I removed myself from all hook-ups social media sites and apps a long time ago. Not a single one has worked out for me ever. They are all plagued with fakes, catfishers and scammers I found. I miss the good old days of gay bars and park cruising when one could meet a real person and see if we liked each other or had chemistry. It wasn't perfect, but it worked before the online fake profile and scams became a thing.