MidwestCoastal

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Not as much as I would like....

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Not as much as I would like....

Photo search yields -
Anton Khrustovskiy
Anton is a 26 year old Ukrainian model from Kharkov
 
Not that it couldn't be him.... just more information for ya.

So.... I'm not alone.
 
Did fuckbuddys and friends with benefits go the way of the Dodo in the "Age of App-sex"? Am I just too old? (47)
 
I've been told my 'sexpecations', so to speak, are unrealistic. I'd like to get fucked several times a week if I could. I've never had a BF, but I still hope to! And I hope his libido is capable of at least weekly. I need to win the lottery I guess to pay for as much sex as I think I want.
 
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Recently....
 
Watchmen on HBO, especially certain episodes - #8!
 
Sex is definitely what I associate smoking pot with most..... Its Pavlovian..... I smell it and I get a chubby.

So.... I'm not alone.
 
Did fuckbuddys and friends with benefits go the way of the Dodo in the "Age of App-sex"? Am I just too old? (47)
 
I've been told my 'sexpecations', so to speak, are unrealistic. I'd like to get fucked several times a week if I could. I've never had a BF, but I still hope to! And I hope his libido is capable of at least weekly. I need to win the lottery I guess to pay for as much sex as I think I want.
 
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So.... I'm not alone.
 
Did fuckbuddys and friends with benefits go the way of the Dodo in the "Age of App-sex"? Am I just too old? (47)
 
I've been told my 'sexpecations', so to speak, are unrealistic. I'd like to get fucked several times a week if I could. I've never had a BF, but I still hope to! And I hope his libido is capable of at least weekly. I need to win the lottery I guess to pay for as much sex as I think I want.
 
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Not as much as I would like....

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Not as much as I would like....

Combining threads..... Boy we're a FAST group... He's been on RM for less than a day..... and he's already got two threads!
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/san-francisco-emilianog-chadhorseback.155217/

He's still a hot guy... but Cade looks a little.... puffy ....in this Falcon video. I still wouldn't throw him out of bed for eating crackers, but I preferred the leaner Cade!
 
https://str8upgayporn.com/cade-maddox-fucks-ryan-rose-bareback-gay-porn/
 
(And when did FALCON start doing bareback porn again!? Color me surprised.... or old.... or both...)

Woof.
https://rent.men/NateGrimes

Has anyone else seen Nate Grime's body lately? He's working out like crazy, and he is packing on major muscle. Washboard abs, striations, poping traps, and he's super strong!
 
Also, NOT a steroid body, natural, you can tell.
 
Seriously, he looks fucking awesome.

I just threw up in my mouth a little....

I think we need @Benjamin_Nicholas to weigh in here....
 
Let me turn the tables on this question.... As a bottom who only hires providers who are tops, if they cum in the first 10 minutes and can't get it up again, should I only pay for 10%?
 
I don't think its fair to be upset with anyone who 'cums too fast' especially if it is a second time you are getting together with them. Cum happens.... be happy about that, not annoyed.
 
I will say, this is where this forum is SO helpful. If this was habitual behavior....cum quick and be done as a way to avoid further performance....then I think you could make a case that someone is trying to avoid providing services as promised.
 
If you cumming first is important or a bottom who can keep taking it if they cum first is what you want, talk about it before your session.... I LOVE asking tops if they can cum more than once in a session. Almost every time, they have been honest about it and I was never disappointed.
 
If you're that upset, discuss getting more time out of the next session or see if they will give you a discount....otherwise, let it go!

Enough said.... the Forum saves the day once again....
 
Thank you!

Enough said.... the Forum saves the day once again....
 
Thank you!

This is one reason why I only hire escorts who are willing to talk beforehand (i.e. before meeting) about what I would like to do together. I do understand that some escorts feel more protected by sticking to the "hiring for time only...no talking about details" kind of thing, but I don't feel comfortable in that situation. If I were hiring someone for a "BFE" session, I would still want to discuss what that meant for me, making sure he was on board with that.

Sean Cody's Jax is available in Tulsa https://rent.men/Jax_official
 
Here's 6'4" bodybuilder Jax in action https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5d31465b62fc3

My ideal guy is Sean from SC: https://www.seancody.com/model/18087/sean

I would encourage you to cast several lines into this pond.
 
My best success for these situations has always been the 'dating/hookup' apps such as Grindr and Scruff. State that you want Friends with Benefits in your profile and see what happens.
 
I would also encourage you to lay out exactly what your 'must haves' would be. Are you exclusively a top into vanilla? Are you a bottom into leather?
 
You also need to be prepared for a 'partial breakup' situation. What if you start out with the mindset of having a FwB relationship,but the sex just doesn't work - are you prepared to say "I think we're best off just as friends"? Or the reverse, the sex is great, but the hanging out part just doesn't work, are you comfortable with a FB? And as others have recommended, be up front about the 'What if one of us starts dating/gets a BF?'
 
I also found getting the sex part under your belt early on tended to be best for all parties. If the sex was great, working on the friend part was easier, for me anyways, because lets be honest, sex is a huge motivator here for the other person's company.
 
I believe all relationships - family, BF, FwB, FB, friends - have a better chance of success with open dialogue and expectations. I think this type of relationship specifically needs a bit more communication up front.
 
Just my two cents...

Is there some reason not to use the phone apps?
 
There are other sites-but I think they are more of the dating type -they have websites and might have phone apps too.
 
1. There's Plenty of Fish
https://www.pof.com/
 
2. OkCupid
https://www.okcupid.com/
 
Okcupid if it hasn't changed from when I tried it years ago, this site will ask you a lot of questions and then will match you up. The problem being that I'm fairly unattractive. Just because I might match someone else's interests, if they didn't like the way I looked, they weren't interested in meeting. I'm assuming that's why no one was ever interested in me during the several months I was on it.
 
3. Match.com
 
Interesting fact-initially it didn't cover same sex relationships. I believe the founder was a therapist who supposedly had done testing on compatibility. His stated reason for not including same sex matches was that he didn't have the data. At some point I think there was a lawsuit, and they were forced to include same sex matches.
 
Going back to the gay sites, there's
 
4. adam4adam.com
 
5. Manhunt-I haven't looked at this site in probably 7 years.
 
 
https://www.manhunt.net/signup
 
Another site to try might be. Depending on where you live, there may be gay groups.
 
MEETUP-
 
meetup.com
 
Gman

I would encourage you to cast several lines into this pond.
 
My best success for these situations has always been the 'dating/hookup' apps such as Grindr and Scruff. State that you want Friends with Benefits in your profile and see what happens.
 
I would also encourage you to lay out exactly what your 'must haves' would be. Are you exclusively a top into vanilla? Are you a bottom into leather?
 
You also need to be prepared for a 'partial breakup' situation. What if you start out with the mindset of having a FwB relationship,but the sex just doesn't work - are you prepared to say "I think we're best off just as friends"? Or the reverse, the sex is great, but the hanging out part just doesn't work, are you comfortable with a FB? And as others have recommended, be up front about the 'What if one of us starts dating/gets a BF?'
 
I also found getting the sex part under your belt early on tended to be best for all parties. If the sex was great, working on the friend part was easier, for me anyways, because lets be honest, sex is a huge motivator here for the other person's company.
 
I believe all relationships - family, BF, FwB, FB, friends - have a better chance of success with open dialogue and expectations. I think this type of relationship specifically needs a bit more communication up front.
 
Just my two cents...

Ah...but when they really are.... they are truly a find.....

I would encourage you to cast several lines into this pond.
 
My best success for these situations has always been the 'dating/hookup' apps such as Grindr and Scruff. State that you want Friends with Benefits in your profile and see what happens.
 
I would also encourage you to lay out exactly what your 'must haves' would be. Are you exclusively a top into vanilla? Are you a bottom into leather?
 
You also need to be prepared for a 'partial breakup' situation. What if you start out with the mindset of having a FwB relationship,but the sex just doesn't work - are you prepared to say "I think we're best off just as friends"? Or the reverse, the sex is great, but the hanging out part just doesn't work, are you comfortable with a FB? And as others have recommended, be up front about the 'What if one of us starts dating/gets a BF?'
 
I also found getting the sex part under your belt early on tended to be best for all parties. If the sex was great, working on the friend part was easier, for me anyways, because lets be honest, sex is a huge motivator here for the other person's company.
 
I believe all relationships - family, BF, FwB, FB, friends - have a better chance of success with open dialogue and expectations. I think this type of relationship specifically needs a bit more communication up front.
 
Just my two cents...