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And that is ok. The main take away is to always communicate to avoid bad experiences, etiher before or during the in person meeting, because as you, some providers have had bad experiences too. The objective is that both, provider and client, have a good time.

I'm with Milo. I don't pay $$$ 'On Arrival', or 'Upfront'.

Never EVER pay upfront. If he asks for the $ first, turn your ass around and run.

NEVER EVER PAY UPFRONT!! NEVER!

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I would love to know where Jerry is, too. He gave me 3 or 4 massages pre-Covid and his hands are electric! He's one masseur I truly miss. I texted Ben a few times around their reopening. He responded to all of my questions except for "Is Jerry coming back?" I haven't seen him on their FB schedule since their re-opening. Had Yura once but I was not impressed. August is great but I still miss Jerry. ? Just curious if he's at another spa or if he's still even in NYC?

Everytime I've paid up front whether it's for just massage or full service, I've always received a lack luster experience & time cut short. I've considered just leaving when asked to pay first but I feel like it's a catch-22 situation, so I don't. Pay & get crappy service/disappointment or leave & possibly get into a crazy situation with the provider. What do you do?
 
Also, if I'm paying upfront it's a for sure no tip at the point. The payment part is always really awkward for me, and I definitely don't want to do it twice for the same meeting in the odd chance & I really had a great time and wanted to tip.

We're all worried about Asia? Numbers wise, the worst place to be right now is in a major city in the good ole USA!

I'm really mixed on this question which is why ive not chimed in yet.
 
I have only had a few. Mostly I don't due to cost.
 
It really depends on who is doing it. I would also say 4hand on a table way better than on a bed.
 
ONE couple was great IMO (it was heaven - they were in total sync. My brain was in overload as one part of my body was getting worked on and wow another part is at the same time). If it is done properly and the 2 are in sync, then I think it is a great experience!!
 
Rest were not. The Ezra/Mason combo was on the NOT side (but I hear they broke up now so...)

I'll chime in with another "sensory overload" comment.
 
I haven't had many 4-handed massages. Still, the few times I've done it, I discovered that I prefer just one masseur so I can focus on enjoying what's happening. For me, I didn't like having to split my attention to two areas.

I've had a few (3?) and was always disappointed with the dynamics. I much prefer the fraternity I feel with a one on one.

I have a few, loved them. If the two are a couple, I have found they are more likely to be playful with me and each other, making it a quick road to a threesome. I have had one where the lead was highly dominated over the second making it uncomfortable for both of us. It isn’t a training session.
 
Try being blindfolded, a suggestion from one 4 hand couple. It made it more erotic, didn’t know where the hands, body and/or parts were. It was a totally “hard” 90 minutes, for all of us. Didn’t know who was cumming or going, lol

they can be ok, but I agree sensory overload. I prefer a longer session with one person I enjoy.

I’ve had one - it was choreographed and mechanical. They were a couple and while it was nice to have two people working on me, I felt like it was extra money that was not worth it. I’ll stick to singles.

Or that pair of shoes at Nordstrom that chased me around the internet for three days.
 
But seriously, I've never received a warning message when using rentmasseur.

I think being early is good as long as there's good communication and no expectations. I've set up a few appts saying I might be early. And other times when I arrive faster than expected, I just let them know I'm nearby and they can let me know when they are ready. I mean really, if they are available and can free up 10-15 min on the other end of the appt, why not? Twice I've encountered traveling escorts/masseurs who were running appts back-to-back and were obvious about it. That's their fault for scheduling so tight. With the masseur in question, I passed the previous client in the hotel hallway on my way in and the next client as I was leaving. (Saw them leaving/entering the masseur's room.)

For my best practices, I have learned to be as clear as possible of my desires when making the appt. I usually want kissing, rimming and anal with the escort being the bottom. I get my price up front. I've had guys try to pull an "a la carte" deal on me while we're in the middle of things (oh, anal will be an extra $XX). Nope, no more of that crap. Now, if I set kissing/rimming/anal as my prearranged request and then I say I want to add bondage into the mix after we get started, then that's on me. Of course, you still get "yes men" who agree to everything ahead of time but then reality is another story... It's frustrating but that's on them when it comes time to pay (or tip) and the review. ?‍♂️

I usually say something along the lines of "Sorry but I don't think we are a good match." It doesn't directly put the perceived blame on them. I'm not into Trans guys in a similar (yet opposite?) way that I'm not into cross dressers/drag queens/transsexuals. I don't find women attractive so why would I want a guy in women's clothes or a Trans man with a pussy? I support them for who they are, who they've become and all that, but I'm not sexually interested in them.

I usually say something along the lines of "Sorry but I don't think we are a good match." It doesn't directly put the perceived blame on them. I'm not into Trans guys in a similar (yet opposite?) way that I'm not into cross dressers/drag queens/transsexuals. I don't find women attractive so why would I want a guy in women's clothes or a Trans man with a pussy? I support them for who they are, who they've become and all that, but I'm not sexually interested in them.

I hate paying up front. I have almost always been disappointed when I paid first. There is no incentive to do a good job when they already have the money. I usually still pay the base rate when service isn't good but no tip. I have paid less, like about half the original price, on a couple of occasions when things went south early on in the session and I left early. For example, there was an escort who "promised the world" in our email correspondence but only gave me about 30 seconds of service before saying he needed to use the bathroom to properly clean himself (which he should have done before, of course). He came back in a few minutes but said he couldn't perform anymore - only light stuff for the rest of the session. I got dressed, gave him a little money and left with him yelling at me for full payment. I was probably there for only 15-20 minutes at most and the problem was on his end, not mine. (If the problem was ever on my end, I would pay in full though.)

For those providers who want payment upfront... state it in your ad.

I always get suspicious of the stilted English reviews...not to mention putting the space before the comma instead of after.

After they upgraded and changed the new management.It’s been a pleasure place to go .They have Thai masseur,Indonisia masseur,Chinese masseurs and American.
My first masseur was David,althrough his English is limited but he’s a welcome guy and even extend a few minutes for my feet to complete the full body Massage.That’s a plus.
Then I tried indonisia guy Ken and Thai guy Win ,they are different types .But I always get satisfied anyway.
This spa is a definitely to go place now.

For my best practices, I have learned to be as clear as possible of my desires when making the appt. I usually want kissing, rimming and anal with the escort being the bottom. I get my price up front. I've had guys try to pull an "a la carte" deal on me while we're in the middle of things (oh, anal will be an extra $XX). Nope, no more of that crap. Now, if I set kissing/rimming/anal as my prearranged request and then I say I want to add bondage into the mix after we get started, then that's on me. Of course, you still get "yes men" who agree to everything ahead of time but then reality is another story... It's frustrating but that's on them when it comes time to pay (or tip) and the review. ?‍♂️

Oh yeah, I'm sure it's my anti-virus. Sorry I didn't say that specifically. It doesn't do that with any other adult sites I use (and I am pretty careful about not exploring new sites. I tend to stick to the "tried and true" perverted sites.) ?