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Curious as well if anyone has met him. Definitely into him physically.

Hi. I’m about to book Deon. Could you PM some details about the times when the massage doesn’t happen?

I sent a message to you.

There’s a guy in Austin who also offers Tarot readings. Not sure I would pay for that service. There is only one thing I want in my future.

I have hooked up with him twice as playmates. He is sexy and a lot of fun. I have no idea what he is looking for with that ad though. PM if you want details.

I would be willing to travel very far and pay a lot of money if Daniel ever started escorting.

I currently have a hot dentist, and I keep getting hot ophthalmologists. My dermatologist up north was sexy as hell in a 90’s indie musician kind of way.

Smart watches are COMPUTERS for your wrist, they aren't for telling time.

I mean, they do tell time.

Keeping one's watch on during sex makes even less sense than keeping one's socks on. I'm not all that worried about the watch, but with a relatively thick metal strap, bonking someone with it while moving one's arm from place to place could be somewhat painful and put a damper on things.

 

Maybe this is a case of displaying conspicuous consumption.

That is what I assume. It makes sense in a real world scenario where sex may be rushed, but I cannot imagine why on video, where the person had time to prepare, they would leave it on except to show they owned one (kind of like underwear brands in pornos.)

And I am in agreement. Getting bonked or scraped by a watch is no fun. Watch your jewelry.

WHO still wears a watch ?

Like the millions of people who own Smart Watches?

Really disappointed by my escort session I had with him. I cannot speak to his massage skills. I can give details in a DM.

I used to hook up with a guy who eventually became a male escort exclusively for women. Not sure of his sexuality (not that it matters to me one way or another), but he was very giving and very kinky in bed with me.

I was very young at the time so I got a little freaked out at first, but though we eventually lost touch, we continued to have a lot of fun together.

Depends upon my mood (I try to be diverse in my interests), but the ones that usually get me going are:

Boundgods.com

Gaywire.com

Menatplay.com

This guy who goes by Swell80 on Xvideos because he is hot as hell and he lives out my fantasy life.

Rest In Peace New York Straight Men. You were too hornt up for this world.

I'll add to the chorus here. While I never hired him for a massage, he brazenly tried to cut me on the long line to the bathroom at Tea in Provincetown one year, after I had been waiting for 15 minutes. I actually had to shove him out of the line and was ready to pound the shit out of him but he backed down. I'm not a violent guy, but this creep was so gross and arrogant that I just saw red. So based on that alone, I'd bet my life he's a shit massage therapist.

What a dick!

Well I was at least "lucky" enough to get more than a horrible massage from him back in 2008. After my massage session was over, he asked if I wanted to transition to the bed. He told me that he hadn't been horny in a couple weeks, but today was. He wanted to get fucked and I was going to be the lucky guy to fuck him. He was actually a good bottom.

 

However, the next time that he came to town he hit me up asking if I wanted to set up another massage session. I told him that I would pass on the massage, but if he wanted to hookup again...I would be game for that. At this point he flipped out, called me all kinds of evil (read...racist, ageist, sizeist) things, and made numerous threats including publishing my phone number (I was married at the time). It was very vile, scary, and vicious...and I don't scare easily.

How awful! How could you be any of those things if you wanted to fuck him? There are some serious mental health and/or substance abuse issues with that one. He seems to spread chaos and misery wherever he appears.

Thankfully, places like this exist. I unfortunately did not know about it before I hired Alex/Blake/Whatever He Goes By Next, but at least I can help others avoid the same mistake.

I maybe am not chomping at the bit to lie down naked with a guy standing over me who would get homophobic in an ad posted on a fucking gay massage site.

The best way to handle him is to run in the other direction. Most of my bad experiences hiring could be chalked up to “fine guy, not great at massage” or “personality clash” or “guy is really demanding and kind of annoying”.

Alex is terrible at his job AND a shitty person. He looked nothing like his photos and smelled terrible. He kept asking me insulting personal questions and telling me I did not shower (I did.) He also overshared about his life. I am not against intimacy with a masseur, but I am also not his therapist.

I had to basically pull myself away and flee because he kept trying to come up with reasons to keep me there.

Why do guys picking up fake teenagers always want to take them to the shittiest restaurants? They should be arrested for sugar daddy failure alone.

Surprises like that always backfire spectacularly. Why not have a frank discussion about your relationship and let him pick out an escort you can play with together? You have the same hobby, and you would probably both be happier if you could be open.

I am with everyone who says communication is key. Differences in therapeutic, sensual, and erotic can vary wildly from person to person, and therapists are people too. No one can read anyone’s mind.

I have had erotic massages that are a gentle pat on my buisness and then instructions to do it myself while he finished cleaning up. Then I have had therapeutic that started with me covered in a sheet and ended with us both cumming. My regular says he only does sensual, but then we go hot and heavy every time.

I expect at least HE with sensual and some fondling. Erotic implies to me that most everything is on the table.

I did not dislike him, but I am not chomping at the bit (phrasing) to hire again. Will share more in a PM.

I managed it with one therapist. I really liked him as a person, and we had a lot of good conversations. He kept insisting he was “straight”, completel unsolicited, though he massaged me shirtless with his pants sling low on his hips.

Over time our talk kept turning to sex, and I definitely encouraged him to tell me things he had done with clients by revealing what I had done with other therapists. Still he kept saying “But I’m a straight guy”. I did notice the pants getting lower.

Finally, he just started rubbing against my arm and hand, telling me about going down on a girl the week before and how he really needed it because his wife and he did not really sleep together any more. I took that as my cue and we tested the limits of his “straightness”.

I think he just needed someone he was at ease with who could fulfill his needs. I guess that is my advice. Make him feel comfortable and willing to talk about sex. Accept it will probably be on his terms and at his comfort level. You never know.

I wear a jockstrap when I work out at the gym. Mostly just so the other guys can see it when I change in front of them in the locker room.

I am also of the “Always Be Prepared” school so I make sure I am showered and clean inside and out.

Also, I do not eat before a session.

I think at this stage in the game I would want a 23andme result to prove anyone was actually related when the ad claims they are. It is nice in the realm of fantasy, but I do not believe any of them are actually brothers.

Also, talking about business ideas is a grade-B bonerkiller for me so pass.