MysticMenace

So not this type of cockfight...

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Oh my. Where to start... This was my third time meeting with this "straight" provider, who introduced me into the world of BDSM. Let's just say my first interaction with him was pretty bad - paid him in advance and flaked on me. I have since confronted this 6'3 hunk of a guy at his place when I first met up with him and that was when our story started (potentially for another thread or post). He had told me initially that he does not kiss, top, or give oral or hand jobs but we got to do more fun stuff once I agreed to start BDSM play with him. Then we continued to meet up, On my third time meeting with him, acknowledging his limitations, I was perfectly fine with the set up - do a little role play while he ties me up in a stretched position and do our typical BDSM activities - wax, ice, flogging, spanking, the like. And we got into our agreed upon role play scenario until he flipped the script on me, and for someone who did not get hard without watching straight porn, I felt that 8" rock hard erection. Blindfolded, I just felt his right hand grasping and pulling down my chin and opening my mouth, heard a hacking sound, and there goes the spit. I was shocked - did not expect it. And what I did not expect was his tongue playing with his spit and my tongue. My humble equipment also got rock hard and in another shocking surprise, he gave me a hand job and next thing I know, he was topping me. And he was always turned on every time we get to make out and him spitting into my mouth as he leans in for the kiss. And since he was a chainsmoker, it was extra hot that he remembered to shower and used a mouthwash prior to the session.

@Gar1eth, hope some of our thoughts or recommendations helped. Although it sounds like your next steps are on point.

Lol, I can't tell. I hope he's telling me the truth, or at least his version of it. Last time we chatted was August, so it had been quite some time.

And by "too much drama" by text, are we referring to his "life situation"? I mean, I am not saying I wasn't a recipient of all the dramatic texts after our first and only provider-client encounter, but I am generally friendly with him and he updates me from time to time on how his new business is doing.

Oh no, it's a great show! And I would have clicked on "like" if you had said never have you ever seen RPDR. Lol.

This Alaska?

I have had a thing for him, Sam Mikulak, Jake Dalton, Chris Brooks, and Alex Naddour for quite some time.

Based on @Gar1eth's narrative, I think distance, time, and the realities of a pandemic have made other things grow in more than just fondly ways...?

Field Trip?

Sounds like you got it handled. If he wants you, he will find a way to find and meet up with you. Agreed that he probably needs to do the work if he wants that [fill in the blank].

I like him. After our amazing time, he took me out to my first gay bars (I cannot remember now but they had Drag Show night on that Friday) and (Green Lantern).

Thank you everyone for your openness and vulnerability in sharing your experiences. I am learning quite a lot of lessons here.

Perhaps in your follow-up, unless you already decided to meet up with him, ask him how and to what extent he wants you. Does he want you... to continue to be a f*ckbuddy? to explore having a relationship? something else? Depending on those answers (and other potential follow-ups from those answers), you might be a bit more informed on what to do next depending on what you would want from him either now or going forward.

I'm not a top (yet) - but boy, that position is just getting me all hot and bothered.

Looking forward to meeting you, @FRyan22 - especially if you are greeting in the same manner as your profile pic ?

Lol, I'm lost. Not sure why my response to another thread was quoted here. I personally do not have an issue with RM Messenger, especially with what I mainly use it for (proof to webmaster that contact was made, answering questions to clients of other providers) but I can understand the frustrations that members have with the platform.

Have not been, but I am guessing there will be some sensual dances, and maybe lap dances? ?

I feel like I have to explain myself here. I was not incarcerated. I visited a regional jail for my capstone project in college on how to reduce jail recidivism among individuals with mental health conditions.

I was too. Oh well, I guess will just watch out for when you'll visit the area.

It looks like @joshnineplus is headed to DC! #excited

Well at least somebody got HE between the two of you. LOL.

I bet he touched up more than just the paint job...or other "jobs."