Rick M

21 hours ago, MuscleDaddyRWC said:

I usually do twice a month, mainly for massages.  

If I could afford to hire once a week for an overnight that would be my ideal.

Funny, massages do nothing for me. In fact, they make me uncomfortable.

My hiring patterns are highly erratic. As of today, I haven't made an appointment with anyone for at least a year. Now, suddenly, I'm anxious, so I may binge at a rate of once every 2 weeks or so.

Sometimes my sexual energy just isn't there. And if I do have an assignation, I have to put a lot of effort into preliminaries and accessories. These requirements extend beyond what others might consider the usual; plus, I have to travel by bus/train and walk to the hosting professional. (Don't lecture me about the expediency of taxis and Ubers!) All this fuss results in 2 disadvantages: a strong desire to book far in advance (something most providers shy away from) and becoming subject to weather and last-minute delays and cancellations.

I'm still searching for my ideal local go-to guy, but thus far my best matches live elsewhere and visit infrequently, if at all.

4 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Me too! I have a thicker than average cock so I'm not into tight bottoms. Sometimes can be such a slow process then to get all the way in and then if they're so tight I'm gonna cum too fast. Can't wait for your report!

Thicker... That's appealing, too! The effort should be rewarding for both players.

I've always wanted to get buggered by a sizable (8" at least) member with a considerable crook in it. Just to find out if it hits any undiscovered pleasure spots.

Haven't yet. Appointment mid-month. Will post a follow-up then.

I looked past the supposed sniping and thought "cumdump... Utterly appealing!" I don't care what he does in his free time, but I hope when I meet him later this month (fingers crossed) he'll cum in me!

As counterpoint to my original story, I should add that I have given smaller, short-term loans to another provider, which he paid back faithfully. I have also paid off the automobile loans of two different boyfriends and allowed them to repay me in installments with lower interest rates. The success of these exercises may have influenced my attitude in the present case. 

3 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

I think that is a very kind and generous thing you did for him, and I hope it hasn't put any financial strain on yourself.  It sounds like this was set up as a proper loan without strict conditions, so I doubt he thinks of it as a gift.  Even if he is embarrassed he should at least let you know that he is doing alright - though depending on how he got into debt, it is also possible he is back in debt again and would not want you to know.  My only advice, for what it is worth, is not to mention the debt at all when you reach out to him - even though you are just reaffirming that you aren't looking for reimbursement.  Mentioning the debt might be a trigger in some way, so perhaps consider just reaching out very lightheartedly.  Maybe that could set him at ease and make it more comfortable for him to respond?

I haven't mentioned money in any of my communications. Regardless, for all I know, he may have blocked my texts. (I have other ways of tracking/reaching him, but I don't want to freak him out.)

As a sort of collateral, he left something personal (but worthless to anyone else) in my care.

22 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

sorry to hear that! You got scammed! 

When it comes to escorts is "pay as you go", he needed money... hire him several times a week or for overnights and pay him after the deed is done, never before. 

Are you considering getting a lawyer? 

Lawyer? Hell no, the money isn't the important thing. And parsing out $ wouldn't have worked, he was too far in the red.

 When I die, my executor (a real moneygrubber) can try to recapture it. 

I hesitate to post this in case the subject recognizes me and takes umbrage, but to him I reiterate I do not hold him responsible, and in fact, I still trust him.

A while back I engaged a provider several times. We seemed to get along well, and when he revealed he was in financial difficulty, I offered to bail him out of debt. I drew up some papers to formalize the transaction, and went to the bank with him to oversee a transfer of funds. I will not cite the exact amount, but it was a considerable sum. There is no hard due date on repayment.

He left town the week after, and I asked him to stay in touch. This is the disturbing part: whether he is embarrassed to acknowledge his reliance on my generosity, or if he is simply scamming me (though I know his debt was real and he needed help), he has refused to reply to any message I send him. I don't want to exert pressure on him, but I do have an ongoing interest in his well-being, and wish to support him emotionally if he would allow it.

I now attempt to write him twice a year. Each time I reaffirm that I am not looking for reimbursement. I hope some day he takes my earnestness to heart and writes back even it's to say "I'm doing okay."

Another choice in DC:

https://rent.men/AxelRoyale

Seems convivial.

Hi, thanks. And this Jones fellow didn't respond again after an initial query. So, moving on...

Has anyone met this gentleman?

https://rent.men/JonesLuv

No reviews on RM yet. Comments?

Some mixed reviews on RM... Would be good to know why?

Tsk. Thanks for the comments, guys!

https://rent.men/DC_Archer

I've seen his ad before, and he's coming back to DC for a month, but I can't find any mention of him here. Anyone care to share basic info? Thanks!

Same subject, different incident. Met up with an advertiser from RM. No reviews there (nor mention here) though he said he's been providing for years as a sideline. Dead fish on arrival. Absolutely not a match either way. Gave him a consolation prize and hearty handshake. 

Just had my first ! with Jake and... Uh... Oh... Wunnerful!

I try to check all the boxes in advance, but it gets tedious and wears the patience of the provider. I overlook things, too... I hadn't been noting whether the "smoking" attribute was attached to an ad, until I wound up in bed with a chain smoker, and tried to lock lips with a trash mouth. (Really, severely dumpsterish!) Had to back out on the spot.

Just now, Skip said:

Sounds grim... I try to get more info and am always a little aprehensive when I don'r know much. You were fortunate it was just a less than fun experience. It could have been dangerous. There are still thouse that prey on gay men. (I sound like someones mother) 

If you were ever to meet me, you'd see why "I ain't afraid-a no ghost"!

I want to share this recent experience with a neophyte provider, but I don't wish to identify him. He listed himself on RM as a 20-something bi man. Posted only one photo that didn't show face or body below the ribs (upper back shot). The implication was that he's some sort of bodybuilder.

I visited him in the suburban residence that he shares with his gay housemate. They played football together. His age is correct, but the impression I got from the photo didnt pan out: he's not a toned muscle guy. He's beefy, on his way to chubby. It was a hot day and the house's a/c was minimal. Two fans didn't help much. His bed is a double (he thought it was a queen, ha!) with barely enough space for us two tall linebackerish men. I told him he should market this as a "dorm room experience." Stubbly body hair. I had trouble getting into the mood, especially since he doesn't like to kiss. (That's extra!) He couldn't get hard. His cock was nothing special. I blew the whistle after 20 minutes, even though he was willing to "keep trying." Paid him full fare, but told him his rates are a bit steep for RM. He said most of his customers come from Grindr. I don't blame him; on these trial excursions, a good time is never guaranteed.

https://rent.men/jockbbro

Just noticed him, and his ad is "expired." Assuming it will reactivate, can anyone give me a quality rating on this guy? Thanks!

Curiosity got the better of me, so I plunked down my cowrie shells and met this fellow. No secrets revealed here, but I'll say he must be *somebody's* type, just not mine. Write if you need more info.

But perhaps azdr0710 by including that photo meant to say that Chris's posted pics are accurate, and that's a *good* thing, yes?

I can say this much: I started to book an appointment with him. He requested a deposit. I don't like doing that, but I realize for some travelers there is a risk of miscalculation that can blow their whole budget. I wired him the amount. Not 24 hours had passed when he informed me of a family emergency and had to cancel. He immediately transferred my money back to me. So he seems to be an upstanding guy.