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Fun little after fact. As I drove Dan home on the way to the airport, we of course dissected the interaction with Colton. Dan said it was clear to himself that Colton perceived Colton’s way to me to be through Dan. Dan (23 years old) said it felt really powerful to feel like he was the gate keeper. Dan said “I knew that you would make your own choice, but Colton really believed that it was my decision whether Colton got to come home with us or not.” Looking back, that’s what was inadvertently implied. It isn’t the reality, but Colton thought it was based on how I excused myself when I went to pee. Apparently when I was in the washroom Colton asked Dan point blank, “what do I have to do to go back with you guys tonight?” It makes a lot of sense the day after as I look back as to why Colton was so hell bent on making sure we were equally happy. Colton did put on the table his package price. For a $5,000 monthly allowance, he’ll spend 4) 16 consecutive hours together (an overnight) with me, and 3 dinners outside of those overnights, so 7 “dates” per month. Anything more than 2 days at a time would be renegotiated outside of the allowance as a trip.

Yes

I have a sure fire way to get in on one of these. Listen closely. Just ask. I wasted most of my 20’s being so afraid to ask for the kind of sexual experiences I wanted feeling like I wasn’t worthy of being included. I’ve more than made up for that now. Don’t waste any time. Go for it!

The final night. So let’s call my initial guy Dan to try to keep the story clearer. He chose an awful restaurant for dinner that I was literally angry about. I tried to be a good sport but was so uncomfortable that we cut it short during apps and a first round of drinks. Not having a plan B, Dan encouraged me to ask one of the other Toronto boys I’d been chatting up for a recommendation. The boy I asked said he knows the best restaurant, and said he’d tell us if he could come. We discussed and agreed to meet at 9:30 at the new place. This is Dans first time having a 3rd guy introduced into an arrangement. While we were heading to the second restaurant we discussed ad nauseam his feelings, and my concerns about what could make the night turn. Let’s call the second guy Colton because that’s his name. Colton arrives a few minutes after we were seated. The vibe was amazing and we all had a wonderful time. After several drinks, Dan asked “so now what?” I said I’m going to the bathroom, work out a plan everyone’s happy with and fill me in when I get back. They decided that Colton would join us back at our room. Colton overuses the word “vibe” but apparently the vibe was super important to the last 12 hours. We fooled around from midnight to 4am. Colton’s dick was twice the size of Dan’s which in Dan’s minor inebriated state, he had to keep reminding us about. The romp was incredible. There was so much synergy and both boys made sure that I always felt included and when they did stray to play together, it always lasted exactly the right amount of time before they got back to me. There was a lot of cum, and then the most awkward “rest” til 7 am. Colton and I woke up together. We did a brief hygiene check and got to it. I had wanted to fuck him so bad the night before but it just didn’t happen. We made up for it this morning. It woke Dan up who was enthralled with the show. He is still afraid of most penetrative sex but found ways to participate. We finished up by them sharing my secret sweet spot that leads to the best orgasms. Colton left with his load on his unwiped tummy, Dan’s in my mouth, and mine all over everyone. Dan is in the shower, then it’s my turn, and it’s back home for all of us. When you’re 5’7” on a good day, and your body runs warm, sharing a bed with two guys over 6’3” is not all it’s cracked up to be.

I will not give him another chance. We hadn’t met. See attached. He was kind and I do believe some part of him got sick, but he should have told me before I texted him at landing. My guy got off by watching me fuck the Grindr guy.

I love you more every time you post. We went shopping and talked about all these things he is so curious about. We have 8 pm reservations for dinner. Then he wants to go to spa excess, a bath house here in Toronto. That’s going to be his downfall. He’s so worn out he’s napping.

I had sex with a not yet out Grammy award winning country singer with a few unique kinks. A syndicated radio host included a paragraph about one of our hook ups in his autobiography. That’s about all I got for firsthand knowledge of celebrity sex stories. However, I’m not one to kiss and tell though. 😏😉

So he’s corrupted. There’s no going back. The spa at our hotel had no massage openings so I showed him rentmasseur and told him he could pick anyone out. He chose: Jaysan on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com and I opted for AlessandroPerez on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com We laid side by side on the king bed. I think I’m the only one that didn’t think it was awkward. Of course the two masseurs had Grindr history. My boy has never had a massage before. He left his undies on. Then removed them later. During the finale he was clearly over it so he said “can you forget about this part and just go back to massage?” The guy asked which part he wanted massaged and my boy said anything other than that area.

I loved all of it. I loved his innocent interrogation of the waiter to describe the dishes and components in the most descriptive terms possible. When the food came, I love the way he squinted his eyes as he pushed unrecognizable vegetables around the plate, inspecting them like a starving feral cat that doesn’t trust an open can of tuna. It endeared him to me and I like him a bit more after lunch. He’s such the epitome of a struggling, self made student. I miss those days. You know me. I’m not out here corrupting the youth of Canada. 😇

We’re at our restaurant having lunch and he said “I wish these menus were like Dennys” and I asked for clarification and he said “those menus have pictures of the food.”

As a reminder, the seeking guy I flew to Toronto for canceled after I landed, so I tagged in my Saturday night regular to pick up the Friday shift and he did. We had a mediocre dinner at an overpriced Italian restaurant then hit up Church Street. This guy is 23, and getting more bisexual and adventurous as the years go on. Last night we embraced gay night life together. We spent a lot of time at cock bar, then went to a drag bar, Sailor and did that little strip popping in and out of everywhere, eventually landing back at Cock Bar. We went for a private with the only guy we could both agree on. But boy did we agree on him. I offered him $200 American for 12 songs. He said “baby I can’t count that high, let’s leave when we’re done having fun” and he winked at me. He knew what was up. lol My guy had his mind blown. First the porn playing on tv got his attention. Then the concept of taking a dancer back to fuck around with as you walk past a big thing of condoms. He realized he really enjoyed watching us play which he hasn’t had the opportunity to do that with. Then he’d insert himself randomly into what we were doing. There’d appear another mouth to kiss, cock to suck, ass to finger etc. when I go in with a guy, I’m focused, so it was really fun to have him popping in and out with us because it just kept happening randomly. We went back to our hotel around 1:15 and my guy said we should have brought someone back with us. I said there were 6 gays in our hotel on Grindr that afternoon, someone is going to be horny enough to join us. He had never been on Grindr but knew what it was. Sure enough, canhost😈RN was 6 floors below us and ready to be pounded out for an audience at 2am. Thank you gay Gods. Everyone got off. My guy and I fell asleep cuddling and woke up in almost the same position we past out in. He’s at the gym now and I’m taking advantage of the privacy of needing the restroom after a night of out of character drinking. Seeking arrangement success.

I have a regular here that is very reliable that is my anchor. Then I kinda fill in the time around his schedule.

Bright side? I found a phd student, 6’5” gorgeous face from the countryside to have lunch with.

I just landed in Toronto. The boy I flew up for cancelled. Food poisoning. Now I have the unfortunate task of rushing to meet someone new to fill the time, the restaurant reservations, the basketball tickets etc. It’s the major down side to seeking.

I disagree. Time is the most precious, limited, unrenewable resource we have. I think lateness shows the greatest disrespect of a person. Early on in my hiring career I sat in a hotel lobby for 45 minutes for a provider that didn’t show up, and said never again. This past weekend in New York I had a 2pm in call with a provider that he picked the time for and insisted on hosting. I get a text at 1:57, after I’m finishing my hot chocolate across the street, can we push it back to 2:30. My friend who is staying overnight is taking his time to get out. I said I’m already downstairs and if you can’t see me by 2:05 I’m going to go. At 2:20 I get a text that I can come up now but I had already left. Punctuality is really important to me, and a lackadaisical disrespect of someone’s time is inexcusable to me in nearly all cases, especially when you’re paying for a service.

The closure is that he wound up being a catfish and I blocked him the following day.

It was late for a FaceTime. I sought out privacy for it and he decided to take a shower. I’m much more forgiving if there’s some travel or subway component which I deal with all the time in nyc.

It’s a sex club. Not a strip club.

We’re so different.

It costs $15 to get in.

I did ROTC too! That’s where all this happened on those overnight trips! Easy killer, I was 15 too.

15 year olds don’t have 8” dicks, at least none of the ones I played with freshman year.

My point is that a smart escort is not your average seeking guy. Your average seeking guy almost cares more about the shopping, first class flights, luxury hotels etc than the cash. At least from my experiences. They instagram EVERYTHING, which I don’t entirely get either. You’re so right about smoke and mirrors. I’ve only ever had to say no to one request. A tacky Louis Vuitton gold bracelet from Harrods. I find that nearly every other request for clothes, wallets, underwear (my fave) has been reasonable. How do you say no to this?

The impact, in my opinion, is that seeking guys ask for so little in relation to escorts. I’m getting an overnight for under $500, plus perks I’d have probably paid for anyway with an overnight RM provider. A $6k weekend with one lousy attitude porn star is more than I’ll spend with 3 overnights with 3 different guys, and a jam packed weekend of activities with eager, conscientious, almost equally as attractive guys. I’m looking less at RM these days and more at seeking.

Dude I would NEVER. I encouraged him to rewrite which he started to do then blocked him when he needed too much advice.