Charlie

R.I.P. Grover Cleveland, one of my favorite Presidents, on the 125th anniversary of his death.

My great-great-grandmother's youngest child (by her second husband, who was much younger than she) was the same age as her oldest grandchild.

My mother said that the worst thing about getting old was losing all the friends who remembered what the world was like when she was young. She died at 102. I am starting to have the same experience. I played tennis for several years with a doubles partner who decided to stop playing a couple of years ago, when she was approaching 90. Now she is playing pickle ball every other morning at 7am with players who are mostly in their 50s and 60s. She may have white hair, but she wears tight capri pants on court.

Although it is not a novel, Hustlers, Escorts, Porn Stars: The Insider's Guide to Male Prostitution in America, was written by Matt Adams, who was a porn star himself. It is somewhat outdated, because it was published in 1999, before computers and smart phones had changed the business.

The "map me" version on old RM was often worthless, because it was often just a default to someplace like city hall. I even saw one ad that showed the provider in a rural area was next to the nearest police station.

No experience, but I remember those pictures from other ads years ago, and he looked older than 39 then.

I hope the reason we still haven't heard a report (the appt was 4 nights ago) is because @KensingtonHomo is exhausted from fabulous sex.

It's even available in the LARGE PRINT edition! (That's the one we get.)

I have had an annual travel insurance plan with American Express for many years, but I have never had any reason to use it. (Now that I have said that, something is bound to go wrong the next time I go anywhere.)

I have had a small account for years with Union Bank of California, which has just been taken over by U.S. Bank. So far, everything in the changeover has gone smoothly for me.

So that's what Prince Harry has been doing with his free time.

Very little info on ad, only one photo in which he isn't fully clothed, and who posts a photo of himself with his arm around a woman, even if she is mostly cut out of the photo? Even the one (faceless) body shot isn't sexually provocative. One wonders if the ad is a prank by someone else.

Yeah, but what are his pronouns?

"Spoken languages: English." "Hi. I'm a tall and hairy young."

I only respond to messages from people with whom I have had some kind of interaction on the forum, or from someone with whose posts I am already familiar.

BTW, no matter what fantasies you may have about getting fucked by a young stud, for your first time you will be better off with an experienced top who is at least 35.

When I was 17, I thought 40-60 was middle aged. When I was 40, I thought middle age began at 50. Now I think of anyone under 60 as young.

Now I am really curious to hear how it goes. When I saw him, it was before Rentmen existed (my review was on the Hooboy site), and as I said, he was in his 20s and pretty new to the escorting biz. Now he has many more years experience, which I assume has made him more professional at it. I was surprised at how much personal information he revealed (where he went to school, who his academic advisors were, what his real job was and where he worked, etc.), the kinds of things that someone more discreet would reveal to a boyfriend rather than to a stranger with whom he was engaged in an illegal act in his apartment. If I had been interested in doing identity theft, all I would have needed was bank account info.

RE: the German identity issue. His chosen escort name--Isern--is an anglicized spelling of the German word for "iron." I don't know whether his family background was German, but I do not remember him mentioning that he spoke German. (It was a long time ago, and he may have mastered the language since then.) In fact, there was more conversation than sex, and he probably told me more information about himself than was wise, which I attributed to the fact that he was relatively new to the escort business at that point. Although I gave him a generally positive review, he contacted me afterward to complain that it wasn't a rave.

Photos #1 and #8 were uploaded more than two years apart, but they are both the same photo, and it was first used earlier than that. The photo was accurate at the time it was taken, but I would guess it was when he was in his late 20s, when I met him. I don't doubt that he is 45, as stated, but does he still look the way he did in his 20s? BTW, although there are no face photos, he was good-looking, IMHO.

He is a native English-speaker; he is simply indicating that he can speak some German if necessary. As I mentioned above, he is well-educated, with graduate degrees from American universities. We conversed a good deal about his academic interests.

Oh, how I miss Philadelphia!!

I met him eighteen years ago in NYC, when he was on Rentboy, and I think some of those photos date back almost that far. He was intelligent and well educated, and we had a pleasant conversation, but I did not think the sex was worth the money ($200 then). He seemed more focused on watching porn throughout the appointment than on what we were doing together. He was unable to stay hard, and told me that it was because of medication that he was taking for a prostate infection, but he didn't tell me that until after we finished having sex. He used to participate on this board, but I haven't noticed any posts from him here for many years. I didn't realize that he was even still active. I would insist on seeing some photos that are clearly current.

Borna Coric before he let his hair grow long.

And I was older than Treat, so I never encountered him there either, but like Pensant, I was aware of him from his reputation as a performer in college.