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A lot of people can't do anal or find it uncomfortable for anatomical/medical reasons. Would you say a man who can't get an erection is asexual?

Yes

A majority of the guys I've hired have advertised as "versatile." I've made it my nosy habit to ask each of them which position they prefer and which position they do most often with clients. From the answers I've received I can deduce that most versatile escorts actually prefer to bottom, but so do their clients, so they've adapted to topping more often than not. So I can see how your friends came to the conclusion that in order to gain more business an escort needs to top. It makes sense to me. Then again, I also believe that most clients are bottoms. Tops probably don't need to hire for sex like bottoms do. If you're a top, you've pretty much got your pick of cock-hungry bottoms since there's such an overabundance of us. lol

Hey @Mo Mason thank you so much for that. While not completely validating the point my boys made, it gives a possible explanation as to why they have that view. I'm more of a bottom. I would typically look for an oral top masseur every time, but when I've gone for a massage and the guy was an oral bottom and proactive to blow me (and very good at it), I would leave a good tip! Even my oral top masseur mentioned this, that if he did bjs he would make more money from massage sessions for sure. By chance would you be able to provide any insights as to why these masseurs say they would get more business if they were good at bjs?

Been there, done that. The idea is fun but in less than 3 months gets old.

i don’t know a bottle of rubbing alcohol is bigger than a bottle of water....

I don't know, but it seems the audience have a different image of "painfully thick" in their minds that doesn't match Punisher_XL attributes.

Link not working.

Probably because it was originally posted in Feb 2000.

I was looking at it today as well. Yum!

Youthful exaggeration....

I would trust the judgment of anyone with the handle @thickornotatall ! ?

No. Success in this business has little to do with the nuts & bolts of actual sex.

 

To be successful, you have to cultivate great clients who look at you as much more than just beauty or a great fuck.

 

The smart guys realize the turn and burn life is a short-lived one.

That's somewhat my line of thinking, that's why I have them as "regulars" but they said that most of their "regulars" looked for those things they mentioned: an escort who is able to be a good top, or a masseur who is a great oralist. Unless that, what they meant is that they provide those things in a magnificent way and that's what allows them to build up a loyal group of clients.

Not sure if these kids just wanted to make a point about a subjective belief, or they just don't have enough life experiences to know better. I must confess, however, that I mostly look at them for the "turn and burn" in certain ways. I have had "regulars" for quite some time but then I found others that engaged me, hence replacing them for another long time, until others came up, and so on.

I guess you could call it "a love for long-term diversity".

Success is anyone who does a wealth of business consistently, whether an escort or a masseur. Pleasant personality and reasonable rate are major factors. Anal and / or oral involvement has no area of normalcy. YMMV is over-used, but accurate.

Yes, I would say that a reasonable rate and good personality (experience) is basic but leaving those things aside, they mentioned the factors on my first comment more as a matter of supply and demand based on the types of customer (needs) for each kind of service...

Conclusion from lock-down chats with my boys; and from theirs with their friends:

Successful Escorts = Anal Tops & Successful Masseurs = Oral Bottoms.

Is this true? I'm shocked and I think they are just messing with my mind. I know there is diversity but they mentioned "majority" or "important factor for success". So, I thought of asking this forum to check: What have been your experiences?

As Dr. Fauci said, "The virus determines the timeline."

And you are probably right. As of today the website was refreshed with new data and the estimate for the World is now November 26. I just updated the image of my original post. There is finally a 100% estimate date for the US: September 4th.

Those dates are totally unrealistic.

I think that by "End" they don't mean the date when there will be zero people infected, or they will find a vaccine, but when most governments will start to ease lockdown measures.

Please do not hijack with endless political or off-topic posts, shade, or negativity.

It's a computer-modelled prediction of a date when the pandemic will end in different countries. I think it's great news to share with everyone as it gives us some hope to see again our escorts and their beautiful bodies by the beginning of the summer ???? Just being optimistic here, let's keep our fingers crossed! ?

I don't like deodorant, it tastes bad when I lick my man's armpits. Re' perfumes I have no preference but once I knew someone who said he had a straight stud running on a treadmill collecting his sweat and then mixing it at 50% with a mild woody fragrance. The smell was fantastic and it didn't smell like sweat but leather. I wonder if it was true or all pure lies.

If you have video or erotic pictures of yourself, have you ever used it for masturbatory purposes. In other words, have you even gotten yourself off by watching yourself on video, in pictures or in a mirror?

What a clickbait! Very misleading post title PK, lol. I came here expecting naked muscle guys on sports cars (sigh). Ok, responding to your questions: Yes, and yes. In pictures, video, and mirrors, and sometimes shown to others too. After removing faces from pictures and video, those materials can help to showcase your skills in action and persuade prospective sex partners to join you ?

Oh no, the songlist was doing great until this point ... shaaaade ... lol

And another ABBA cover with just a little bit of gay ***SPARK*** HAPPY WEEKEND EVERYONE!!

Hopefully the first time posted

HH RATE?

Been honored with a place in the Library of Congress. The harbinger of New Wave and EDM.

I can agree wit that. This song could certainly be considered THE MOTHER OF EDM.

That would go against freedom of expression. I have made negative generalizations about rednecks on here for example and I'm proud to keep on calling them out because they talk about conservative values yet they never practice them in order to go ahead in life. Sorry for bringing politics...

Wow that's really bad and a shame that racism and xenophobia can be allowed in this forum when disguised as freedom of speech. I think there is a difference when you criticize rednecks, which is a subset of a population, vs making negative remarks about the culture of an entire nation or ethnic group but more reproachable doing it with no concrete proof or basis at all, rather making up fictional studies to validate such hateful lies.

Although I’ve been told I have a big dick (personally, I consider mine to be average),

 

I think it’s just pure cruelty to shame, laugh at, poke fun at, or be facetious to someone because they may have a smaller sized dick.

 

I’ve seen may comments in various forums, especially where self-proclaimed “size queens”, profess their loathing to guys with smaller appendages.

 

The real reason why I think it’s just purely cruel is that one can’t help what he was born with, and having witnessed the level of shame, low-self-esteem and confidence issues it gives guys, it’s extremely disturbing.

 

And witnessing how petty and immature guys are with “growers” should teach many guys a lesson in their shallow behavior.... that small flaccid dick you may see flopping around in a locker room that you may laugh or roll your eyes at, may grow into nice girthy inches of pleasure, which you may have missed out on.

 

The nitpicking over ones’ body parts with men gets extremely exhausting. From dick size, butt size, body weight, BMI, hair length, hair color, degree of overall hairiness, skin color, skin elasticity, race, muscularity, eye color, etc, no wonder so many gay men have issues with self image, and so many gay men who are actually pretty good looking don’t even realize it.

I definitely learned a lesson that day and since then I have looked at bulky hairy men with small bulges in a completely different way

this uncut thimble jutting out from his nutsack.

That's exactly what it looked like but I think our guys were different. Mine was 26 Portuguese. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one comforting desperate straight men.

Anythings possible, if theres enough skin to stretch. The 2.5" must have been very retracted. If it was a tight 2.5" with no expandable skin, that cock wouldn't have gone anywhere, just stiffened up.

Well, this was my first time with this kind of experience. I lost my "big grower virginity"!

I don't know if most guys are insecure about their penis size, but for sure there is a percentage who compared themselves to porn actors and who are berated by their significant others to the point it makes them insecure.

 

A few months ago a bi/straightish porn actor (I communicate with on a regular basis) flat out asked me if he thought he had a small dick. (I haven't met him in person but I've seen him nude and of course seen his porn.) His penis is average, but it's pretty and a nicely shaped one for sure.

 

He didn't go into deep detail as to why he asked. However, he did mention something about his girlfriend making a comment about it. Which lead me to believe he thinks his dick size is affecting his relationship. Now, this guy is handsome as all get out and has an incredible body head to toe. I told him if his girl is complaining about him physically she was just being petty. I then told him I'd more than welcome the chance to make him feel appreciated in every way. He laughed at that.

 

He and I planned to meet this summer, but that was before the pandemic. So it may not happen. Sigh.

Tell me about it. This guy resourced to me basically because his wife is not into sucking him off. Not sure if the flaccid size has anything to do with it. Also most vajays are never the same after giving birth, maybe the feeling is no longer the same for both. I was frontal and told him: "she doesn't know what she's missing out". We are neighbours and even though it was just a 1-timer I hope I can get to see him again.