britok

💯 agree with the comments above!
 
Had the opportunity to recently connect with him and it exceeded every expectation and more! Hope to do it again in the near future!

Hi everyone!
 
I’m new to the forum, but I just want to start by saying how much I appreciate all the information, feedback and more to be found here.
 
I would love to see if anyone has any information or recommendations on providers who work with customers of size in NYC.
 
I’m a bigger guy and traveling this weekend, and would love to get a massage/boyfriend experience, but I can be on the shyer side of things and appreciate people who are non-judgmental and can create a welcoming environment.
 
Anyone have tips on caring providers who would provide a nice environment for someone like me trying to broaden their horizons a bit more?
 
Appreciate any info provided. Thanks!

That's about what I'd suggest, except I'd also include what I want to do together.

I was supposed to see him in Houston over the weekend. He then changed travel dates, failed to tell me and went to Dallas. ho hum...

I understand what you’re saying @britok.
 
I have a boyfriend now but when I hired, I always described myself and asked if we would be compatible. I’m tall and lean but I’m also old, and many guys don‘t want to get pumped by a man who’s 30+years older than them or don’t want to suck an old man’s cock to completion. I always preferred guys to be direct with me and say ”it won’t work for me” than have a disappointing date.

This is practical on paper, but at what point is it that the other person is too picky or apprehensive?
We as escorts even get this, or in non hiring hook ups as well ( people want age, height, weight, waist size, dick size, race, eye color hair color, pictures to confirm, reask stat questions, ask for more pictures, and on and on with the cycle, with curvy/overweight women it can be exponentially worse)
To the @britok I would just disclose a weight range and height in this manor...5'9 250+...or 5'9 300+.... etc.
then just add that you are healthy and hygienic.
If a provider asks for pictures or any other questions on stats or appearance they are already going to be judgemental.

I get what you’re saying - and think you’re right which is why I ALWAYS say upfront I’m plus size and ask if the providers are comfortable with that.
 
He initially said yes when I told him this - and the. we trade all this back and forth. Then, I tell him some expectations - and THEN he ask for my actual weight... it was a little suspect in my opinion, and I wish if it had been a dealbreaker, that question would have come at the beginning of our conversation rather than after making plans and setting expectations to have it end the way it did at the last minute. For someone who is fat (to be blunt), it’s hard not to be triggered or feel a certain type of way when you’re essentially conditioned to ask ahead of time if you’re “worthy” of their time and talents.
 
You’ll have to forgive me. I’m still a little pressed by it because this all happened this morning and momma was looking forward to it. Haha

I don’t question that it’s him. The photos aren’t anything he’s published before, he’s used the name Kevin before, and he’s moved from rural Texas. If you get together with him, I hope you’ll let us know how it goes!

Hi Gareth! Thanks for the follow-up. I would say I’m not really into a**l - but I would prefer more of a top/vers dominant personality.

Met him when he came to Atlanta...amazing time

Hi everyone!
 
I’m new to the forum, but I just want to start by saying how much I appreciate all the information, feedback and more to be found here.
 
I would love to see if anyone has any information or recommendations on providers who work with customers of size in NYC.
 
I’m a bigger guy and traveling this weekend, and would love to get a massage/boyfriend experience, but I can be on the shyer side of things and appreciate people who are non-judgmental and can create a welcoming environment.
 
Anyone have tips on caring providers who would provide a nice environment for someone like me trying to broaden their horizons a bit more?
 
Appreciate any info provided. Thanks!