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I agree..this post is a great primer. Here is a direct link: https://ilikepinga.com/2017/08/29/clients-escorts/

Definitely be very thoughtful and picky about who you are contacting. You want your first experience to be a positive one, so really make sure it's someone who you not only find physically attractive but you think would vibe with as well. One good thing about this forum is you can really get advice and help on finding an escort who will be a good fit. Part of that is to think of the things you want to do with the escort and communicate those specifically to whomever you'd like to hire to make sure they are into it as well. Communicate those to us as well so we can guide you to the escorts that do certain things well. Another thought is to have your first session be maybe a bit longer...like 90 minutes or two hours. Obviously it'll be a bit more expensive, but the payoff is you get to better communicate with the escort and get some nice time to get to know them both before and after. My first one was a 90 minute session that started out with conversation than massage than slowly other fun stuff. He did a very good job of easing me into the experience.

It doesn't bother me but I just don't really know what to expect. I definitely do not have the money to buy a plane ticket in addition to time with the gentleman so not sure when it says "I am traveling to Denver," that implies "only if you pay for my ticket." I mean hey, there are clients who do that so great if you can get it, but not me and does that mean he isn't really someone I should contact. So actually I am generally curious if people have had experiences with this specific escort as it relates to whether the traveling to X implies that I am going to paying his plane ticket as well. If so, then please feel free to let me know. Thanks.

https://rent.men/MarioDiaz How is this guy in so many cities at the same time? He is very cute but not sure how this works? Is he expecting someone to fly him out or what?

Some epidemiological studies show that PrEP and HIV anti-retroviral treatments when used widely may end up really reducing HIV in the population. In New South Wales, Australia, the government has been fully onboard with making PrEP widely available to everyone who might be at risk and a new study not only showed a decline in HIV overall, but even in those who did not use PrEP. This is because of the herd immunity with there being less people who can get HIV and therefore less people to spread it in a population. If this is done over the whole world, we may huge decreases in new HIV diagnoses and maybe a real chance at getting rid of this terrible disease once and for all. https://www.cnn.com/2018/10/17/health/hiv-reduction-men-prep-australia-intl-study/index.html

https://www.health24.com/Medical/HIV-AIDS/News/bacteria-in-uncircumcised-men-increase-hiv-risk-20170731 Circumcision actually appears to matter more for the top than the bottom in that an uncut top is more likely to get HIV from anal sex than a cut one. I doesn't appear that it effects the transmission of HIV to the bottom except I suppose that a uncircumcised man has slightly overall chance of being HIV+. Apparently it relates to the fact that the foreskin often contains certain types of bacteria that draw in immune cells that become at risk for HIV infection. However, this is according to a study of heterosexual men in Africa. Also this is literally a quote from the main doctor who did the study: "It's thought that most gay men are infected while having unprotected receptive anal sex," she said, "so these findings are probably not relevant to the gay community in the United States." So...take that with a huge grain of salt.

Definitely https://rent.men/GianniLegno for me. Gianni is just such a great guy.

Yeah..I did this too but now that I've been on here, I also start feeling bad for the other gentlemen who are having so-so experiences with the men they hire because of their all five-star reviews.

Yeah that is definitely something I have thought about. But I actually have gone with a few men that have less than 5 stars. And with the messaging system on there, maybe it could be a bit more educational for the dude. Like, "Why did you give me 4-stars?" "Well because you rescheduled three times, you said on your profile that you do X, but then didn't want to do it when we were together and/or you rushed me out the door with more than 20 minutes of the hour remaining." Maybe he can learn a bit more about this from the client's perspective to make sure he is giving a better experience. My worry is that a lot of men don't know about Daddyreviews and a lot of the guys on Rent.Men have very good star rating systems and yet when they are discussed on the forums everyone is like, "Yeah, I had a pretty mediocre time with him too." Then why is he at almost a perfect 5-star rating? The one I am thinking of in particular doesn't even have Daddyreview either. I drive Uber on the side and totally get the terrible power of a star-rating system but in a lot of ways I wish we could have something very similar. Clients can rate their escorts and escorts can rate their clients. In Uber 99% of the people (myself included) also give 5-star reviews both ways, but you better believe that I give less than that for a passenger who was extremely rude or dirty. It would be nice if we had something similar so that both client and escort could avoid a disappointing experience.

Thanks AZDR..I've started to do my own DaddyReviews as well, but not sure if a lot of beginners really know about this. I didn't until I was told by an escort about it to write one on here. But yeah, it sounds like Rent.Men has some problems if they are not truly showing what people rate. But even just the star system could be useful. I know I would be a bit cautious about anyone who wasn't 4.5 stars or above.

So a conversation on on the other thread got me thinking about using Rent.men (or others) star-rating system a little more thoughtfully. I am relatively new to this thing so for the most part I only give five-star reviews and only to the men I really had a good time with. Otherwise I just don't leave a review at all. However, I kinda wish that I had given a more accurate rating for one particular gentleman because it sounds like lots of other clients kinda had a so-so time with him as well and had I seen a lower star rating, I might have given meeting with him a bit more thought (this was before I knew about this forum). So kinda curious about those who do star ratings on Rent.Men. Do you only review those that you really like? Do you try to give a real rating based on how you felt it went? Obviously this whole thing is very subjective so what would you base that rating on? Obviously can't get into specifics about specific men, but more curious about your general basis for a star-rating if you have one at all.

Yeah..I kinda feel bad for not giving a more neutral review on Rent.Men...I kinda wanted to be nice but it was really 3 stars at best. Instead he has a 4.85 out of 5. And obviously many of us had fairly mediocre experiences with him.

Interesting travel schedule..Dhaka and Istanbul on the same day and then Stockholm and San Angelo, Texas on another day...don't know how that works.

This guy showed up recently in Denver. Had a lot of fun with him. https://rent.men/Ruggergingercub/

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It looks like the domain has expired. Hmm..

Haha..he just texted me on Adam4Adam...I don't know why he would think I would want a "legitimate therapeutic massage" from someone who lives more than 1,000 miles away. Weird.

Good to know..I tend to be a bit general. More like: I like you ad and wanted to see your availability this weekend. Thanks for your information.

If you think that is the case than I would confront him or tell people the truth that you think could hurt others. To me it really depend on what the thing is..if it's something like him not being truthful about his STD status than I don't know..maybe that is something that other should know about so they can make a more informed decision. But I think think you have to be very careful about what you think might be "hurtful" to others....if it is something that could really endanger their health that is one thing, but if it's just that he is not telling his romantic partner about his side gig, that is really none of your business.

Escorts and clients both lie about things to protect their personal lives....if its a benign lie I would let it go. As for the snooping, realize that Facebook actually grabs recent text messages and connects them to Facebook accounts as "people you may know." It's happened to me as well and it's likely that he can look at your social media accounts as well. Unless you found out something that might endanger yourself, him or others, don't say squat. Although it's up to you if you don't want to meet him again.

I struggle with this as well. I texted JayAlexander twice while he was in town and he didn't text me back either time. Once was a few days before he came and the second was while he was in town. Oh well, maybe with him he truly was very busy and it just slipped through the cracks. I just really wanted him to slip through mine.

Yeah..it's there: https://rent.men/MikeGaite Just expired so I think not searchable and you can't contact him through rent.men, but that's why we have DaddyReviews.

I wouldn't necessarily read too much into it...$50 a month is expensive and maybe he is on vacation or just a slow time and he didn't want to renew it for another month right now. Good thing is that there are plenty of reviews for Mike that contain his phone number and e-mail on DaddyReviews. If you're interested in meeting him, try there first and see if he is still available. Mike Gaite

I have not met with DDany but I have with Fernando Rio...good guy..great experience. No complaints. I think they are both for real and you can get them as a couple if you want.