VERY FRUSTRATING as a DOM TOP, too. BECAUSE, you get a bottom escort that says he is into it and so you call to tell them you are a DOM TOP and are they experienced as a sub, and they say yes. You get to the appt, start Dominating them slowly, and they freak out in the first few minutes...
OR, after the session, they email or text you and say 'I am not comfortable with what you did the other night. I let it go on because I know you were paying for the hour with me but you really need to tell someone EVERYTHING you are going to do to them."
As a DOM, I never tell a boy / sub fully what I am going to do them. VERY frustrating when you have PAID for the service!