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Eagerly waiting for the report...

*feverishly starts looking through grindr* (if I matched your types you described, I definitely would be looking for you, but please keep up with the stories)

Perhaps I am overly cautious, but I am refraining at the moment from hiring. Sensual massages often involve kissing and other potential activities for transmission. I have enough possibilities for exposure in my work life (which does not involve kissing, but does involve many people working in close proximity in an enclosed space) so I’d rather minimize risk elsewhere. That is, until I can’t take it anymore.

My new current favorite: https://www.gayforit.eu/video/510871/Dads-BareBack-Massage-Parlor

My new current favorite: https://www.gayforit.eu/video/510871/Dads-BareBack-Massage-Parlor

I get the same.

I want to be different, just like everybody else...
 

We’ll be warned... the link below is to a good portion of the series, and then some. I’m guessing we won’t be hearing from some of our Hottest Massage Video Ever comrades for a while. Many hours of master bait!
 
https://www.gayforit.eu/advanced_search/?keywords=Asian+massage&btn_submit=Search

Everything in this series (if it hasn't been posted before):
https://www.xnxx.com/video-go1zj93/body_massage_cuerpo_a_cuerpo_buenos_aires_48157977
 
It seems amateur-ish, and if I'm being choosy, I enjoy the lying on the stomach penetration more. Sign me up for this type of massage (but in San Diego, not Argentina).

I get the same.

Cannot see it I get "We're sorry, the request requires user authentication"

I would love to be an "unwilling" participant like this.

I don't think this just applies to this industry, it applies to anything. I am more likely to continue to patronize someone if they seem to enjoy the fact that I am spending my money right then, right there. Whether it's buying a pizza, getting a massage or getting something more intimate -- if you can 'act' like the money is an inconsequential portion of the exchange, I am more likely to return.
 
I once received a massage that was so mechanical that not only was I not relaxed, I ended up mostly uncomfortable and felt bad that I was wasting her time.

I don't think this just applies to this industry, it applies to anything. I am more likely to continue to patronize someone if they seem to enjoy the fact that I am spending my money right then, right there. Whether it's buying a pizza, getting a massage or getting something more intimate -- if you can 'act' like the money is an inconsequential portion of the exchange, I am more likely to return.
 
I once received a massage that was so mechanical that not only was I not relaxed, I ended up mostly uncomfortable and felt bad that I was wasting her time.

I know i will prolly get ridiculed for making this statement so before i do let me qualify it first by saying There are so many ways of doing a session. Whether it is an escort vs. masseur keep in mind that you have every right to get exactly what you desire and should definitely “shop” around before making a decision. Having said that just remember that this shyt aint rocket science and sometimes you may not even know what you TRULY like or want until u have experienced it for the first time and then all of a sudden, something clicks and ur saying to yourself, “hey...i really dig that and wanna try that again!”
So here goes my very watered and oversimplified analogy of the difference between an Escort vs. Masseur ...
 
With an Escort - the client controls the session / with a Masseur- the client gives up control of the session to the masseur .
 
Now before some of you get ur “panties” all in a bunch on this , (lol) ? hear me out .
When i first started doing massage 10 years ago , i was so green . I was scared i would make a mistake . I kept trying to figure out what the client wanted . And after i had seen a number of clients it became apparent to me these 3 things:
 
1. The client wants to let go and relax and not think about much in a massage . They want you to give their body the attention it needs and deserves without having to be a director. They seldom want chit chat during that period . Just make them feel good
 
2. The massage client is quite often in a relationship or situation where they are neglected physically. ie- married to female , stagnant boyfriend, or maybe they have a job that is strenuous or where they are constantly having to make important stressful decisions all day and for the duration of the session they just want to let go~feel pampered and be self indulgent on a small quiet scale.
 
3. Sexual arousal is okay but is not paramount & often “my” clients are more interested in a little frottage or in some cases not even that. And it’s okay ? as long as they leave feeling better mentally and physically...mission accomplished. A release at the end doesn’t really even amount to what i would define as sex. Thats also a very physical way of releasing tension. So it does complete a very good sensual massage in a positive way .
 
Now this is strictly my own views and i know i am not nor do i pretend 2 B an expert in all things “massage” but i have been doin it a long time and i have asked many questions thru the years.
 
At one point i did post an ad on Rentmen. And this is how i came to my version of the differences between the two .
Practically EVERY client that contacted me from Rentmen had specific requests and interests and what they expected out of a session. And that is OK too !
But the client is still in control .
 
Now some will say, “Hey wait a minute, I want to be a sub and I’m looking for somebody to dominate me and tell me what to do!” And you might be thinking well the client is giving up control of the session in that scenario!!
Not so ... The client is still determining what he wants/gets from the escort. And if that client goes into the session and mrEscort X doesn’t perform in exactly that manner, guess what ? The client most likely will end the session early . Still the client is in control .
That’s not to say that a client wouldn’t walk out of a bad massage early also. But the only time I’ve ever had that happen is when a client came to me for a massage mistakingly thinking that I was an escort posing as a masseur . Anyways i dont give bad massages !!
Also, I do not advertise anymore on Rentmen so that clients don’t see me playing different roles and getting confused about the services that I offer.
I know some guys do both, and I am not in anyway suggesting that there is any thing wrong with that. But I prefer for myself the energy exchange between me and the client through the healing power of a massage.
I connect better in that situation. And I like to stay in control.
What can I say? I guess I’m a control freak. ??‍♂️
 
Now, have my massages sometimes resulted in some hot intense sex? Yes of course . But again I like when things unfold naturally regarding sexual contact. I’m not the kind of person that makes a laundry list of requirements prior to sex.
 
I also found out about myself very quickly after I first started doing massage, that I really enjoy healing another person’s body thru touch!!
 
When I started doing massage It was only by accident because I had lost (like so many others) my job when Bush Left office and I couldn’t find work. My self-esteem was very low from constant rejection for employment.
My friend who was already doing massage brought me into it . And Once I started doing massage, I felt better about myself because I was helping others feel better too.
 
Since that time I have massaged I think I Estimated about 5000 or more & I never looked back .
Personally, I’ve hired both. Escorts and Masseurs.
They both bring something of interest to me to the table. But when I make those purchases, I shop around to get exactly what I want. And so should you.
Don’t get too upset if it takes a few tries. Chalk it up as a learning experience.
I have found that some of the most memorable experiences I’ve had were completely by accident and when I tossed all my Pre-requisites to the wind & took a leap of faith.
With that i say to you ...Peace and happy hunting !!! ✌️?

I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.

I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.

I have been in any number of conversations & situations over the years involving scrotum play. I have had partners who blast if I gave the slightest attention there, and others who were less sensitive but clearly enjoyed it. Alas, when a guy touches, licks, sucks or otherwise attends to my balls, it does virtually nothing--as with my nipples, I seem to have little sensitivity there. *Sigh* I am the original numbnuts.

Whoops, masseur

Whoops, masseur

Whoops, masseur

I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.

I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.

I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.

I don't personally care about price, this is what I'm looking for. Only prompting from the client (me) being them reading the situation and 'taking charge.'
 
Also, for the inexperienced (me), massage is gateway intimate contact. If I knew how to 'shop' better or read advertisements better, this would make my life easier.
 
edit: I'd rather overpay for a massage then pay for a massage then be presented with a "pay me X for Y" -- I'd rather have my expensive massage fee cover it up front.