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Thanks for the reports, boys. I almost hired him once, and I am glad I did not.

“My husband...my husband...my husband” is an interesting marketing strategy.

Realalist, I have definitely been in your shoes as a formerly overweight person, and you should feel under no obligation to be anything but yourself. I have had plenty of nasty rejections in the dating scene because of my weight (but also because of my beard and foreskin), but honestly nothing has ever come up for me when hiring an escort. All those guys have been understanding and accepting, and one of the reasons I have hired in the past is to take the stress out of sex, to not feel like I had to be someone else to make the other person happy.

I think you should feel comfortable acting on your fantasies, and while you are under no obligation to disclose your personal appearance (and no one should ever feel pressured to do that I think), it seems for your own mental well being you should in the initial conversation with the escort. That way they can set your worries to rest and you can set expectations together without your anxieties weighing you down.

Good luck! And please remember, there are a lot of racist and fatphobic people in the world. Some one will always find a reason to look down on you and reject you. But they are just a bunch of fuckheads and have no actual say in your worth as a person.

I am very irritated by gum chewing, but I am irritated by the sounds of other people eating in general.

Why is there an expectation that a client has to be “good” at anything??? Isn’t this about having some sexy fun? This thread is so disheartening.

Wow, I would not have recognized him at all! It’s like a Mormon missionary went full Robison Crusoe. It was a fantasy I did not even know I had! Fingers crossed for travel.

I second JDHATX.

I also like Jeremiah (he can seem a little standoffish, but he and I have great chemistry):

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5913/

Alex Jennings (nice therapeutic massage with sensual elements worked through out):

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35660/

Deon (very hot, sometimes massage does not happen):

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31314/

PM if you need further details.

As a side note, I wish Avery went further. Such a nice guy and so fucking hot.

I can verify that video is pretty accurate as far as experience goes. I would be happy to give you details in a PM.

Not a whole lot of massage went on though so I cannot speak to his talents there.

Yeah, he gives a very good massage with lots of sensual elements. DM if you want details.

I try to treat escorts with the same respect and decorum I would use with any other professional. Dirty talk is for the bedroom.

And as an added note, I do not want my Grindr hookups sending me photos of their “cum holes” or “boy pussies” ( or using those phrases for their anuses in the first place.) I can imagine how off-putting it can be.

I hate to be negative, but my experience with him was no good. Maybe it was just a personality conflict.

As a client, I take mutual touch to mean “my hands can go on the massuer’s body”. I do not touch unless we have explicitly agreed to this beforehand or he starts putting parts of his anatomy on my hands. If he wants to go even further, I usually let him make the first move. The way I look at it, I am naked on my stomach and my legs are slightly spread. The indicator light is on if he wants to go there.

I try to check on here to make sure the provider is OK with M.T. because I want a solid mix of therapeutic and sensual. My local mainstays and I have our system worked out, and I usually look for a similar one in new guys.

My policy of not groping until given express permission has saved me from some embarrassing situations. One recent guy was discussed on here as offering MT, but during our session he did not so much as remove his shirt. He could not get me out the door fast enough after the session (like he was asking me questions, and while I thought we were having a conversation, he stopped and stared at me until I started walking to the front door.) I am very happy I did not just grab at him during our session.

I have always wondered that as well. He is one of my favorite porn stars, and I think he only gets sexier with age.

I always got really turned on by his videos myself. There is something about how uninhibited he is that I find very sexy. And surrounded constantly by buff young men? Life goals what can I say.

Phones have ruined everything: massages, escort sessions, cruising.

I have twice, but only after frank communication with the escort about expectations (both his and mine) and only once I was in the room with him right before we started.

I would never do it before actually meeting the person.

If you charge $1000 an hour, I am sure someone out there will assume you are worth it and pay it. I may never hire an escort at that rate, but I applaud his determination.

I agree with everyone’s recommendation for Mike and David. Super nice guys, attractive, and a nice mix of therapeutic and sensual. Also, both seemed to be equally invested, and as I have had issues with one masseur being super into it and the other tapping his foot during 4 hand, this was important.

Bearrub talked way too much during the session. Like, an actual lecture on posture before and during the massage. Dmitry let me see and touch his new (at the time) piercing so I would definitely like another crack at him given the opportunity. I cannot even remember the quality of the massage so I guess that really says it all.

It is incredibly disheartening to hear anyone would feel the need to disclose their race pre-appointment as if it was source of shame.

Kudos to you for being welcoming and appalled by the very thought of discrimination.

Jon Hamm...what a panty dropper.

Again, I was being facetious.

I was kidding. It was more like a 45 minute quickie at an hour rate.

Oh yeah, he is hot as hell! He has grown from a very fine young man to a smoking DILF. I would mortgage my house for one mustache ride.

I cannot figure out how to post images in here (if you could tell me, I would appreciate it), but here is a gif:

https://sticky.queerclick.com/pin/502536/

I have had a one hour session turn into a 15 minute quickie at the higher rate. Does that count?

I used to see a guy named Gio pretty regularly in Austin. Very handsome, fit Italian guy. I saw him three times for strictly therapeutic. He would always insist (completely unsolicited) how he was straight and did not fool around with clients. He wore less clothing each time, and one day we began sharing stories about massages that ended in something more intimate.

Let’s just say by session 4 he began to bend his rules and his sexuality.

Do not know what happened to him at all after Craigslist collapsed.