Hear here! Exactly!
I’ve always been ready willing and able to find some dick, and never minded paying (a reasonable fee) for it in order to avoid all the bullshit generally related to cruising and picking up dates.
Just going straight to a professional or at least a hustler who knows and understands the terms and conditions of the situation skips all the wasted time and energy and ensures the desired outcome. No drama! no falling in love. no false impressions or misunderstandings. It’s a commercial arrangement and if you’re clear upfront about what it is then you can enjoy yourself without having to worry about whether you’re going to get robbed, blackmailed or stalked by someone with whom you just wanted to have a mutually beneficial quid-pro-quo client-provider relationship.
With an experienced professional you can get exactly what you’re looking for in an experience specifically tailored to meet your needs and desires. Concern over mutual satisfaction, fear of being judged for kinks or preferences and basic lack of skills, ability or the proper equipment can also be frustrating outcomes of hooking up with with randoms or through the apps.