hungry4darkmeat
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to + Pensant in Getting back into escorting - how much can I earn?
$500 is the new $100.
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Getting back into escorting - how much can I earn?
Remember the 80/20 rule for sustainability. 80% of the income should come from 20% of the customers. Find a few regular clients and focus on retaining each of them for repeat frequent visits, instead of chasing a new client every day.
The same ratio is found in nature. On peas, 20% of the pods produce 80% of the peas 🫛
In a business, 20% of the employees perform 80% of the work. Hang on to those 20% employees!
At a charity, 20% of the donors make up 80% of the donations. Maintain good relationships with those 20%.
In a state with a stable economy, 80% of taxes paid already come from the highest 20% of income earners. Don't piss off or try to squeeze more out of the highest 20% or they'll leave, and then the state can't sustain itself.
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to + PhileasFogg in Getting back into escorting - how much can I earn?
I think that anyone would point out that they have to have a handful of regulars who cover the fixed bills, then everything else is profit
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to Becket in Getting back into escorting - how much can I earn?
If you have escorted before you probably know most of this stuff:
Guys who make that sort of money work their tails off. Lots of things that successful guys have to do on a regular basis may seem mundane, tedious, and unnecessary to the provider. These things often do not immediately pay off, and they take up a lot of your time. Some of these might be:
1. Polite and timely communication with a client or potential client. Do you respond to texts or emails in a timely manner, and with courtesy and friendliness, regardless of how the client may be communicating with you?
2. Being the highest priced guy in your market. Every time I see an ad with the phrase (and similar) "Upscale clients only," it makes me cringe.
3. Advertise. A lot. Get your name, FACE, and best characteristics on as many platforms you can find.
3. Get used to the fact that you are going to be criticized; often times unjustly. You are providing a fantasy experience. No matter how hard you try, there will be some who will take potshots against you because the experience did not meet the clients expectation of the fantasy.
4. Clients will cancel on you. A lot. Clients will schedule a time and then back out. There are a hundred reasons why a client might cancel. Ran out of money; got too nervous to go through with the appointment; something came up; client decided he really wasn't up for a session at the last minute. And on and on.
Much of this you probably already know. In answer to your actual question, "what might a reasonably successful independent provider realistically expect to net per year in the current environment? If you work all the time and dedicate yourself to (within reason) the old saying "The customer is always right," an income of high five figures or low six figure income is not totally out of the question. Unfortunately:
1. The economy is a mess right now. Many clients are hiring less frequently than they used to. Which for many of us creates fewer discretionary dollars.
2. You are older now than you used to be. Experience is a great thing to have. I bet you're heavenly in bed. But many guys prefer than young dude, who, in my experience, often disappoints in the sack due to the lack of said experience.
3. If you will travel for work your expenses wiil eat you alive. Hard to believe how expensive everything is now.
4. Broadly and generally speaking, people are pissed off these days. Lots of reasons why; we all know them. I think it's harder now than it was ten years ago to create the fantasy potential clients are looking for.
Anyway these are the things which popped into my brain then out onto this page at the beginning of another lovely day in Dallas. I'm sure other clients, wiser and more experienced than am I, can give you better feedback. But the subject was interesting. Thanks for posing the question and Good Luck.
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from Otterlybelievable in Question for other clients that like Black tops
I am on record as a white bottom who exclusively hires black tops and while Im not stupid enough to think that they don’t ever bottom, I don’t want to see it happen or know about it. First off im the client and their attention should be on me. Second , for me I hire because I want to create/recreate/produce a fantasy and turn it into a reality, so I prefer to maintain at least the illusion of being with a man/men who would never want to be submissive and would never allow another man to top him. A totally dominant alpha man who is only interested in being served and taking what he wants from his bitches. His ultimate dominance frees me up to completely submit.
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to the Diz in 411 on HotTopNine in NYC
Just met him. Great time. He is not exaggerating the size of his meat. I felt every inch and it was amazing. Super chill guy and a great kisser.
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from + ApexNomad in What we look like - Why does it matter so much now?
It only matters if it matters to you. Confidence is far more attractive than physical looks. People are attracted to the thing they want most and usually that’s a sense of personal security and confidence that says “what you think of me is a non factor in my life”. Plus it helps if you take a semblance of care of yourself. You don’t have to be pretty but you shouldn’t be giving “im a mess” vibes either
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from Heart It Deep in Question for other clients that like Black tops
I am on record as a white bottom who exclusively hires black tops and while Im not stupid enough to think that they don’t ever bottom, I don’t want to see it happen or know about it. First off im the client and their attention should be on me. Second , for me I hire because I want to create/recreate/produce a fantasy and turn it into a reality, so I prefer to maintain at least the illusion of being with a man/men who would never want to be submissive and would never allow another man to top him. A totally dominant alpha man who is only interested in being served and taking what he wants from his bitches. His ultimate dominance frees me up to completely submit.
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from DMonDude in What we look like - Why does it matter so much now?
It only matters if it matters to you. Confidence is far more attractive than physical looks. People are attracted to the thing they want most and usually that’s a sense of personal security and confidence that says “what you think of me is a non factor in my life”. Plus it helps if you take a semblance of care of yourself. You don’t have to be pretty but you shouldn’t be giving “im a mess” vibes either
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in What we look like - Why does it matter so much now?
It only matters if it matters to you. Confidence is far more attractive than physical looks. People are attracted to the thing they want most and usually that’s a sense of personal security and confidence that says “what you think of me is a non factor in my life”. Plus it helps if you take a semblance of care of yourself. You don’t have to be pretty but you shouldn’t be giving “im a mess” vibes either
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from thomas in What we look like - Why does it matter so much now?
It only matters if it matters to you. Confidence is far more attractive than physical looks. People are attracted to the thing they want most and usually that’s a sense of personal security and confidence that says “what you think of me is a non factor in my life”. Plus it helps if you take a semblance of care of yourself. You don’t have to be pretty but you shouldn’t be giving “im a mess” vibes either
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from + Just Chuck in What we look like - Why does it matter so much now?
It only matters if it matters to you. Confidence is far more attractive than physical looks. People are attracted to the thing they want most and usually that’s a sense of personal security and confidence that says “what you think of me is a non factor in my life”. Plus it helps if you take a semblance of care of yourself. You don’t have to be pretty but you shouldn’t be giving “im a mess” vibes either
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from MikeBiDude in What we look like - Why does it matter so much now?
It only matters if it matters to you. Confidence is far more attractive than physical looks. People are attracted to the thing they want most and usually that’s a sense of personal security and confidence that says “what you think of me is a non factor in my life”. Plus it helps if you take a semblance of care of yourself. You don’t have to be pretty but you shouldn’t be giving “im a mess” vibes either
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Question for other clients that like Black tops
Yes, or sex or gender
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to jonasfoleson in Question for other clients that like Black tops
one's sexual posiiton or prefernces shoudn't be based on race.
it says more of those who are making assumptions.
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from Peter Eater in Question for other clients that like Black tops
I am on record as a white bottom who exclusively hires black tops and while Im not stupid enough to think that they don’t ever bottom, I don’t want to see it happen or know about it. First off im the client and their attention should be on me. Second , for me I hire because I want to create/recreate/produce a fantasy and turn it into a reality, so I prefer to maintain at least the illusion of being with a man/men who would never want to be submissive and would never allow another man to top him. A totally dominant alpha man who is only interested in being served and taking what he wants from his bitches. His ultimate dominance frees me up to completely submit.
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to Cliff in NYC newbie / KingMagnumxxx
That sounds about right, wsc. Figuring I could choke down only about $400 worth.
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from Luvbigmusc in *Is 400 the new going nyc rate?
It’s actually good to see that providers are able to charge more- everything else has gotten so much more expensive and sex workers have bills to pay too. That said Ive had to curtail my hiring because of a job loss and consider myself fortunate to have several providers ive always been extremely generous to and supportive of who have continued to charge me the rate we started with. It’s one reason I don’t often stray from my regulars. The potential new providers i hit up are all asking for more than I can (or am willing to) spend.
im a great client so my regulars appreciate me and look out for me when they can- that’s pretty much the only reason im still able to hire and haven’t had to resort to finding dick on the street or at sex parties etc
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from Luvbigmusc in *Is 400 the new going nyc rate?
I’ve spent from 200 to 350 for various providers over the past year. The most expensive was a treat and the rest were regulars who make it work for me at my preferred rate usually 2 plus tip but up to 3 if they are giving me everything I want
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from Bargara Leatherboy in *Is 400 the new going nyc rate?
I do believe that good dick aint cheap and cheap dick usually aint that good lol
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from + ApexNomad in *Is 400 the new going nyc rate?
I do believe that good dick aint cheap and cheap dick usually aint that good lol
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to Nue2thegame in Question for other clients that like Black tops
It’s a turn-on for me when a nominal top (of any color) bottoms for me.
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from + KinkyNEguy in Question for other clients that like Black tops
I am on record as a white bottom who exclusively hires black tops and while Im not stupid enough to think that they don’t ever bottom, I don’t want to see it happen or know about it. First off im the client and their attention should be on me. Second , for me I hire because I want to create/recreate/produce a fantasy and turn it into a reality, so I prefer to maintain at least the illusion of being with a man/men who would never want to be submissive and would never allow another man to top him. A totally dominant alpha man who is only interested in being served and taking what he wants from his bitches. His ultimate dominance frees me up to completely submit.
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hungry4darkmeat got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Question for other clients that like Black tops
I am on record as a white bottom who exclusively hires black tops and while Im not stupid enough to think that they don’t ever bottom, I don’t want to see it happen or know about it. First off im the client and their attention should be on me. Second , for me I hire because I want to create/recreate/produce a fantasy and turn it into a reality, so I prefer to maintain at least the illusion of being with a man/men who would never want to be submissive and would never allow another man to top him. A totally dominant alpha man who is only interested in being served and taking what he wants from his bitches. His ultimate dominance frees me up to completely submit.
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hungry4darkmeat reacted to Johnnyroad in Question for other clients that like Black tops
I have a question regarding your position preferences for Black men.
Do you find it a turnoff to learn that a Black top occasionally bottoms?
Be honest.