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I didn't have to see him riding cock to know. The fake straights always look like posers to me.

Thanks so much for this insightful contribution. Its very true in Latin America make escorts are usually straight. Before the gay liberation era it would be strange for a gay man(pejiratively called fairies) to pursue another "fairy". They would go after very ruggged working class men who needed money. Gay on gay is somewhat of a new concept and the historical ezception. Goes to show Americans are prudish on both ends of the spectrum .

I think there is some tongue and cheek going on. I tink he is using colorful language to deacribe the consenual dom sub dynamic within the straight alpha fetish context.

Mo I just love how you move. You are very self aware and display high emotional intelligence. You revel in your kink and i love it. I think some of the gents may mean well with the patronizing but i can tell they have not truly tapped into the true emotional depths of tapping into your sexual hotspots. They are operating on the surface where its about physical acts "being fuked, fisting, etc" so they don't get the thrill it brings you whwn you know you are submitting to a guy who occupies a certain stratq in society. There is no real substitute for that. Thats why guys into this acwne will pay double and be satisted with what many see aa less i e. A lazy lover sitting back etc. They dont know you are bordering on if not entering nirvana in your mind while they have to get penetrated deeper or by more partners with poppers and substance and may never approach the heights you reach in the depths of your soul. Dont ever change!!!

While your origin story seems a bit dark many gay men relish the concept of submitting to a brutish hypermasculine alpha. Even women have these fantasies and i imagine gay men are not to be outdone when it comes to fantasizing.

Exactly. Not everyone is looking to fuk or get fuked or kiss under the moonlight. Many gay men prob just cant fathom that so they think you are being cheated out your money

Men who go for straight me.n arent looking to kiss passionately(or they shouldnt). The dynamics are different and it works for those into that scene.

It's that time of year again when the Arnold expo draws in the top bodybuildsrs. Is anyone seeing any notable talent they recommend or have their eye on anyone?

Mike you know about all those football players and frat boys i lured but shhhh

Thats why you get "trade".

Now imagine the stereotypes of gay men. Perfect houses like Martha Stewart ,conversations about fashion and celebrity cultures,obsessed with Madonna,Beyonce,Lady Gaga, high pitched lipsping voices,afflicted with certain illnesses etc . Obviously not true but you want to be careful because stereotypes(especially negative ones) go both ways .

Lol this is so perfect!!!

I dont even think there is that much awareness on the part of the straight men. If you are wearing things like cheerleader/catholic school skirts, lingerie and over the top feminine attire most women would maybe feel is "too much" you will turn on straight men(who are not homophobic ) on the visual subconcious level. Men into trans are rarely struggling with anything internally. They are usually heterosexua,maybe slightly bi ,and i mean real bi not fake rentmen "bisexual" but are just very expansive in their view of the "women" they like.A trans would never scratch the itch of someone who wants a square jawed stud.

For some ppl sex has more of a physical component for others it has more of a mental component. For some what you do in the bedroom is the most important. For some who you get into your bedroom is most important.

Def not true. There are ppl like those you deacribed that are super closeted. Maybe men who are downlow and married themself. However i know flaming types who only want straight men at the extreme end you have crossdressers and trans who will usually only have sex with straight men .

Authenticity is very important to ppl with this fantasy and they usually know simply seeing the declaration of the sexual orientation is not the only thing to go by.

I repect your opinion. You always give a high brow intellectual take. Sometimes that's not how it works out in these streets.

Why can many gay men be identified by certain cues? Its the divergence from typical masculinity that identified them to others. Id say from what i have seen living in nyc about 80 percent of out gay men can be identified as gay within 30 seconds even if they are not being extravagantly flamboyant, there is something just different. It doesn't make them bad ppl. However if your fantasy is a gridiron warrior that type of man wont stimulate you. Some gay men go after the same men that would attract heterosexual females who dont have a gay man fetish. Alot of lesbians are the same way thats why alot of straight women with kids are always in the mall with a bull dyke pushing the stroller.

That was a reply to sync.

Donny I have to agree with you. Its an unpopular opinion and I understand. Most men that think like you and I probably have learned to seal their lips about it though. If your thing is natural effortless masculinity you cant beat straight men. Wait outside a young college sports bar or titty bar. To my brain its 1 plus equals 2. It just is. But i support everyone's freedom of choice.

A very hot movie where a young gay guy falls for a straight rural country boy who is like a bully.

Anyone plan on going or local to the area? This is often Christmas for serious muscle worshippers. Anyone like to share any hot local muscle or anyone who will be around for festivities?

Depending on the scene a provider offers(domination etc) alot of clients can get free kicks just talking to the prospective provider without ever intending to meet. Texts keeps the convo streamlined with a record of wxpectations and things agreed to/not agreed to. Also some providers are not open about this so you may be calling them around family/friends/co workers etc so once again text is more convenient.

Im gonna break down what I said into three parts 1. I have heard the argument put forth that women seek out gay men either knowingly or subconciously if they are scared of emotional connection or rejection. Is this the first time you have heard that theory? 2. Most gay men hiring an escort or paying for time are often not looking for an emotional connection with those prospects. Is that a novel thought? 3. Expecting an emotional connection in a pay for hire relationship should not be expected. Do you or have you ever expected to run off into the sunset with a guy you hired?

Love this Donny!!! I guess gay male clients who exclusively or mostly hire straight men may be a unique subset. I find once you cross into that dark side you cant go back. If you have met a strapping marine who needs money to pay for his wedding you cant go back to the pageantry of the wanna be guys playing dress up. Who are your go tos Donnie?