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I think gnats have better attention spans. Have you ever seen how they elude getting picked up in a glass of wine 🤣 That said, I try not to take it personal: but it makes me less prone to respond to messages where guys ask, “Are you available today/now or “you around tonight”. I did speak to a client the other week, and he mentioned how there are “flakes” on RM. Though he didn’t just refer to age.

Personally, I almost feel like we’re in a somewhat Covid re-make right now. Flu, cold and other viruses been going around, the politics and Ice in the news everyday probably has people feeling viral as well. I’m thinking of temporarily retiring because it’s been slow. Last week I went to 3 cities: only had 2 clients, both regulars which I enjoy…but that’s a lot of commute and days spent. Also: winter business in a place like Michigan may be different than in a place like Florida. However going where it’s “high season” often comes with the added caveat of much higher hotel prices.

…. At least have the courtesy of responding back or following back up if you stop responding. It’s bad enough when it’s just a freebie hookup, but when you’re also expecting reliable behavior with money: it’s very disrespectful. What’s worse, why do some of the same guys come around: just to play games again after they ghosted the last time. I don’t like to block (or add them to the bad list) wily nilly, but I think some people ask for it. As this google search shows, they just aren’t capable of mature interactions when it comes down to other gays:

So the better way to handle this, is to simply say: “I would like the sensual/therapeutic/deep tissue/etc etc. appointment on your ad for $XXX. That’s vastly different from asking, “hey XXX, what’s your rate? Or “how much?” (This is exactly how many of them come at us). That’s where the issue comes in. I dislike comparing escort/masseur services to food, but imagine if someone asked the price for something this: “ummm how much is the mushroom burger?” ”ummm, how much is the calamari?”

Escort standpoint here… I am glad to finally have a full beard, as I was a “late bloomer” who barely even had facial hair until I was like 21. But even as I got into my late 20s/early 30s I still couldn’t really have a full one. For me, I cannot have a shaved face. I am Black and mixed so, my hair tends to curl into my skin when it’s below a certain length (ingrown). It used to be worse in my early 20s, with ingrowns on my face and neck area. Once I started rocking the beard, that pretty much went away, although the occasional ingrown will develop under the neck or beard line. I actually developed a rather large abscess under my neck, from an ingrown too deep to pull out with tweezers. It’s gone down a bit but, it was tender and painful. That said, some guys look good with or without beards, others with a beard or without a beard. I always admire the Rock, who has sported the clean shaven face for years. But I also admire Jordan peele who is now rocking a beard:

I didn’t get this when I was 25, but now I’m 38 I can say so. It tends to make me 🤨 when someone thinks guys are too old to escort after 35. And I even see many guys posting their age as under 30, for years. Though I don’t necessarily seek out trying to hookup round the clock, it’s less to do with libido and more to do with preserving my time and energy for paying clients or discerning men. But my desire and libido hasn’t gone south by any means.

Or it can just be somewhat the same. Some people like familiarity. Doesn’t necessarily mean doing cartwheels 🤸🏾‍♂️ in the bed to keep it interesting.

Keep in mind too: just because someone has regulars doesn’t mean they aren’t still looking. One doesn’t necessarily need to stick with one guy exclusively, unless that’s sufficient for a guy when booking RMs. One of my regulars, has like 2 other regulars lol. I’m more of his companion when he’s visiting certain cities away from his home town. But we’ve had some good 🦆ucks over the times we’ve met.

I find subsequent sessions always get better with time. The first time is like exploring new territory, it may be good but both guys are not familiar with each other yet. There’s a difference between feeling out how to pleasure someone the first time, versus already anticipating that you know it’ll be good on the next visits.

I’ve heard of this before with me, I don’t feel it’s anything to be upended about. It’s an open platform, people are going to ask around.

You know I gotta fact check you 😉 Coming from Florida and Texas: Chicago IS expensive. Maybe not the deeper suburbs in Illinois, but those are also expansive. And you still pay a lot in tolls. I once had a $35 toll bill, and I didn’t even fucking go to Chicago. I drove around the outer burbs but it still cost a lot and I didn’t even know how much I was being billed because they have it all Bill by plate now. Also gas there is more expensive, taxes etc.

Either that or, you looked like muni long in drag and the provider was gay for pay: But in reality he’s hetero/pan flexible or whatever it’s called in 2026: 🤭

I never said, YOU said your word is law. You only named 1 person, out of a city with HUNDREDS if not thousands of escorts. Even if many do charge $1,000: #1 doesn’t mean everybody going to pay and #2 there’s still ample conversation I’ve found otherwise of that. Point in case: This isn’t me speaking but someone else. However I’ve done the Los Angeles circuit and I know for a fact, most of the bookings I’ve got in that area cap at $300 the hour. And it’s hard to even get that at all because there’s 50 million escorts in Los Angeles as it is. The exception may exist but I’m talking across the board…

This is another case of: fact check it versus throwing out anecdotes. Los Angeles is a expansive market, and the amount of sex workers make it to where I can be hard to reach that $1,000 an hour bracket, unless a person is fairly established and has a client that is able to arrange that.

I just had lobster tail today, grilled…like popular in the Keys. Yum As for the rest, I recently noticed: Lobster tail is not pre cooked when you buy them. Whole lobster is precooked, unless you buy it live. Something with the toxins or texture that determines how it’s prepared when it’s caught.