Chilltime
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Chilltime got a reaction from Asterisk in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
As a person of color who hires, you have to start with the understanding that the gay community is extremely racist and providers reflect the community. If you don’t want bad experiences, it is better to be transparent and tell the provider and deal with their racism up front. I tried it the other way and had so many bad experiences that I paid for. I would much rather have providers who will work with me than roll the dice on their racism
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Chilltime got a reaction from musclestuduws in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
I doubt there is any demographic analysis of gay racism versus the population as a whole. I will simply say that i am significantly less likely to encounter explicit racism at non gay events or spaces. I get that the community does a lot of virtue signaling around this issue but it is not my experience
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Chilltime got a reaction from musclestuduws in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
As a person of color who hires, you have to start with the understanding that the gay community is extremely racist and providers reflect the community. If you don’t want bad experiences, it is better to be transparent and tell the provider and deal with their racism up front. I tried it the other way and had so many bad experiences that I paid for. I would much rather have providers who will work with me than roll the dice on their racism
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Chilltime got a reaction from ChasingGirth in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
As a person of color who hires, you have to start with the understanding that the gay community is extremely racist and providers reflect the community. If you don’t want bad experiences, it is better to be transparent and tell the provider and deal with their racism up front. I tried it the other way and had so many bad experiences that I paid for. I would much rather have providers who will work with me than roll the dice on their racism
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Chilltime got a reaction from Strafe13 in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
As a person of color who hires, you have to start with the understanding that the gay community is extremely racist and providers reflect the community. If you don’t want bad experiences, it is better to be transparent and tell the provider and deal with their racism up front. I tried it the other way and had so many bad experiences that I paid for. I would much rather have providers who will work with me than roll the dice on their racism
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Chilltime got a reaction from Walt in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
I doubt there is any demographic analysis of gay racism versus the population as a whole. I will simply say that i am significantly less likely to encounter explicit racism at non gay events or spaces. I get that the community does a lot of virtue signaling around this issue but it is not my experience
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Chilltime got a reaction from Musru in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
I doubt there is any demographic analysis of gay racism versus the population as a whole. I will simply say that i am significantly less likely to encounter explicit racism at non gay events or spaces. I get that the community does a lot of virtue signaling around this issue but it is not my experience
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Chilltime got a reaction from pubic_assistance in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
I doubt there is any demographic analysis of gay racism versus the population as a whole. I will simply say that i am significantly less likely to encounter explicit racism at non gay events or spaces. I get that the community does a lot of virtue signaling around this issue but it is not my experience
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Chilltime got a reaction from pubic_assistance in KaiJohnson - NYC - Rentmen
As a person of color who hires, you have to start with the understanding that the gay community is extremely racist and providers reflect the community. If you don’t want bad experiences, it is better to be transparent and tell the provider and deal with their racism up front. I tried it the other way and had so many bad experiences that I paid for. I would much rather have providers who will work with me than roll the dice on their racism
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Chilltime got a reaction from Peter Eater in Yourguykai Los Angeles
Had a bad experience with him. Ymmv but he didn’t do what we agreed in advance and insisted on payment. I would avoid
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Chilltime got a reaction from Wanderoz in Adept bottom in nyc
Has anyone met https://app.rent.men/AdeptBottomNYC
I like his ad but curious about the community wisdom on him
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