dgantzman
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dgantzman reacted to Monarchy79 in Str8 guys less concerned with race than Gay Men?
I both agree and disagree with you.
1.) Our “preferences”, are prejudices
2.) “Preferences” aren’t fair, but it doesn’t matter. When it comes to whom someone sleeps with, they owe no explanation.
3.) Who we are attracted to, does play a significant role in how we deeply feel about that person’s race as a whole, which is why so many ethnic snow queens seek the validation of white men. It’s not just a preference for them, it’s a deep seeded, euro-centric validation. A white man’s acceptance will make them feel better about who they are .
4.) There’s no such thing as “just a preference”. Every single last one of or so called preferences are shaped by social/environment, influences that start at our upbringing.
We truly don’t own many of our decisions. Lol.....
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dgantzman reacted to Monarchy79 in Str8 guys less concerned with race than Gay Men?
I both agree and disagree with you.
1.) Our “preferences”, are prejudices
2.) “Preferences” aren’t fair, but it doesn’t matter. When it comes to whom someone sleeps with, they owe no explanation.
3.) Who we are attracted to, does play a significant role in how we deeply feel about that person’s race as a whole, which is why so many ethnic snow queens seek the validation of white men. It’s not just a preference for them, it’s a deep seeded, euro-centric validation. A white man’s acceptance will make them feel better about who they are .
4.) There’s no such thing as “just a preference”. Every single last one of or so called preferences are shaped by social/environment, influences that start at our upbringing.
We truly don’t own many of our decisions. Lol.....
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dgantzman reacted to Monarchy79 in Str8 guys less concerned with race than Gay Men?
“Just a preference”, is a myth.
Our preferences are shaped by centuries of propaganda and environmental influence.
Although I think this guy is gorgeous, I do understand that my belief of his “beauty”, is shaped by social influence of beauty, shaped by Eurocentricm, colorism, featurism, and a standard of “preference” of light skinned “black” or alleged “bi-racial”’people.
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dgantzman reacted to Monarchy79 in Str8 guys less concerned with race than Gay Men?
“Just a preference”, is a myth.
Our preferences are shaped by centuries of propaganda and environmental influence.
Although I think this guy is gorgeous, I do understand that my belief of his “beauty”, is shaped by social influence of beauty, shaped by Eurocentricm, colorism, featurism, and a standard of “preference” of light skinned “black” or alleged “bi-racial”’people.
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dgantzman got a reaction from + HornyRetiree in First time meeting up with an escort
Definitely I’d like to meet up with my guy again.. just have to save up some coins ??
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dgantzman got a reaction from marylander1940 in First time meeting up with an escort
Hey guys, tomorrow I’m meeting up with an escort... it’s my first time hiring one. I’m 29, with dating and Grindr I’ve been feeling unsatisfied sexually with men I’ve been with lately. I’m really excited and thrilled to do something like this. Any tips for a first timer?
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dgantzman got a reaction from BabyBoomer in MarcoHungMuscle in NYC 411
I saw him and had an amazing time.
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dgantzman got a reaction from NYCethan in First time meeting up with an escort
It went awesomely well! He was really cool. We kissed and cuddled. We did it twice and it seemed like he had a fun time too. I’m a little sore lol
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dgantzman got a reaction from BeHappy in First time meeting up with an escort
It went awesomely well! He was really cool. We kissed and cuddled. We did it twice and it seemed like he had a fun time too. I’m a little sore lol
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dgantzman got a reaction from BeHappy in First time meeting up with an escort
Thanks guys I’ll let you know how everything goes. We’ve been texting and he seems pretty cool
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dgantzman got a reaction from BabyBoomer in First time meeting up with an escort
You just reminded me. Will do
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dgantzman reacted to BabyBoomer in First time meeting up with an escort
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dgantzman got a reaction from DaveOrDavid in First time meeting up with an escort
It went awesomely well! He was really cool. We kissed and cuddled. We did it twice and it seemed like he had a fun time too. I’m a little sore lol
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dgantzman got a reaction from beachboy in First time meeting up with an escort
It went awesomely well! He was really cool. We kissed and cuddled. We did it twice and it seemed like he had a fun time too. I’m a little sore lol
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dgantzman got a reaction from Choclate Cub in Thoughts on younger clients?
I’m in my 20s and recently hired an escort. I had a great time. There are many reasons why younger men are turning to escorts, busy careers, flakes... for me I was just over Tinder and Grindr and meeting either flaky dudes or dudes who couldn’t really perform well in the bedroom.
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dgantzman got a reaction from BabyBoomer in First time meeting up with an escort
It went awesomely well! He was really cool. We kissed and cuddled. We did it twice and it seemed like he had a fun time too. I’m a little sore lol
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dgantzman got a reaction from + Kufrol in First time meeting up with an escort
It went awesomely well! He was really cool. We kissed and cuddled. We did it twice and it seemed like he had a fun time too. I’m a little sore lol
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dgantzman reacted to Strafe13 in First time meeting up with an escort
I completely agree. Whenever I hire an escort for the first time for more than just a wham-bam, I almost always spend at least half of that initial meeting just talking because I need that to relax and get comfortable for an intimate session. Sometimes that level of full comfort and ease doesn't happen until the 2nd or 3rd time we meet, assuming I felt that there was some kind of spark or potential during the 1st session.
So, depending on what you want, don't put too much stock into how well you click at that 1st meeting. Rather, look for signs or indications of the deeper qualities that you seek, and which can develop over time. And as long as you're upfront with the escort about what you want (and that it's your first time, of course), assuming he's a consummate professional, he should be able to guide you through it and minimize the discomfort and awkwardness.