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I just realized that was a baby. :eek:I hadn’t been paying that close of attention. When I first saw this, I thought it was a cake inside the boat. Gman

I’m just agog and aghast that hookups happen in gyms and non bathhouse steamrooms. I can’t ever imagine it happening to me. On the other hand, I have trouble imagining me in a gym too. Gman

I’m just as glad not to know. I’d probably cry at the amount especially since I’ve lost my career and won’t be able to ever recoup. Gman

Tour guides were people I hired to show me around and then after the ‘touring’ was completed, they decided they liked me so much that we had sex. I never hired the non-tour guides at all. Gman

I’m sorry for your loss, @jjkrkwood . Do you mean a vacuum pump for his tallywacker? I hired for about 14 years starting in 2002. In my first five years or so of hiring-and even after, I would from time to time try to list out all the “tour guides” I had hired whom I had had sex with. That would have been all the guys I had sex with as I don’t think I ever had non-tour guide sex until about my 10th year of hiring. Now while I haven’t hired for several years, I’ve probably still had more tour guide than non-tour guide sex in my life. But I can’t remember either all my tour guides or all my non-tour guides. Gman

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I'm sorry about your long night (day) of the soul. I know how I feel when I leave my mother after a long visit. And I'm used to being solo. I can only imagine what it must be like after 18+ years of a full house. I'm glad you are managing to stay busy. Not that you'd be interested in me -in that way-but I'm sorry I'm not nearer so we could have breakfast together. I love breakfast /burritos. Gman

He told me years ago that he doesn't kiss. Gman

http://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/s/iuwhdjolulnd611/File%20Oct%2005%2C%205%2006%2055%20PM.jpeg?dl=0 Gman

Ok I've got a question. He says he's only 6 inches. But I think I'm 5. Why does his tallywacker seem to look so much longer? Is an inch really that much? Mine would never be that visible from the back. On the other hand, if he is larger than 6 then that might go along with this being some sort of fake ad. Gman

He was definitely older when I saw him. The strange thing is that now when I think back 15 years-and just by coincidence October is my loss of virginity month-my recollection of what he looked like is that of a blond Robin Williams although not quite as hairy. My wet dreams would usually disturb me having an erotic dream-most likely just kissing a handsome guy in my dream (is that gay?). When I came, I would unfortunately wake up. Gman

In the interests of full disclosure, I must unfortunately admit that my body is pretty soft. Having a physique like Wimpy from Popeye will do that to you. I do however usually have a beard-and even when clean shaven am at least a little scratchy. But scratchy is all to the good. My neck is one of my erogenous zones. Feeling a man's beard or 5 o'clock shadow on my neck during foreplay usually sends tingles down my body. Gman

I was going to assume since Kyrie Eleison means 'Lord, have mercy' that this was how Kyrie Eleison was spelled in Greek. But why assume? I looked it up, and voila, that's what it is. Gman

I just remembered his name. It was former porn star Dallas Taylor although long after his glory days. At the time he had the largest tallywacker I had ever seen in person. And even after all my experience, I think he'd still be among the largest. Gman

I was 41. It was with an escort that I can't think of the name of right now. He even had to teach me to Fr kiss. Gman

I have an occasional f-ckbuddy who loves to do that to me. I guess I should call him my s-ckbuddy. He texted me last night to come over to his house. Unfortunately the text came at 1:43 AM, and I was sound asleep. Gman

I understand totally. I have problems with erectile dysfunction too-probably multifactorial such as age, not being in great shape/vascular issues, and maybe a bit of depression. I almost always use sildenafil (generic Viagra) before trying to top. In some cases I've found a cockring to help. I don't know if you've looked in to trimix injections. I tried it once as a test dose. It made me extremely rigid. But it hurt. It obviously doesn't cause pain to everyone, or it wouldn't be used. Gman

I never wanted to bottom-and so I haven't. But topping pretty much seems natural to me. I don't claim to be great at it. And sometimes I don't top because 'Mr. Happy' can't get hard enough. But assuming you are hard enough, topping is not really that difficult. Gman

There's nothing wrong with enjoying that. It's not my cup of tea. But in my mind it's more the kind of thing straight guys advertise. Gman

So he's a bisexual that doesn't top or bottom for men? That doesn't sound very bisexual to me. That sounds a lot like a guy who's straight. Gman

When I try to look at the video, it says replay ended 3 days ago. Gman

Verbal stuff almost always sounds fake to me because I'm fairly quiet during sex. I have to usually make myself say something so my partner knows I'm appreciative of what he's doing. With porn stars I have met, I especially felt the noise was false when the utterances sounded like the same sounds they uttered during their scenes. Of course maybe they used their natural exclamations when filming. Gman

I think that was my point about why he doesn't have to fear the consequences of his actions because there'll always be another @ArVaGuy coming round the bend. @ArVaGuy thy name is Legion!!!! Gman PS I'm not singling you out. If I were still hiring, was in Vegas and horny, I might be tempted to try him and hope it was one of his better nights.

The problem in this case is human nature. Pretty people can get away with things a lot easier than we trolls can. It's probably not unreasonable to think that if Derek is this handsome now he might have been extremely handsome from high school on. So if he's always been treated as a pretty person, then he expects to get away with things. And obviously, at least by stereotype, gays are obsessed with external appearances. So Derek continually gets away with his 'Bad Boy' behavior because even if there's one gay client who won't ever risk seeing him again, there's always a new gay client willing to take the risk because of his looks. With a lot of escorts I'm always reminded of that 30 Rock episode when Liz Lemon has the extremely good looking boyfriend played by Jon Hamm. Everybody treats him special*, and he doesn't realize it. Liz has him wear facial bandages. And all of a sudden he's treated normally. He thinks people are being mean to him. (I wish I could find that clip to play it here. But I've looked. ). Gman * I need a grammar maven here. 'Special' sounds better to me here. But I think it's an adverb modifying 'treat'. So should I have written 'specially' instead?