Tygerscent

Any descent Provider knits their own and any decent Client knits them for his laddy~

For years I created various holiday cards for the various celebrated holidays~ Lots of fun actually~ They generally had some naughty bits picture incorporated~ I also used to use an on line card service~ I still send pix and texts regularly to Clients~ Those I am currently scheduled with tend to get a bit more attention simply because there is a need there~ Sometimes people fall away for a bit due to life circumstances~ Eventually, I swing back around to light the candle again~ I generally try to remain in contact whether some one is continuing to hire me or not~ Not everyone prefers that~ So, some people I text at whatever seems to be their comfort level~ Sometimes life changes get in the way… So, communications become intermittent or random~

Many years ago, I was visiting a Client in his state. He lived with an Escort~ I was there for a few days and at one point he, his Escort roommate and I were talking about saving, investing and spending strategies in this profession… taxes etc~ This Escort taught me something: he had this career but, also a different job. The different job was what he used to pay bills~ His Escorting career job earnings were converted into gold~ The price of gold was lower then~ What a smart idea… because it went up~ With some proper knowledge on how to collect, trade, sell gold, anticipate capital gains, gage what increments to best sell at and what to anticipate in taxes, it can become a considerable investment~

Timing is part of the answer here~ Is one already in a position where they can do something with the money for others or is it beat to invest so that you can build for the future or, does one have immediate financial needs like a dental or medical bill, Mortgage payment etc. After being away from work due to a pandemic~ I think that if a person is going to be gifting something to another, once you give it to them. Your part as the giver is done. If you had expectation of the money going into something in particular, you should have paid their bill off, given to the charity yourself and maybe invited them in on it, gotten them some kind of investment~ The key word is “Gift”… Its up to the “gifted”, not the “gifted” to determine what they do with the the present~ Once the person offering takes responsibility for the destiny of what is offered once it’s given, it’s no longer a gift. It’s a loan or a contract with expectations~

The states need need move in that direction

Of your mom is a Karen, watch this movie with her~ Before she was Karen, she was Cathey~ She had to change her name after this movie~

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂❤️Bravo~!!!

Being in the E/C relationship can make a difference in how things are approached. On one occasion, an excessively drunk Client, (a regular and now deceased), kept referring to me as his (insert the “n” word here). This happened throughout the day during which time I played it off with humor and eventually just ignored after repeated simile remarks~ The comment returned several times and got worse as he got more drunk during dinner. (He was self admittedly an alcoholic with anger issues). While walking home I finally said: “that is offensive on so many levels” at which point he turned to me and grabbed me by the throat~ I stopped, hands still in my pockets and said: “really~?”. I reached up and removed his hands from my throat and then helped him walk back to the hotel. When this particular person would become insecure about himself, doubt himself, feel victimized by his health or history, he would strike out at those around him~ He might direct his anger at a chef, a waiter, hotel staff… on occasion myself~ That particular evening, he was angry with himself Bruce’s he was having difficulty walking. So, was relying on me to carry things for him~ Not a big deal to me to help him~ Happy to do that~ He just hated that he needed the help~ That behavior didn’t frighten me… when he would have these outbursts, something within him was deeply frightened and he would strike out at those around him. I’m explaining what would happen with him, not justifying it~ It’s not my place to reprimand him or anyone else… I’m not his guardian or parent~ He was an adult~ I held him accountable and advocated myself the following day once he was sober~ I will stand strong and defend myself when someone takes undue advantage of me~ Likewise, I will defend someone being wronged or disrespected~ That doesn’t mean I have to be angry back, yell, retaliate, violent in any way etc… it just means I make the boundaries clear and let it be known I will not accept or be the brunt of bad behavior~ The anger is theirs to own and be responsible for… I don’t take responsibility for someone else’s bad behavior~ They need to figure them selves out~ That’s not for me to do that for them~ I can be supportive while they work thru something~ We all need support sometimes~ Most things aren’t worth arguing about~ Life’s too short. Misunderstandings happen~ They happen in life in general even to the best of friends~ It’s rarely important or necessary to hold onto the excess weight of unimportant issues~ Use the energy to build relationships, not tear them down~ Move forward~ Sometimes someone will do you wrong, disrespect you, whatever… assume the position of being a gentleman, treat them like one, not because they are but, because you are~ Good can come of that for both parties thru the simple act of compassion~ What you can’t heal with humor and hugs, heal with heart… whatever your approach, let it stem from the compassion you might hope for with your own discrepancies~ At some point in your life you will be on the other side… Not one of us is a perfect being~ Nor are we doormats~ Move forward with mutual respect… and if that is not possible, understanding~

As opposed to a less comforting form of misery~

Yes… The onlyfans and forfansonly type sites are changing the industry~ It’s more multifaceted than what strictly the adult porn industry has previously offered~ There are many more entrepreneurs out there and they are not only the employee but, the employer~ It makes sense that these venues would put a lot of pressure on studios, if not drive them down further into struggle but, also I can see a future tax dilemma: these entrepreneurs may be seen as taxable interests where their liability falls more into the category of the “gig worker” who is also taxed not only as an employee but, an employer of their own self. (33% tax liability). These new models put a lot of individual competition out there but, also raise the bar with regard to the quality of the products that they are promoting. Some people get creative and do things that aren’t necessarily sexual. There’s a lot to be explored and there’s a lot of room for growth in that particular industry. I can imagine the potential of studios trying to incorporate those venues into their own or find a way to take them over on some corporate level. The entrepreneurialism of it excites me personally. I favor these people being their own small businesses… (In contrast, porn stars rarely receive more then a check and 1099-misc that they owe tax on). Some of these OF providers are not even so small. There’s a lot of people out there making some hefty financial future for themselves. The change may do the industry good~ People were doing this sort of thing on Tik Tok etc., promoting themselves and offering tiers of viewer privilege at variable cost to the viewer~ Now it’s becoming more sophisticated~ Since the old school models are not allowed to list prices for their services, these newer venues allow for that to be more visible and may help to develop, (or rather standardize), that industries fees. It’s an entertaining thought that these new venues could potentially help move the adult and Provider industry into one that is considered legal and taxable… Let people run their own business and pay some tax on it but, have it be treated and legally protected as a legitimate and legal enterprise. The old school models do not readily move the industry in that direction. In fact, it is more often than not that they drive the industry in opposite direction, (in this country).

What does the anger look like~? …or feel like~? Or both~? Are you asking what defines the perceived anger or anger management issue~? Or more at how “not paying any mind” plays out on both sides~?

Really most everyone has been respectful and upstanding individuals~ Of the few placed on the “red flag”, “block” or “psychopath” list, they have presented themselves with one or a combination of the following: anger management/control issues, drug issues, stalker issues~ That applies to escorts/providers as well~ That behavior is unacceptable and often inexcusable~ Intentional harassment, intent to harm physically, psychologically and/or emotionally is not okay and is not justifiable~ Holding someone emotionally, physically, psychologically hostage, bullying, blackmailing are all inappropriate~ I’ve seen instances where Providers encountered those who were under the impression that Providers are door mats~ The underestimating clients were often surprised when the carpet was pulled from under their feet~ (It’s assuming to think providers lack self respect and won’t stand up for themselves or are unable).

It’s actually dangerous when Clients or competitive Escorts drive the market prices down~ See “London”

I don’t think so unless things like airfare, hotel, fuel, airplane fuel, food expenses, gym expenses, clothing expenses, transportation, internet, medical care and insurance, supply of basic goods and other services go down~

Love traveling and generally have ten(ish) home bases outside of the states~ Two in the UK, Four in the EU, two in India, two in Asia~ my typical schedule in the US is approximately four months out of the year and the rest of the time I’m touring elsewhere. I have sessions that are shorter than a day or two but, I also tend to do a lot of longer sessions that can last anywhere from one week on up to two months. On those longer sessions, we grab a car and drive around through an entire country or two for a month. It’s an incredible education as well as bonding time between my Clients and I~ Time outside the states is very adventurous and there tends to be more “hotel” type time in the states~ It’s a difference in priorities somewhat~ While I do explore with several Clients in the states, the majority of Clients from here request we travel outside of the country~ So, I typically would just stay there and meet them unless they specifically like to fly together… That also happens~ I personally love/thrive on the travel and love being immersed in different cultures and experiences. New languages, new customs, new ideas and refreshing ways to look at the world~ A lot of growth can come of it~ I’ve pretty much been around the world three times but have more to explore in Africa and Auatralia/New Zealand~ I’ve been a translator, tour guide, photography instructor, health care advocate and assistant, travel coordinator and more for these Clients~ It’s always amazing~ I’ve learned that it is of benefit to be very flexible, not always expect things to turn out 100% as planned… Some of the best surprises can be changes in plans that end up being the most fantastic memories~ With regard to places I would not travel to: I’ve been to highly dangerous places~ (encounter with Sendero Luminosos in Peru, all kinds of trouble in Venezuela… a few riots here and there in various places but, great experiences over all~ While I found Bosnia-Herzegovina fascinating, I found the post war vibe still vibrant and unsettling~ As much as I love the idea of spending time in South Korea, I’m not hot on North Korea~ Places I have felt most threatened by violence have mainly been in the states. Second runner up was Caracas~

The cafeteria plan is in poor taste~

When people ask for discounts like that, I find it disrespectful… not just to me but, to my regular Clients who pay according to my rate schedule~ I also do not offer discounts or special rates for sessions up to 3 days in length. Appointments for one, two, three weeks, one month or two months have a completely different fee structure~ Regardless, I keep things fair and equal among all clients… Giving special rates to certain people means you are ripping off others who pay you in good faith~ I prefer to provide extra time for my regular steady Clients~ Some Clients I have known for many years and out of respect for their loyalty, I offer first picks of scheduling and have been known to gift something like a concert, theater performance, dinner or short excursion~ Those are exceptions in that a relationship has been developed over the course of many years~ I gift outside of appointment times~ Appointments remain usual to my rate schedule during appointments.

I charge one single amount according to my rate schedule whether one Client is involved or two… or three… or four… I mean it only makes sense and is fair~ I would not be charging extra if the Client brought in another Escort or two or three or four~ If the situation is where I’m in session with one Client and then go off afterwords directly to play with the second separately, those are separate sessions and therefore separate charges~

Well… mostly one, (Nick Pulos), but, a few others too~ He’s a dream Dad: 6’5” of solid Noms~! The other guys just have hot beards but, they are all welcome to come over for a sleep over with Nick and I.

Yes to Nomadland~👍😎 Good pick Dentjusay~ Thx~!

In honor of a Scotty Bowers~!

Terko from “Ya No Estoy Aqui”, is A-mmmmAzing~! That soft foot work and sweet upper body moves~ When you feel the heat and become the music~

This is adult humor and not an advocacy to do drugs or have a relationship of any kind with the snuggles bear~