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I have a friend. I don’t know how it happened. But several years ago he got a new primary care doctor-a younger one. Now my friend is married and bi. He used to hire-mainly erotic massage but occasionally I think for sex. I don’t think he has done either in years due to some health problems. Bu I think he might have still been hiring when he 1st started seeing this new physician. I think he revealed this to the physician. For some reason, I don’t know what the conversation was, the doctor revealed that he was bisexual. But shortly after that the physician got married to a woman-and had a least one child. I was just shocked that the physician revealed what sounded like a deep, dark secret to a patient like that. Gman

I saw him once about 6 years ago. I think one or two of his pictures may date from back then. But the pictures were very accurate then. He was a nice guy. I don’t know that I felt the most connected to him. But I felt connected enough that I would have chanced a weekend with him if I could have swung it. I tried a couple of times, but our schedules didn’t match up. If you were to ask for some current pictures, and you liked what you saw, I’d definitely go for it. Gman

That’s a darn shame. You’d think these guys might keep a notepad or a reminder. But with a physique like that I’ll bet he’s inundated with messages. He may simply have lost your info. You can be sure if I ever get promised a home-cooked meal by you, I will definitely not forget it-as long as it’s not seafood. Gman

I’ve had some people contacting me lately on Adam4Adam and one or two on MisterX app that I was pretty sure were scammers. But Image Search gave me the same kind of results you mention. I was wondering if maybe the pictures the potential scammers were using maybe weren’t popular enough to be picked up on Image Search. I will say that I did pick up two scammers fairly recently. One of the pictures was of an armed forces guy that had apparently been used on multiple websites. The other I found was a fitness model/personal trainer that didn’t seem to be in the city the Adam4Adam profile was listed in. So I’m sure it was a scam. But again the majority of searches I’ve done lately have come up with the same results you describe. I wonder if they’ve changed their algorithm. Also I almost always do the search using the Chrome browser on my phone. I know there are some limitations on the phone browser compared to the computer browser. So I was also wondering if that might be affecting my searches. Gman

I just don’t think it matters that much. I think it’s a myth. I can tell you I hate non-salted butter as a spread on bread. Gman

I know people aren’t going to agree with me-but it is my solemn belief that except for the most finicky recipes, it doesn’t matter if you use salted butter in the place of non-salted butter. Now discuss. Gman

You mean he should say 30’s? In the words of Mr. F Flinstone, that’s droll, very droll. Gman

On his Rentmen ad he says he’s 30. Anyone think that’s a correct age for him? Gman

All I know is the news articles which say he is charged with 1st and 2nd degree murder. I guess the degrees might be specific to each state and not have a universal meaning. Gman

How about friendly acquaintance? I mean I don’t think friends should be charged. But in most cases would you really condescend to see someone repeatedly if you couldn’t stand him? Gman

This article on Oxygen was a bit misleading. http://www.oxygen.com/very-real/former-exotic-dancer-porn-star-jordan-joplin-charged-with-murder-of-surgeon?amp The article is from this month. But it made it sound as if he had just been charged with murder in addition to theft. But I’ve seen articles from last summer that say that was when they upped the charges. It still makes me feel very weird to know I had been with him multiple times. @quoththeraven, any other lawyers on here, or other legal mavens-it seems almost a given that this was a drug death. If that’s true, unless they can prove Jordan intentionally gave the physician something with intent to kill him, how could they even think they could get a conviction on 1st Degree Murder? Gman

I don’t see that it really matters as long as you and the person in question are compatible with each other. Gman

So he was a skinny guy who worked for this unknown Sean? Gman

I personally am not that fond of McDonald’s fries at the moment. Often they come to you incredibly hot. I’m not much for putting hot (temperature-wise) things in my mouth. I’ve never been a hot coffee aficionado. I do like tea, but not steaming. And as I mentioned above if you let the fries cool even slightly, they’re usually as hard as rocks. And even before they cool, they seem harder/more stale tasting than they did in the old days. Gman

I looked at one of the above listed videos. I can’t remember which one. There was a skinny guy giving a muscular guy a massage. He then either jacked the muscular guy off and got it all over his face, or the handsome guy jerked himself off all over the skinny guy’s face Was the skinny guy supposedly Sean? If it was, I couldn’t help notice he was using that hand cream to spread all over the guys back, but he kept his watch on. Besides probably getting the watch dirty, he might scratch the guy with it. Gman

I also wonder if he’s actually straight -he may have to nerve himself up to deal with guys-and maybe some days he just can’t handle it. On the other hand maybe he’s really gay or bi-but has trouble coming to terms with it. And of course if he’s married-and advertises as a top for men-well if he and the little woman just had sex-he’s probably not going to be much good unless he is one of the relatively blessed few with a short refractory time. The fact that he actually came to @BnaC’s hotel parking lot but couldn’t actually bring himself to come inside is really interesting. It’s too bad we’ll never know what the real story is. I guess it just goes to show that even adorable guys with large tallywackers and low hanging balls aren’t always in the catbird seat (although I’ll bet he is there a whole heck of a lot more than I am). Gman

I guess since the Welsh have to support English signage it all works out. Gman

You just wrote an eyeful. But I really wouldn’t want a doctor as handsome as that. If he is straight that’s just frustrating, and if he were gay that’s even worse. Number 1-I know nothing would happen due to medical ethics. Number 2- Even without medical ethics I’d know he would never be interested in me. Occasionally FB shows me the feed of a former therapist of mine. I’m not friends with him. I’m sure Facebook found his email in my contacts list , and that’s why he shows up occasionally. Well he’s cute, and so is his partner. It’s much easier being gay if your cute or handsome. It’s much easier if you are straight too. But I feel that women more often go outside the looks box than gay men do. Gman

He says you can kik him. Of course I don’t know what that is. Gman

My Dad would never use a bowl of water. He would always lick them and put them into the books. Gman

That’s because you are pretty. I didn’t try to impress him because I knew it was a lost cause. The situation just made me sad. Unfortunately I’ve thought many of my counselors were attractive too. It had nothing to do with transference. I would’ve thought they were cute or handsome even if they had never been my counselors. I’d get a bit resentful though. They all seemed to think I should just accept being gay. And I kept thinking about how I might have found it easier to be gay if I were attractive like them. Gman

This guy would be too handsome to be my doctor. As it was I used to have a gay doctor in Seattle. And obviously I didn’t know him on a personal level, but I was very envious of him. He was cute, young, in good shape, partnered, and was not struggling with his sexuality. All things I wasn’t. I moved away from the PNW for a year. When I came back I found a gay female nurse practitioner. I have to admit I don’t think she’s the brightest medical practitioner I’ve ever been to. It has nothing to do with her being a nurse practitioner. I’ve met many in the past that I thought were excellent. And I don’t think mine is necessarily bad-it’s difficult to explain. Maybe it’s because she almost never actually examines me. She does listen to my history, but almost never does much of an exam. I actually wonder how she bills since a lot of that is supposedly based not just on history taking but also how in depth of an exam is performed. In any case she’s bright enough, and I’m fairly medically savvy myself. So between the two of us, I do ok. Plus as she’s female, I have no attraction issues. I found this info on a website. I hope it helps. GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBT Equality When you’re looking for a lesbian and gay friendly doctor, the organization GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBT Equality(formerly the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association) is an excellent place to begin your search. Founded in 1981, the organization is the oldest and largest association of LGBT healthcare professionals in the world, and has many resources for doctors and patients: Directory – For patients, GLMA maintains a provider directory where you can find primary care physicians, specialists, and therapists. GLMA only lists providers who have affirmed their commitment to LGBT health, noting providers who are GLMA members. Resources – Along with its provider directory, GLMA also provides further information on the most important health issues affecting the LGBT community, along with transgender health resources. Providers – For healthcare providers, GLMA has a number of resources to aid with treating LGBT patients, including a four-part webinar on cultural competence to better prepare doctors and providers to care for LGBT patients. Many of GLMA’s resources, including the provider listings and webinar, are free to use, and are a great starting point for finding a trusted, gay friendly doctor in your area, especially if you’re looking for a particular specialty based on your health needs. Gman

I’m sorry about the way it’s affected your family. Gman

I just noticed you said you hadn’t eaten bread in 10 years. Are you on a perpetual Atkins’ Diet? Gman

That’s a really good idea about asking for the fries with no salt. But do you think their fries taste as good as they used to? And I’m not talking about the way some things used to taste better when we were kids. I’m wondering since they changed their frying oil to take out the trans fat whether they did something else too, or whether you need trans fat to make them taste as they used to. I’ve also noticed that once they cool down they are as hard as rocks. Gman