Strafe,
I have heard all the fancy intellectual sounding equivocating arguments that amount to do as you please and live and let live. They have been around since the days aids was killing gay men. I would have been a baby then.
Yes i modulated the original conversation slightly to interject a poignant peripheral point. With all the intelligence within the gay community historically it has not been exercised when it came to sexual practices. I think the calamity of days gone by are my xitations for that assertion.
You proved my point precisely then added a whole bunch of fancy shiny well decorated pieces of nothing. We are not discussing heterosexual sex as no one on here is taking prep so they can slay the kitty kat of the vixen next door. Yes it is the mechanics of anal sex and the tears it creates that make it the most dangerous and the paryicipants most susceotible. In the grand scheme of things hiv is still "the big one" and is the only disease to have killed an entire segment of the population en masse. I am sure all those ppl who died on their death bed wished someone would have told them straight "protect your fuc*kin self" and they had listened!