RandyVue

I'm not a provider (anymore) but here is my perspective. I have been vaccinated and boosted and live a healthy lifestyle. There will be more variants and surges to come, but life goes on. This is the new normal. It's not really a question of if we will get COVID, but more likely when, and making sure that we are healthy and/or vaccinated (if you are comfortable with the vaccine) for when it comes so that it won't be so dire. COVID is here to stay for the foreseeable future folks (years), but live healthy, maybe get vaccinated, mask up, and keep living.

The few guys involved in this may not be paying attention to the forum..it is xmas week so they may be doing xmas things with family.

Im going to be in PS in January. Anyone else heading there that month?

Very well said! You have such a healthy, wise, and mature perspective and outlook!

Sorry, I wrote that wrong. I meant 25% of sex trafficking victims are men. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2017/04/sex-trafficking

25% of of sex trafficking victims are men and the numbers are increasing. With that being the case, have any providers been concerned about meeting clients for the first time?

What is your reasoning behind choosing LA?

Out of curiosity, which cities are your least and most favorite to work?

Having a fetish is one thing, having your fetish be demeaning someone based in their race is an entirely different conversation.

Honest quiestion: What is it about demeaning Asians that turns you on???

Understood!

To masseurs and providers, Are clients booking at pre-panemic levels now that they are vaccinated? Or do you find it slower and that clients are still flakey?

The weather is just getting good out there 😃

Is anyone else here on the forum planning on going to Palm Springs in November???

My friend is white and he goes to Blatino Oasis every year and he loooooves it!!! I’ve never been to it, but he always comes back happy with many stories to share!!! It sounds like you’d have a lot of fun.

Now that you are vaccinated, are you back to hiring masseurs?

Would you stop being an escort/massuer if a client asked you to move in with him and be exclusive to him if he made sure your needs were met?

What are the best and worst things about the business?

Have you considered taking a break from the business? Just from reading your many posts, it seems that you have more negative feelings about the business than positive ones. Why not take 6 months or a year off and try something else? You may find that you don’t even miss the business. You may find a passion for something else! Change can be an incredible, life changing thing. I quit the business yrs ago and I didn’t miss it once. It’s something to consider

Are your favorite clients, the guys who tip the best or the guys you like personality wise?

Mental health comes first. I commend her!

Why don’t more masseurs come to Palm Springs during the summer? Hotel rates are cheaper this time of year so I would think that they would want to come during the summer months but there is a dearth of variety during the summer months. Is it because of the heat? Is it because there are less tourists during the summer so less profit even with cheaper hotels?

What if anything would you say sets you apart from other providers?

Lots of things are legal, it doesn’t make them the right thing to do. Public figures should be able to have boundaries too. That’s all I have to say about it.

1) Maybe she had a place to be 2) Maybe she didn’t want to take photos for tabloids that were going to use them to print lies about her anyway 3) Paparazzi are not known for being nice and often say terrible things to get a reaction shot (the money shot) so maybe she wanted to avoid them 4) She was a human being and did not need a reason for her boundaries to be honored just like any other human being Insinuating that she should’ve just taken the pictures to avoid being dangerously chased down by zealous photographers ....aren’t you embarrassed saying that? Or are you just completely void of empathy?