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I mean it just really depends on how much or how little you care about being disappointed again. If a guy has to reschedule an appointment, I don't mind giving him another chance, but if he charged me full price and stopped services halfway through our session, that's not something I'd overlook.

Here's a tip when you come across someone charging more for their services than you want to pay: don't hire them. There's plenty of masseurs out there and absolutely no point in getting caught up in ones that decide to charge more for their time. It's like standing outside of a high end restaurant and getting upset that they're not charging McDonald's prices. Just move on with your day.

The smell thing shouldn't be a big deal to any decent provider. Just ask them if they'd be okay with wearing deodorant before the session. You can say that you enjoy the smell or something. Pubic hair is gonna be a different thing as a guy can't just change it up for the next client that has preference so you may get more pushback on that.

He's changed his name a bunch. Last time he was posted it was determined that the profile is a fake and he's using a model's photos

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My personal stance is that people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking it's anything more than a good time that's being paid for. A business exchange with some personality. I think problems arise because people have unfulfilled emotional needs, and that kind of thing can turn sad or ugly, quick. I'm sure there are escorts out there that have formed relationships or friendships with some clients, but I also suspect that some of those clients may be fooling themselves into thinking those relationships are more than they actually are.

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Anyone happen to see him yet? It looks like there's still no reviews on RM

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If you haven't done any masseur training or regularly given massages, I don't imagine you're going to be good at it. And if you can't even determine the costs vs benefits of being a masseur vs an escort it's really not going to be the profession for you. Find a different path for work.

It looks like he's had a RM profile since 2019 but only 3 reviews. He's really handsome, but curious if anyone has any more info. www.rent.men/Azat

I saw him during the pandemic and he's a handsome guy but unfortunately at the time he wasn't as in shape as in the photos and he also had a natural body odor that some may like, but I didn't.

I've tried to contact Shane a couple of times and he would send a one message response and just stop. Not sure why he's sometimes flaky.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.

Maybe it's just me, but calling yourself "high class" just comes off as tacky.

Sounds like he just wants a sugar daddy and not clients.

Look at escorts the same way you look at a night out of entertainment, whether that's a movie or a nice meal. There are going to be cheap options and there are going to be expensive options, but you don't get to go to a restaurant and complain to them that they're charging too much for their meals. You know what you can do? Move on and find a different restaurant or form of entertainment. A few too many men create stress and drama for themselves over issues they can actually do something about, which is to just move on instead of complain about escorts valuing their time and services at a specific rate.

Nice! How was the party?

It doesn't sound like he actually reached out to you, which is what I was expecting based no the title of the thread. If you're feeling extra anxious, just do whatever makes you most comfortable, but I wouldn't really be that bothered. FYI, there are multiple free phone apps that allow you to have a burner phone number on your cell phone. I always use one to reach out to escorts and never use those numbers for anything else, so I'm not at all connected to it. You might want to consider doing that instead of a Google number which does end up getting linked back to other things.

What do you consider the difference between a "sensual" vs an "erotic" massage? I often see a number of masseurs list therapeutic and sensual massages, but not erotic. Obviously the answer will be different for everyone, but I would be interested in hearing your personal take.

The email for this weekend's nude party just went out today and one of the headliners is looking pretty hot! Anyone have info on the headliner Dillon? Considering going just to see him.

You hired him for a 3 day session without ever having met him before and then trash talked him on the phone with him in the room? Sucks that you didn't get what you expected but it doesn't sound like you made the wisest choices.

Sorry this has happened to you. As an FYI to anyone not already aware, there are multiple free apps you can download on your phone that will give you a free burner phone number that also allows you to text. I've never been worried about extortion from anyone I've talked to, but I've also never taken that risk. There's no reason to use your main phone number to reach out to escorts.

My guess is that he doesn't get as much business being an escort as he does with his OF, but many people make a killing on OF so it could be working out well for him

Also interested to hear if anyone's done more than a therapeutic massage with him!