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He's a Message Center Member -reportedly from Europe-who likes what a lot of us might call Euro types. They have to be on the young side, coiffed to within an inch of their life, on the taller side but a lot thinner than many of us like-or as a shorter description-the more effete-ish model types. He constantly disdains muscular guys in their 30's or older -esp those who have hair showing they are men and not boys. Gman

His ad is expired. Gman

That's very true. I've noticed in Dallas all the escorts seem to be in one specific area. It's not far from the gayborhood. But not every escort should be in the same small area. Gman

I don't know that that's necessarily true. I masturbated pretty much daily from the ages of 17 to 48. As far as I remember, most of the time I only came once a day. Sometimes I did come twice. But once a day was usual for me. I guess maybe I could have come more often-but didn't usually feel the need to. Gman

The website changed awhile back. Try this. https://bjomedia.wixsite.com/website-5/copy-of-template-48 Gman

We shall have to agree to disagree as I'd say it's matter of degree and not apples vs oranges. Gman

Just wondering-do you feel the same way about parents piercing infants' earlobes? And for the record, while I've been with lots of uncut guys-and it was fine, I prefer cut. I'm also glad it was done to me as an infant rather than as an adult. Gman

You have great taste. I wish I could hire Mr. Masseur for a weekend. Please take one for the team with him, so I can lust vicariously!! Gman

It was gone earlier. Now it's back. Gman

I usually agree with that statement. However as the these questions pertain to either sex trafficking-and I'm not being trafficked-or my risks for using street drugs (which I don't)/ having HIV or another STD (and receiving testing, risk reduction strategies, treatment)-but since I'm usually at an STD clinic for this and I know what to ask and have them look for /treat-and they will go over their spiel to begin with -in this case answering yes doesn't get me much. And while I'm less leery these days of it stating that I'm gay in my regular doctor's records and that I might occasionally have unprotected sex-I am less sanguine about it being in my general medical record that I've hired escorts. Gman

I think I've answered yes sometimes and no sometimes. I think I answered yes at Gay City-a Seattle public clinic for gay men. But I'm pretty sure when I answered yes there my file was established under an alias. I can't remember if I've ever answered yes under my own name. Gman

Author Robert Heinlein wrote in one of his works that all women are the same size lying down. I wonder if that goes for men too. Gman

He advertised years ago. And I haven't seen an ad for him for a long, long time. He always used to advertise as a top only, so I never contacted him. Maybe some other long time members will remember more. Gman

He now lists himself as "Gay." Was that the way he was listed originally? I thougt it originally said "Ask Me," or am I thinking of a different ad? Gman

I'm horrible at detecting fakes, and picture #4 looks suspicious even to me. Gman

In the Britcom Coupling when Susan is trying to find out more about a new interest Steve, she asks about him from her co-worker Jeff who is Steve's best friend. Jeff replies they are so close they are 'porn buddies.' Susan asks whether that's code for being gay. Jeff says no. What a 'porn buddy' is is that if Steve passes (or vice versa), no matter how torn up Jeff no doubt will be, his job is to get over to Steve's apartment and remove any porn before Steve's parents get there. Susan asks, "And then destroys it?" Jeff replies, "Well no, keeping it. That's the perk of being a porn buddy." Gman

Possibly it was your jib. Gman

I know nothing about Matan as a masseur. There were some posts long ago about him not providing a great escort experience. Some of those talk about him doing duos with someone who was his partner at the time. The partner wasn't as hot, and reportedly he would get angry when people paid attention to Matan and not him. I found at least one thread on Matan. Here's one post from that thread. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/eli-shalev.83249/page-2#post-746206 Gman

It's also possible that he actually doesn't like kissing anyone I know of several gay guys who don't like to kiss. There's a guy who wants a hook-up with me. I'd be interested but he only wants bare, and he's not into deep passionate kissing. He said something about it reminding him of being womanish. That's not the term he used. But it was some term that implied non-masculine. Gman

I always wonder if "phone problems" is code for not paying the bill. I mean in general how often except for maybe not being in a good service area do most of really have phone problems. Gman

I'm from Texas. So it wasn't my first visit to SA. I probably succumbed to my touristy impulse and went to Mi Tierra for some machaca. But years before I had lived in Corpus Christi. I used to do weekends in San Antonio with escorts because I liked to go toobing in New Braunfels. When I did this I often stayed at a B&B owned by a gay couple called the Painted Lady Inn which is apparently now closed. It was down the street from the Pig Stand-which is the only remnant of a chain that was like an early day Denny's-plus in Dallas where I think it started it was one of the first drive ins like Sonic. When I didn't stay at the Painted Lady, I often stayed at the Emily Morgan Hotel which is within walking distance of the Alamo. Gman

I just wish I hadn't missed my chance to meet him. The only time I was ever able to meet Ben was about 7 years ago when I still had the money to hire. I contacted Ben about an upcoming trip to San Antonio ( for a job interview that led nowhere). Ben said great. I get to San Antonio, contact Ben, he said, "When we talked of getting together, you gave me dates for the following week. I'm out of town right now." I looked back at my notes, and he was right. I had inadvertently given Ben the dates for the week following my visit. It was my own fault. And I was so disappointed. And now I'll most likely never meet him. Gman

A paper ticket is a rectangle. You hold one end and give the other end to the ticket taker. The ticket taker in this case says hand me the end. Supposedly you haven't seen the end you give the tickettaker while you are holding the opposite end. The ticket taker says now I'll show you something new. The new thing is the other end of the ticket that the tickettaker was holding -or something close to that. Gman

If you like older, Brad Hunt has a very good reputation. https://rent.men/BradHunt Gman

I have no bones to pick with you about your taste in men, or at least this man. He's a knockout (although I'm not quite sure the platinum blond hair dye really suits him). But, and I'm assuming you are interested in meeting him in Chicago as that's the only USA city I see him listed in, Chicago is one of the top four escort cities in the USA (the others being NYC, LA, and SF). I'm sure there are some well-known guys who are just as handsome and muscular, if not more so, who have the advantage of being more well-known. Such as https://rent.men/MikeGaite (over 200 reviews) and who is known by many of us on the Message Center to be a stand up guy, or Dario, whom many like (although not my favorite) https://rent.men/DarioSpaniardDC. And I'm sure people who are currently hiring in Chicago could give you the scoop on many more. Gman