Coolwave35

Successful ones on the streets of Manhattan: He had to get a stranger to let him try on their jacket. He had to convince someone standing on the street that despite his best efforts, he couldn’t get a photo of his bare ass for his Grindr profile. This negotiation was hilarious, and the pic was really hot. He had an empty water bottle and had to get someone to take it from him and throw it out without speaking. (I had to give him the strategy so this was a partial win.) He had to open the car door of an idling car with more than one person inside and apologize that he thought it was his Uber. Uncompleted. Bum a pack of cigarettes from a smoker on the sidewalk. Be a British gentleman, flirt with a woman walking her dog, then offer to pick up the poop for her with her little doggy bag.

He is not escorting at this point in time. He did his first muscle worship sesh but didn’t enjoy it. the “rules” he explained to me were “don’t pull my dick out and don’t poke my butthole”.

I’m really glad you got that experience. I feel like when it works, even the providers enjoy it!

I am separated from my family. I have traditionally hated Thanksgiving weekend. I always used to treat a regular provider extra well to take me out Wednesday night, ride mopeds through the empty streets of nyc on Thursday, shop til we drop on Friday, have sexcapades on Saturday, and sweet good byes on Sunday. I always felt providers should be better compensated for holidays. I don’t desire intimate, or consistent phone or text communication and rarely give a provider my number so they can’t “check in.” I want them to be present when they’re on the clock though. I find myself hiring less and less lately.

I spent the evening with him tonight. We started with dinner and then I dared him to do a bunch of dumb shit around New York City. He completed four out of six tasks. He grew on me and is very fun to be around. We finished at fairytale that had Adonis and we did a bunch of lapdances. I made it worth it for him to come from the UK and he gave me a really fun Saturday night. If you are looking for sex, he’s not your man.

I guess this is a case of your mileage may vary. I did 10 songs in a row. He was a delight. It took him a little while to hit his stride, but then he hit it. The dance started with “you know the rules right?” I told him I know them better than he does. He’s drug-free and tattoo free. He asked me to share his Instagram. Moderator's Note: Gentlemen, we all know the rule: No sharing social media links in the public forums that are not shared on a provider's public profile. If you want to share such social media links that do not appear in a provider's public profile, please do so via direct message. Thanks

I’m gunna try to convince him to spend some more time in the Big Apple.

I’m going to see him tonight and I’m happy to report back. Thank you for putting him on my radar, I am very excited.

^^ I agree with that 100%.

I did alright with 11. It has the potential to be incredible or awful. I’ve had my fair share of those too.

Email Matt or Tim.

In my experience, all of those guys are available to spend private time with.

This is gunna sound weird. I clearly smell cigarettes with my nose. With vaping, I feel like I can taste it with my tongue.

I dressed up as Robin from Batman and Robin when I was managing a grocery store at 19. I had to diffuse a disgruntled customer dressed as Robin. It was so embarrassing that I said never again and won’t let my employees dress for Halloween. My assistant wore a pumpkin and witch earrings but that’s about as far as we take it. We do give out candy though.

I equate them equally. A provider was blowing me recently and stopped to hit his vape. It killed it for me and I asked him to leave. At strip clubs I won’t go for lapdances with the guys sucking on the vape all night. It’s just a turn off for me.

I once hired 5 guys for a fantasy. Two paired off and kinda left the bed we were playing in. My main regular said “hey fellas, don’t forget why you’re here unless you’re donating your time.” It went a long way in refocusing the group lol

God I laughed so hard at this. It woke my house boy lol

I’m sorry to hear your private messages are broken.

For starters, it isn’t an allegation. I was there. To answer your question, yes. When I first hired him, we talked about the release. We talked about it when he used his hand. We talked about it when he offered to use his mouth. There was NEVER a discussion about him fucking me. I consented to a hand job and a blow job. I even trusted him because we discussed those things and for years the session didn’t stray. What happened the last time was different, unexpected, non consensual and violating. just because I agreed to be naked in a room with him didn’t mean I agreed to be penetrated during a massage.

I was repeatedly molested the summer I was 8 years old. 30 years later, I had a masseur that would always blow me at the end of our sessions. I loved it. I looked forward to it. I saw him probably 24 times over 3 years. It was great. He was great. At my last appointment, he raped me. I was on my stomach looking forward to my blow job when I rolled over. He got on top of the table, spit on his dick and popped it in. I froze. I felt 8 years old again and trapped. It was awful. I didn’t give him any indication that I wanted penetration. We never spoke of it. I didn’t insinuate that I wanted it. There were no misinterpreted signals. He saw my bare ass and he took it. I couldn’t move. I had no idea what to do and just laid there. I agree that there is a rape culture in America. I also believe that people find themselves in sexually charged situations and freeze. I think when you have a little bit of distance from the trauma, you realize that you weren’t giving consent. I also think the regret is tied to the inaction. I was so mad at myself for not stopping him. I regretted not beating the shit out of him.

He sounds delightful. If you have nowhere to go on Thanksgiving I think you should just go to his house.

You sound really bitter and jealous that no one has ever written you a letter trying to hire you and mailed it to your house because your web hosting server blocked someone’s email erroneously. I guess you don’t want new business and don’t care how many customers you lose to unreliable technology.

That’s because that takes a lot of work. Most law firms have a website with a staff directory. You can very easily see who his secretary is. Then call her, and simply explain that although he may be an attorney now, he used to do erotic massage in college. She’ll understand and schedule an appointment for you. She’ll probably make it a surprise for him so when he comes into work with a naked man on his desk, he’ll remember fondly giving massages and thank his secretary with a floral arrangement.

I agree completely. He’s going to be totally turned on by your tenacity and online detective skills. You’ll probably become one of his favorite regulars. Many of us often see providers we haven’t met yet at the grocery store, gym, or out with their significant others. Those are the best times to approach providers because you can ask all your questions while they aren’t doing anything or busy. I don’t understand why everyone is unanimously telling you that this is a bad idea. I say go for it. There’s nothing creepy, weird or stalkery about your inquiry. 😬😬😳😳. And here I thought a rainy NYC Sunday would be boring.

I’d like to consider myself smart and tech savvy. I get lost all the time.