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    DJ Brum got a reaction from Lord_Oliver in 411 on spa 27   
    Seekers should give Mark a try.  He was great (as Max) at Super Men's and has just returned to Spa 27 (the #105 location).  Great massage, nice disposition and very easy on the eye (well-built Asian man)
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from Cure69 in 411 on spa 27   
    Seekers should give Mark a try.  He was great (as Max) at Super Men's and has just returned to Spa 27 (the #105 location).  Great massage, nice disposition and very easy on the eye (well-built Asian man)
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    DJ Brum reacted to filmbuff78 in CharlieScott in Dallas, 411   
    I had never seen that before... Maybe she wears the strap on?
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from dfwmassagelover in 411 on PeterMarcus in Austin   
    Not so much massage, but other talents are displayed here: https://showerbait.com/video/wet-furry
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from Chad Constantine in Spas in NYC   
    It is real....small, but accurate
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from Jackus in Spas in NYC   
    Patrick is now at Thai Kinetic, 501 5th Ave, #1414-Text him @ 224-425-7808
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    DJ Brum reacted to GTMike in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?   
    To further some of the elements of your comment there are also other subtle and not so subtle societal elemental factors at play in all of those studies.
     
    WARNING: In order to illustrate the point i am trying to make, it is necssary to use some very offensive caricatures and language that i do not condone. So please if you might be offended don't read any further or think I am being insensitive. Again it is to make a critical point.
     
    That is that in the majority of our past and current societal norms, "whiteness" is typically considered the "normal" state of being. So if you're "not white", then you don't need further descriptive characterizations to describe your state of being. And often other "non-white" standards of race and ethnicties are loaded with other negative implications and connotations so unfortunately in our society one only needs those otherwise very broad macro level descriptions to be used perjuratively.
     
    Let me try to explain the concept in a simple example;
     
    A waiter at a restaurant is angry because he or she felt that they didn't receive a good tip. How might that waiter go about voicing and describing their displeasure to someone else?
     
    Often, if the person was "White", the waiter might call them "a jerk", "a tight-wad", or "a dick" or "an asshole". They used descriptions to explain their actions and behaviors.
     
    Or to explain the experience they might say they couldn't believe it because the person "looked like a Wall street banker type", (read rich) and they didn't tip well. Again they don't use the person's "race or ethnicity" to explain it. Or maybe the reason was because they were "teenagers/kids" and didn't know any better.
     
    They might also say they didn't get a good tip because the patrons "were poor white trash". Here "Whiteness" needs the extra clarifier of "poor and trash" to help you understand why the tip was bad.
     
    Now contrast that to if the person who didn't tip well happened to be considered of an "other" category what the waiter might say;
    1) "I thought Asians were good at math"
    2) "Black people don't tip well"
    3) " He Jew'd me" out of the tip
    4) "What did you expect? They were Mexicans".
     
    In those types of simplified expressions the group's race, ethnicity etc.. is just lumped together with no further descriptive qualifications necessary to help explain the situation. Whereas if the person who doesn't tip well is White, there often needs to be further clarifying statements or adjectives.
     
    I am NOT attacking "white people" or "whiteness" at all!!!! But just adding further context of learned psychological biases that people don't often recognize which can influence and cloud some sociological studies.
     
    Much peace love and health and happiness to everyone!
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    DJ Brum reacted to BeefyDude in 411 on JorgeSB   
    https://rentmasseur.com/JorgeSB
     
    Any info, specifically on the massage quality itself.
     
    Yes I searched, no hits
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    DJ Brum reacted to myophile in Gordon Grant   
    Every video he did was hot, but this is my favorite: https://xhamster.com/videos/gay-classic-gordon-grant-the-lifeguard-424771
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    DJ Brum reacted to + beethoven in A message from Utopia and Shangri-la for us   
    There was some talk in The Spa over the past few days about being short changed on time at Utopia. I commented in a reply that management reads these posts, and also that clients should complain to management, as Mark and Jack want to do right by their customers.
    I have been a client at both spas for some time, and Jack (Xiao) knows that he can always email me. I received an email from him today, saying that yes, "I read the reviews [comments]on the message forum." He added, "I am so sorry abut [our] masseurs' behavior" regarding short time. "I hate that," he added.
    He also said that if clients complain at the front desk about being shorted on time, "Clients don't need to pay full fee and tips."
    He asked me to get this message out, knowing that I would comply with his wishes.
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from Devon in Spas in NYC   
    Adam! Adam! Adam!
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from + EVdude in Spas in NYC   
    "Mark" at 27 used to work at SMS as "Max" - glad I found him again, he's good!
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from Harryinny in Spas in NYC   
    Adam @ Super Men's (muscular, hairy Russian)
    Mark @ 27 (solidly built, hairy Asian)
    Jorge @ Shangrila (smooth, muscular Latin)
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from + EVdude in Spas in NYC   
    Adam @ Super Men's (muscular, hairy Russian)
    Mark @ 27 (solidly built, hairy Asian)
    Jorge @ Shangrila (smooth, muscular Latin)
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from Gfantaps in Spas in NYC   
    Adam @ Super Men's (muscular, hairy Russian)
    Mark @ 27 (solidly built, hairy Asian)
    Jorge @ Shangrila (smooth, muscular Latin)
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    DJ Brum reacted to + EVdude in Survey: how much to tip in a NYC spa?   
    Seems about right. I rarely do just an hour. On a 90 min mssg ranging from $70-90, I typically tip $60 for a standard session.
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from TonyRaye in Spas in NYC   
    @ Super Mens Spa I have consistently great massages from Adam (regardless of what the Forum says about the place; & @ Shangri-la ask for Jorge
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    DJ Brum reacted to Calvin_Hu in Spas in NYC   
    Just had a 90-min solid massage with Jorge at Shangrila. And the experience was even better than what I had known from this forum.
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    DJ Brum reacted to Redwine56 in Hung Masseur NYC   
    If you want young, hard model worthy body, good looking, you make an appointment with Jorge at Shangrila Spa. You will not be disappointed especially if you like a hard message. Jorge is from Columbia. His English is limited so there wasn't much conversation during the message but it didn't matter to me.
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    DJ Brum reacted to MmM in Spas in NYC   
    Ok. Tried Jorge. Had a wonderful time. Massage and all.
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    DJ Brum got a reaction from queensboroboy in Spas in NYC   
    6'- 6'1",dark haired, muscular, hairy chest, dark eyes, great smile...he was "super!"-YMMV
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