CuriousByNature

Just curious... what is an average rent for a 1-bedroom in a decent area? I'm not familiar with the LA market.

I would pay people NOT to tickle me...

Kraken? I'm only counting 2 arms.

Not sure if this a gay anthem or not, but 'Band of Gold' gets my head bopping. So I guess it's a bi-curious anthem in my case. Sorry, no idea here how to post a clip of the song 🙄

I think you've made a very good point here, but I can also see how any sudden, substantial increase in a donation amount would be jarring - especially when the provider has been helped along the way by the OP. However, the provider may have kept his donation at a lower level longer than he would have otherwise. Does the OP know if the donation amount increased for everyone at once, across the board? Or had it been higher for others already, with the OP's amount kept lower to reflect the help he had given? In any case, I'm thinking it would be good to be open with the provider and honestly tell him the increase came as a shock. Perhaps he'll reconsider, or find other ways of demonstrating the OP's importance to him.

His most recent RM review is unfortunately quite negative. 🙁

Yikes... I hope most professionals would never modify the donation for their time based on a client's physical appearance.

You'd still look great.

Thank you

Thank you.

There are many sites that mention 'average' lengths, and there is some variability in what seems to be reported. Curious what people on this site would consider an 'average' erect length based on personal experience with guys who are not in the sex industry? (I'm making an assumption that the average in that industry may be larger than what is considered average in the broader population)

Yours. Hands down... or paws down?

Apologies for your burning retinas... I do believe he would wear it better in any case. 🤣

I'm now picturing Mr. Nicholas with the Dorothy Hamill haircut. Definitely improves the look of that cut.

Maybe he drives super slow.

This could also be extended to interests that have traditionally been deemed as either masculine or feminine... such as 'men like sports' and 'women like sewing', etc. You make an excellent point about the historical blurring of gender expression - through my own reading I've come to understand that many biases we might assume started millennia ago actually had their genesis during the Victorian era, and in particular, the late Victorian era. Ideas about gender and sexuality were disproportionately affected by the austere conservatism of that period, and by some additional influences carrying over from earlier Puritan sensibilities as well.

This sounds like a great suggestion. Have you found that providers are generally open to this sort of thing, and would the regular donation amount for their time be expected/offered?

That's the series of lakes connected by waterfalls, right? There's a lot to see in that small country. I'd like to visit where Nikola Tesla was born if I could find it. I think he was born in Croatia but was Serbian, if I remember correctly.

I know a couple of Croatian families who go back every summer to Dalmatia. It looks incredible, and based on personal experience at dinners they have hosted, the food is DELICIOUS! Not to mention the plum brandy called Slivovitsa.... yummmm.

Sorry... I know you are looking for an answer from escorts, so I can delete this response if you let me know. But I think the fullness of the explanation you give should reflect the nature of the questions the provider has for you, coupled with your own personal level of comfort in offering that information. Perhaps he won't have much to say, and then you shouldn't feel any obligation to share anything further... good luck in any case

Exactly. It's all about the balance between a person's level of disposable income and their values and priorities for how they wish to spend it. Though it is completely understandable that someone would be disappointed if there is a provider they really, really want to meet but are unable to due to the donation amount. I get that, but it's ultimately part of the price we pay for living in a free-market economy and enjoying other benefits that come from that. I only wish people would not take their disappointment out on the provider. There needs to be more kindness and understanding all around.

Whenever the perceived benchmark rate for anyone's time increases, I imagine people may find it difficult to swallow - no pun intended. Whether that person is a lawyer, accountant, escort, or any other professional service provider. If someone's donation for their time is considerably higher than that of their cohorts and they still maintain the clientele numbers they need to see, good for them. They have found what the market is willing to bear. Some might have higher donations and not work as often, while others are happy working more for somewhat less per appointment. It all comes down to the provider's business plan, and if a potential client finds the plan to be unrealistic or unpalatable, there are no doubt other providers whose donation structures meet that client's expectations. A key doesn't have to fit every lock.

As is Scatman Crothers.

Some definitely looked better than others, whether that is because of lifestyle, genetics or cosmetic surgery, but I also think of others who have aged incredibly well and were not part of the video. Cicily Tyson looked far younger than 95 when she passed away, and same with Cloris Leachman at 94. Catherine Deneuve still looks great for her late 70s (her mom is turning 110 this year!), and of course the amazing Danielle Darrieux who remained quite beautiful until her passing at the age of 100.

It's possible he wasn't the one who wrote his ad text - something to keep in mind if your communication with him seems different from what he represents in his ad. Or, he could be too busy for anything lengthier?