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Interesting how you don’t like Asians, but you also don’t like hairy... Dude... Asians are the least hairy ethnic group of all humanity...?

 

But I guess if you have to choose between a hairy White guy, and a hairless Asian... then like “rock, paper, scissors” of “preferences”.... it’s race over hairiness.... ?

I would choose neither. You are going nuts about this.

Bless your heart....

 

The preferences isn’t what makes a person racist.... the ideologies behind their preferences is what makes them racist...

 

let’s examine your post:

 

“Another friend likes BBC”.... You couldn’t even identify him as a man, a person or a human being, just a big black phallic... if that’s all you see when you see a black man, then you obviously wouldn’t be attracted to them...

 

To minimize racial “preferences”, to the preference of a guy’s level of hairiness is Comparing apples and oranges....

 

Ask yourself why you don’t like blacks andAsians sexually, and introspectively address every single assumption, stereotype, image, and belief you have about them...This will tell you fat more about yourself, and your “preferences”,

You are too sensitive about this. If I knew I would write "Another friend likes blacks". Happy now?

As for me, I like caucasian blonds probably because my first experience was with a blond Dutch boy we shared a room at boarding school. I am not going to work on changing my sexual preferences. I prefer to enjoy them.

The term “preference”, is just a current, “softer”, term for prejudice....

 

Let’s just call “preference” what it really is.....

 

DIET RACISM

 

or

 

RACISM-“LITE”

I think its obvious that I refer to sexual preferences.

I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.

 

However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?

Having preferences is not racism. My best friend adores Asians to the point we make fun at him. Another friend likes BBC. I do not like sexually either. Same as I do not like hairy. Does this make me a racist? It is just a sexual preference. Same as If I say that I am 100% btm does not make me a racist.

 

Escorts are people and have their sexual preferences as all of us. It is better to communicate before and find a good match than having a bad experience.

"Antonio" and "Alex" were too good to be true. These photos are from professional models. Also "Antonio"'s stats are off. He cannot be 187cm/88Kg.

 

In contrast, Hardsex is ugly enough to be true ? but as @coriolis888 said, he has one bad review that his photos are outdated. This review is from 2015. Imagine how outdated they are by now. Good luck.

You totally misread my entire post.

No.

Gaydar may be good at reading gay guys who send off a particular set of vibes, but the real question for me is whether it can pick up, with 95% accuracy, all gay guys. How many gay guys go under the gaydar because they don’t put off the vibes?

 

If gaydar is 95% accurate in the cases that put off vibes, but say only 75% of gay guys put off vibes (being generous here), that means out of 100 gay guys, you’d only identify 70ish%.

So 70% is not enough for you? You are such a hot stud that you need 100% of the gay population to satisfy tour needs? Oh pls give us a break...

It was less than a year ago. How could you forget? You are obviously europeanman You say the same things. If by some phenomenal odds you aren't him, you might as well be Different people like different things. The muscles on the guys you like barely even show. Not usually to my taste at all.

 

Gman

I just remembered why I left.

Were you "europeanman"?

I had another profile name I cannot remember.

 

Fashion/runway models are thin but have muscles as well. It seems they manage to keep the overall physique slim even with muscles. They are my favourites.

we are going to wonder if you are a former member from Europe in a new guise

I am from Europe and I used to be a member years ago. I could not remember my username and made a new one. No guise or disguise.

 

I do not like muscled guys. Fit and defined yes, bodybuilders absolutely no. I often read in profiles muscled and I see fat. You are right that this may be a European thing. If you browse Hungz listings across Europe there are more lean profiles.

A certain guy who just deactivated his profile ?

He's cute. But I want to buy him some muscle milk and a gym membership for a month with a personal trainer.

 

Gman

He is cute as is. Why beef him up? There are plenty of fat/muscled escorts.

Do guys on IG actually respond to proposals? There’s a ton of hotties but aren’t they all trainers or fitness models? How do you know how to pick one that’d be open to it?

Just ask via DM.

In Europe, Rentmen is the second option. Hungz prevails. There is also Sleepyboy that is the best option for London/UK and some smaller sites for Spain and East Europe.

With the effeminate guys it can be too obvious.

Actually, the "effeminate" guys confused me. The young generation, a bit shy, ultra polite well mannered and polished, with perfect grooming, some with light make up, some with heavy make up and straight.

My gaydar is quite reliable. Generally it works. It did not work with some macho ultra straight looking guys and it also did not work with some effeminate young guys who were straight.

I prefer to have "evenings", ie fun + drinks/dinner. The first time I call an escort for an hour. I meet him at the hotel bar and if we click, I ask if he is available for an evening arrangement and agree on a flat fee. If we do not click, I pay for the hour and say good bye.

I am reading Sapiens-A Brief History of Humankind.

An imaginary crush with singer Jamie Bower. We never met and from what I read he is straight. By the way I cannot stand his music.

 

 

On a separate note, I supported for some years another young singer. I was surprised that he still needed support after he became famous.

Divide the number of active forum users by an estimate of the number of people hiring plus the number of escorts. Simple math.

I have a better question, in terms you may appreciate better: Cur vis similis assino videri?

 

Your inability to see why what you said was offensive says a lot about you. And your further inability to accept that it was offensive after having it pointed out says even more. You might likewise ask why you want to bury your own head in the sand on that matter.

I can effortlessly bury my head and my body. It will take tons of sand to bury yours.

Or, you know, look at other studies that show that beauty standards are learned preferences and work against prejudices.

how is ostrichism in Latin?

It shouldn’t matter if it’s a personal issue for me. It’s unacceptable to say period. Just as it’s unacceptable to say Mexicans coming to this country are criminals, drug dealers, and rapists. Or blacks are lazy and stupid. Or Asians have small dicks. I need not be a Mexican immigrant, or black man, or Asian man to be offended and outraged by such sentiments, especially when expressed. You shouldn’t be sorry that it’s personal; you should be sorry because it’s wrong prima facie. (I used some Latin so it warms your heart.)

There are studies that people like or dislike someone in the first few seconds they meet. There are numerous studies that good looking people have an easier time in their studies and their careers. Let's accept facts and stop living in an ideal fantasy world.

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It’s extremely troubling you lump obese folks into a “disgusting” category. And we need more proof there isn’t sizist discrimination in the gay community...?

There is size discrimination in the gay community. There are all sorts of discrimination in every community. This is the way it is.

 

I am sorry if I was impolite, I was not aware this is a personal issue for you.

Does yandex have any concerns about your personal data? Do they sell it? Do they snoop on your mail?

I expect they do. They all do. Google, Facebook, Apple, LinkedIn. Don't think that Yandex does anything that Google and the others don't do. After all Google invented this industry.