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Being an extraverted introvert (which means I won't go out of my way to go out)... my routine won't change much once quarantine is lifted ?

no, it's not normal and it's a terrible business practice!

Agreed!

Yes I actually find it reassuring that an escort wants some form of contact ahead of a meet up. It helps both parties get a sense of each other that no form of texting can do. A quick call or FaceTime works fine for me and i use it as much to reassure myself that I am Ok with the escort as much as he may be checking me out. Not foolproof but has helped me avoid some potentially disastrous meet ups.

I usually do this for a potential overnight. But I still don't have the client show their face... I mostly want them to see that I'm a real person. ? I think I'm too trusting? Haha. But after doing this career for some time, I've gotten a LOT better at trusting my gut instinct. Trustworthy clients are easy to spot out now ?

I'd second @TruthBTold. Rhyheim does a great job (@SRhyheim on twitter)... but he also works like a maniac ?. He tells me he's lazy but I really admire his work ethic. I think like anything else, what you put in is what you get out.

I don't think onlyfans (or any social media for that matter) can be done casually... at least... if one intends to achieve 'career' level income with it, then it takes a 'career' amount of time investment (at least, that's my current running theory). That being said, it is a lot less time than a 9-5 ?. And a part of it involves sex!

Mine is doing OK ?

I’ve bought providers nice Frye boots, always USA or Italian made. I’ve also bought Tumi backpacks with their monogram, in addition to leather or bead bracelets.

Frye boots!! I'd love to receive a pair of those... and I'm not great at receiving gifts ?

Take him shopping. Let him choose what he likes, so you know brands for the next guy.

This sounds like a quality idea ? That is, if he likes to shop

Lately there have been raves on this site about this chap who is based in Palm Springs -

https://rent.men/AsianMuscleBttm

? Oh gosh, I’m embarrassed

Recently had a great experience with AsianMuscleBttm. He assured me that he planned on attending the Palm Springs Weekend. If you find him interesting I would guess that he might be available for hire then.

Yup! I will definitely be attending the weekend this year. Its been on my bucket list for awhile now.

Given all of the positive attention that he has received here, I would expect him to be pretty well booked up for that weekend.

I hope so!

Only/mostly by top members, and for the record I don't doubt he could top too but based on his name and amazing assets I think @asianmusclebttm Aaron Chu OnlyFans prefers to bottom and mostly appeals to top clients.

Yes ? I really only offer bottoming (as far as anal goes) and thats really because I’m the same in my personal life (you get the same guy ?)

I’m a bottom and spent a fantastic weekend with @asianmusclebttm . If you want a handsome, engaging, passionate, intelligent, muscled guy with a great personality and sense of humor who enjoys intimacy as much as a good pounding, Aaron is your guy. Those three days flew by.

Thanks RJD! We had an awesome time together. Plus lots of cuddles and good food ?

IMHO you seem to have the perfect balance just as you are.

Aw, thank you! ??

Yeah... this is a big fantasy for me. Hence me trying to get bigger and more muscular ??

No problem, and you're welcome baby. A bite size cock AND big juicy ass is still a Happy meal..... You GO boy !

Wow I love the description bite sized ?

You know who’s really close to NY? ?

YES!

Not sure if he'll ever come to Chitown for the Weekend that's held here. The Congress Hotel is really near my house.

Chicago is definitely on my list of trips to plan ?

welcome back, we've been enjoying videos of your perfect muscular butt in action

Thanks very much ??

Be better at playing sports (at which I suck)

So... cue joining gay sports leagues and finding a guy to teach me (after or before having fun with me ?)

Tops! Knowledge Ive gleaned from many escort friends.

I mean... in a practical sense, a cock is a cock but an ass can vary a lot more in terms of whether it turns someone on ?... just my (un)educated guess ?

Personally, physical appearance is not very important to me in terms of attraction to somebody ?

I've met a few who said they did it bc it's easier not to finish as the bottom for them, and they can see multiple clients in a day that way

Ive heard this from a lot of my vers escort buddies, even though they get hired as a top much more.

I’ve definitely had “straight” inquirers... but those calls/texts don’t usually go anywhere.

Ive had plenty of clients who are still married, often with kids. Some know what they want (sex!) But Ive had a client or two that just wanted foreplay. Maybe because of a mix of inexperience and lots of caution ?

An older guy married to woman because 30 or 40 years ago he had to do it for social reasons doesn't make him straight if he always had a desire for men.

This I definitely agree with and encounter frequently enough.

Oops, I used my lurker account to reply ?.

@jjkrkwood thank you!! @Epigonos actually advised me to advertise my cock more

@dutchal @BuffaloKyle I’m looking forward to planning a trip to NY soon, just nothing planned at the moment. I just need a gym to be open! ??

@thedanNYC too funny ?

I’m a loud and proud XXXXX so I haven’t encountered anything like that. If I did... I don’t live in a small enough town for that!

We don't use that word on the message-forum.

Well look who has dipped his toe into porn. I hope you don’t mind I post this. I really need to get you back to the east coast for a visit. ??

https://www.queermenow.net/blog/aaron-chu-asian-gay-porn-hunk-rhyheim-shabazz/

Yes! Thank you for finding it ?. I'm incredibly excited about it. I definitely intended to escort and did NOT intend to get into porn, but my foray into it has been a BLAST!

And I have a feeling getting to the East Coast is just around the corner!

Hot. The big Apple wants a bite.

Thank you! I cannot wait to get to NYC ?

I’m positive your client thought you were super kind, too. ???

He did! ? ?

Aaron - Nice to see you on here.

I hope you don't mind that I post the cute story of how we met a couple of weeks ago!

Not at all! I spied you too, I went "oo, a handsome gay man!" It was great to meet another escort and connect ?. Nice finish to my day in LA.

@asianmusclebttm Holy moly, I saw your review on the page and got sucked into at least 20 minutes of looking at your pictures on rentmen. I actually just hopped on here with the intent of putting up a posting of how ridiculously handsome and nice you seem...and it looks as though I am late to that party. You are a handsome looking fellow, and I am hoping this COVID thing calms down so I Can do a weekend in Palm Springs this summer and I can see you in person. Literally, your are now in my 'top ten sexy guys of all time' list

Gosh. Thank you so much for the compliments ?. It doesn't get old ?, I feel very lucky. You're making me blush haha.

I'd be very excited to see you in Palm Springs, not to mention its a great vacay spot (imo).

I'd like to watch a nicely uncut, hung top "TAP" that hot ass after it had received a good rimming from me. Perhaps after the pandemic has done a great lifting!

Fuck. That is a very hot idea. ?

I lost count of how many of us NYers/East Coast denizens would want to see you should you find yourself in our neck of the woods.

I can't wait to get out to NY! Thank you for the welcome ?

Congratulations @asianmusclebttm cover boy (in the other site)!

Thank you! I was extremely excited to see that ?

Nice to read good things about you in Daddy’s Reviews. https://www.daddysreviews.com/cruise/newest ??

Hey thanks a lot! ? He was super kind to write all those things about me ☺️

What happens when the client is having a great time but not so much for the escort? I know that we hire you guys for our pleasure, but how important is your pleasure and enjoyment in a session?

SO important! Sex and intimacy is a dance. Obviously I prioritize my clients’ pleasure but truth is obvious and I know my clients will have a much better time if I’m also happy and enjoying myself.

Like others have said, communication is so important, in sex in general!

I think part of the service I provide isn’t just the sex or intimacy but a capacity to be attracted to and have fun with a wide range of men.

I think this kind of thing is inevitable, afterall a good escort will want their client to feel amazing. Plus sex is a gateway to deeper connection.

But this is also where I think being business-headed is important - afterall its a transaction for a service. Sometimes the escort may be giving it their “all” and isn’t like that normally. Or an escort could be blinded by money, since its heavily linked with feelings of caretaking. So basically in my opinion, boundaries are important!

I actually love escorting because I can put in 100% intimacy and I know the session has an end. Whereas I have to be careful with hookups because people can get attached quickly when neither party means to.

Well, I have an accepted offer for a nice house in the Hollywood hills

In any case, congratulations!!

May I inquire as to what kind of work is involved?

I mean that any relationship is work, trans or not. Being trans certainly comes with its unique set of baggage and insecurities, that you have to remember are not yours to fix.

Are the two of you related? I see some familiarity.,,

Probably in spirit ? confident bottoms!

Communication!!! Probably the most key factor. Good communication in setting up the appointment and discussing expectations / likes / things to avoid - makes for a much easier and comfortable session. Eliminates guess work! Then the escort AND the client are more at ease and happier.