a master-dom scenario)... conversation - today (appointment scheduled for 9:00 PM for 2 hours); previous text alluded to someone pounding my cute hole and the other saying that his hole is all his...then this: me [1:00 PM]: Just in case you feel inspired or horny...some positions to inspire us - side by side, turtle (did not realize he was on the plane when I sent the text, so was singing on Smule in the meantime for a few hours) provider [4:00 PM]: I can't see them on the plane but I don't do these sorts of things. If I fuck you, I'm in charge and your job as the bottom is to shut the fuck up and take it. A bottom should never stop the top for any reason unless you experience pain. But if he stops me for some bs like to change positions or to check if he is clean, I'm done fucking him and I'm not happy about his need to control the situation. Those dudes are tops and need to be fucking me. Bottoms must top in order to learn how to be a good bottom. The opposite is also true. (was taken aback at first read, and re-read the text a few more times just to check if there would be other ways to interpret the text. he mentioned some of the things he texted in our first session but I thought he was mad at me. not sure of how he felt when he texted it to me, I went with a response assuming that maybe he wanted to take the flirtatious texting a level up and take it more aggressively...) me [4:15 PM]: Yes sir provider [4:16 PM]: Lol I was half asleep when I wrote that on the plane (so at this point, my assumption that it probably was a role-play text was wrong, but now I was just in my feels that maybe he meant the text for me. now I was no longer in the mood to meet up or actually to do anything sexually with anyone tonight, but was not sure if I wanted to actually cancel or reschedule) me [4:20 PM]: I wasn't sure if it's like a master dom type of roleplay response or something. Well am open to top someone too ?. Anyway, see you later, (this is when I actually started drafting this post, but could not think straight so was watching some YouTube clips of the FabFive Queer Eye interviews) (for the next 2 hours thought about pushing through with the appointment thinking that I was just being overly sensitive and was overthinking the situation, but because I was no longer feeling it, I decided to Venmo him for his rate for 1 hour) me [6:30 PM]: Hey man, glad you arrived safely to DC. Maybe I just am over sensitive or reading too much into things, but I might just take a raincheck for tonight. I was trying to be flirty, albeit horribly executed, when I sent the text about positions I haven't tried, but I was honestly taken aback with not necessarily the response (since you have mentioned some of that to me last time), but how the reply came across to me. Tried to make light of it in my last response, but am just not in the right headspace now to continue. I did send something to your Venmo for the trouble. Have a good night, and take care, bud! (ordered myself a bang-bang shrimp, mahi-mahi with rice and coleslaw from BoneFish Grill for delivery) provider [7:10 PM]: Oh damn. I'm sorry. I certainly didn't mean to offend you. Like I said I wrote it when I was asleep so I don't really know what it said but I'll reread it now. I'm disappointed because I was looking forward to spending some time with you this evening. And I really hate that I can't see you as a result of something I said in a text provider [7:12 PM]: Again I'm sorry. I really do want to see you. provider [7:15 PM]: I'm not taking your money without providing you with a good dicking down provider [7:15 PM]: I am off to DC now. I hope you will reconsider me [7:18 PM]: No worries. You're here in DC for a while so I'm sure we shall meet up at some point. I want both of us to have a great time when we meet, so we shall do that when both timing and mood are right. Have fun in the city, and will reconnect. ? provider [7:35 PM]: Just reread my text and it comes across like I'm mad at you but I'm not. The message wasn't even in reference to you. It was just a rambling while I slept on the plane. It was truthful, but it doesn't even apply to you at all. You're not one of the bitchy bottoms I speak of in my message. Sorry you took that personally and became uncomfortable. I don't know what else to say. me [7:37 PM]: Babe, no worries. I knew that's how you felt and you explained the context, so I'm good. Don't worry about me, have fun out there tonight, and we will catch up some other time. My hole still yearns for some dicking down from you, so we shall catch up later. ??? (continued writing this post until my food delivery arrived at 7:58 PM, then continued to finish the rest of the stuff here) I know it's a lot, and really quite one-sided since I am only sharing the convo and where my head is at in this. But based on the above, what could I have done differently in my interaction with the provider? Okay, let me go eat my dinner now.

calling resident Golden Girls expert, @samhexum, do you concur?

damn straight! ?

how about some animated tv theme songs...?