hungry4darkmeat

As a client I think that since we live in one of the largest markets we should have our own events for providers and also for both clients and providers. I’ve produced thousands of events and would be happy to work with anyone else here to create something to help organize our respective communities and give them an opportunity to meet and interact with their peers and for both groups to meet and interact with each other in person. If there’s anyone who would like to collab with me on this please let me know- I prefer to be collaborative on projects like this so a few volunteers and we could be chatting in person before the holidays.

Ad is current and live and he continues to be amazing

This is a great point. I tell providers that I need them to be on time- I’m not made of time or money so when I get a chance to get out, get the room sorted, get myself all cleaned up and do all the preparation only to have the provider either not show up at all or message me that they’re running really late and to wait or keep coming up with excuses for the delay or worse yet just ghost me altogether. it’s happened multiple times and there was one time that I didn’t even end up getting any action at all even though I had a great room for the whole night. So disappointing. If a provider can host I am honestly more likely to follow through and also pay more since I don’t have to pay for a room.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways

And learn to push out while he pushes in so you can take it

You’re not wrong. I’m a pretty reliable regular client but freely admit to having flaked on many dates both professional and not- and feel terrible about it. I’m not actually an asshole (which is what an asshole would say right) but do have some relativrly serious health issues plus I’m married and discreet so it’s not always easy for me to make everything work despite my best intentions. I’m known for sending providers a generous cancellation fee but it’s still fucked up. No excuses definitely doing better now but it’s been a long road. I probably flaked on someone here and many more out there in the universe, and sincerely apologize for being that guy. In fact let me apologize for all the other flaky clients who probably never intended to disrespect you, waste your time or lead you on, but end up doing exactly that. karma sorts it all out - having personally paid karmically and financially for my past violations, and having made substantial progress in not being flaky by being honest and upfront about my situation with potential providers and making all plans a couple days in advance (which some providers seem to hate but works better for me). When I book a date a couple days beforehand it gives me the time to get myself together without having to rush, and since my dates usually involve me getting a room, can take a couple hours to get myself ready. It’s just easier for me with a few days notice. Btw If more providers could host in the city it would be a game changer but back to the topic. Should someone build a website that allows everyone who uses hookup sites or adult services to rate their experience with other users anonymously so you can lookup their username from any site like Adam sniffies friendboy or rent men and see legit feedback from others who have been with them? Can it use photos as well so changing names won’t be like starting over? anyway sorry to all the providers for the punks like me who talk you up and then leave you hanging. Don’t take it personal cause it’s not - they feel bad but if it’s not gonna work then there’s no arguing with the truth. I’ve flaked on providers before and then subsequently hired them for multiple sessions and tipped them well for being patient or forgiving, so you never really know. Just something to consider.

So what about when you have multiple clients hiring multiple providers? Trying it out again soon and interested if anyone has any suggestions.

I’m a 6 - total sub

Def co-sign on the labeled envelopes!

Depends but if you confirm pricing beforehand it shouldn’t be an issue. I’ve always been upfront about it with providers and when there was any issue I brought the lower one up to match the more expensive one on general principle.

It’s been a long time and tbh he looks like the guy but I would not swear to it. That said if he’s the same guy I only blew him so I can’t speak to his stroke game but he was hot and I enjoyed spending an hour with him in my mouth

Yes I’ve met him and he’s very nice and extremely fine with a lovely package

Yeah I fell for one of those a while back now I have a policy that I never send anyone money if I haven’t at least met them on video chat to know that they’re real

Caution on these as there are lots of scams specifically targeting those of us with this particular preference. If anyone wants you to send money before you actually meet them or at least have a video call with them you will likely end up with empty pockets and no dick. that said if you find any success i would LOVE to hear about it

Also helps to teach them to enjoy the actual fuck knowing that the orgasm is guaranteed and not the goal but the result of a successful session