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Pd1_jap reacted to + ThroatCummer in Actual experiences with legal problems using RM?
Some of us have a lot to lose but we also have our own risk/reward tolerances and vet the escort as much as they're vetting us as clients.
I had one bad experience where an escort I hired to my house for the first time saw my full name on a credit card laying on my table in the hallway. He found me on LinkedIn and started a small extortion scheme because I own a couple companies and he was able to find me in the news, etc. Upon researching him more on here, I wasn't the first person he tried that with apparently. It was easily nipped in the bud by "my people" (LOL) but it could have gotten out of hand. I'm much more apprehensive these days based on that experience.
I always look for reviews. If you have over a dozen good reviews, that is typically a solid way to vet people. Yes, some reviews can be fake or whatever, but the entire rating (Uber, Amazon, etc.) thing really works. That's why it has proliferated into almost every aspect of our lives. So honestly, if you have 50+ 4.9 reviews, you're fucking awesome. I even know one escort who has 120+ reviews and every single one is 5.0. Maintaining a 5.0 is extremely hard as you can't please everyone, but there are a handful out there who manage to do just that. Those are the experts at their craft and worth every single dollar.
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Pd1_jap reacted to Medin in Actual experiences with legal problems using RM?
This is very unusual in Michigan and especially in Royal Oak which has a large gay community. This hotel is used by a lot of escorts so I'm sure the cops were already aware of what often goes on there. Sounds to me like this was a hire gone bad and the cops were called.
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Pd1_jap reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Actual experiences with legal problems using RM?
I use a Burner app that is not in my name, and I can delete it from my phone. I recently spoke to a provider who travels internationally. He backs his "work" phone up to the cloud and then hard resets it before customs.
I don't know your demography but it is extremely unlikely that you would even be of interest to law enforcement. The reality is that the police target poor Johns and massage parlors and other places where it's easy to do mass arrests. They also target sex workers who are poor and marginalized. Given the breadth of this group, if people were running into issues, I suspect we'd all know.
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Pd1_jap reacted to moonlight in Actual experiences with legal problems using RM?
The common refrain on this site is don't do this if you have a lot to lose, which seems smart, but personally I'd like to get a better sense of quantified risk.
Has anyone actually experienced legal issues with hiring/meeting established providers on RM? Especially in blue state large cities (SF, LA, Vegas, NYC, Chicago)?
There's really no true way to stay completely anonymous. Currently I'm not hiring because other than people saying the risk is very low, I really don't have a good sense of how low. I feel safer hiring compared to random hookups but the risk of my life being nearly ruined is impossible to ignore. I'm interested in hearing about any actual real life experiences on this point -- thanks in advance.
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Pd1_jap reacted to muscmtl in Where scammer is bad at math
Forget being so fucking dumb to realize that he's using pics of a famous pornstar. but just the weight/ height ratio alone
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Pd1_jap reacted to ShortCutie7 in Any spas in NYC offer haircuts?
It’s an amazing business idea! As a client, it’s a lot easier to justify getting a haircut (“maintenance”) than a massage (“luxury”)!
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from ShortCutie7 in Any spas in NYC offer haircuts?
Opening an erotic barber shop has been a fantasy of mine for years.
Any daddies want to fund my new business venture? 😘🤪
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from tennisjock in JJock in Weho/Los Angeles
Update: I met with him tonight.
OMFG! It was transcendent. Most pretty boys have no idea how to do a decent massage but he knows the human body very well.
I sprung for a few extras which he is open too. The prudish nature I experienced at Adonis was not present during our session. One of the best experiences I have had with a masseur. FYI his nether region is completely hairless. 😘
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Pd1_jap reacted to BuffaloKyle in Is this ad for real?
Sounds like he must have been a little cloudy when he made that ad because it makes no sense.
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from Dr.Daddy in JJock in Weho/Los Angeles
Update: I met with him tonight.
OMFG! It was transcendent. Most pretty boys have no idea how to do a decent massage but he knows the human body very well.
I sprung for a few extras which he is open too. The prudish nature I experienced at Adonis was not present during our session. One of the best experiences I have had with a masseur. FYI his nether region is completely hairless. 😘
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from Dr.Daddy in JJock in Weho/Los Angeles
He dances at Adonis lounge in LA. In my opinion he's hotter in person than in his photos. The few dances I got with him he seemed a bit prudish but I could have just turned him off.
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from blackmusclebear in Wi Spa in LA
You should check it out but you should also know that the spa is being renovated. It's still open but not all facilities are operational. The last time I went, the steam room was working but very few guys were there. I still had fun though. 😘
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Pd1_jap reacted to Marc in Calif in DakotaWonders 411 in LA
Isn't 24 hours a bit too soon! Give people more time and they'll come out of the woodwork. 😘
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from Marc in Calif in DakotaWonders 411 in LA
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Pd1_jap reacted to BuzzLiteQueer in New guy in Los Angeles ( I think)
But if he is a great provider (and I have no way of knowing one way or the other), why does he constantly change his name and re-invent himself? That is a big red flag to me.
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from soloyo215 in Lack of reviews a problem?
Is having a premium membership really worth it? How safe is their database? If they have my real name and credit card info isn't that a huge liability?
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Lack of reviews a problem?
Is having a premium membership really worth it? How safe is their database? If they have my real name and credit card info isn't that a huge liability?
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Pd1_jap got a reaction from marylander1940 in Lack of reviews a problem?
Is having a premium membership really worth it? How safe is their database? If they have my real name and credit card info isn't that a huge liability?