Bluefin
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Bluefin reacted to musclvr in San Francisco's MassageMM
I saw Mark last December. I thought that he still look pretty much the same IRL as in his RM pictures, even though they are several years old.
His masseurfinder pics are recent.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43861/
Mark is one of my all-time favs.
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Bluefin reacted to urbanfetish in Petebodyworks (Peter) in NYC
I just returned from another session with Pete. He is just all around amazing. While my first few sessions were great, it has only gotten better since then. He is in tune with what I like now and he has been incorporating those special touches throughout the session. He is a very special and talented guy!
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Bluefin reacted to DeluxePackageNYC in Petebodyworks (Peter) in NYC
Hi guys. New here. I went to go visit Peter on Saturday. Rainy, quiet weekend evening near grand central. It’s nice to go to a real rented space that’s quiet and peaceful. His style is intimate from the get-go. Maybe I would have wanted more of a sports-style massage, but it was very sexy. Lots of interaction. I needed the release.
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Bluefin got a reaction from sydneyboy in Any Intel on FernandoMasseur?
Hi any intel? He’s in SF and a cutie.
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Bluefin reacted to RMW413 in Masseurs/Lake Steam Bath, Denver
Just a follow up to my initial post. I made it to Denver and thoroughly enjoyed Lake Steam. Had an excellent 25-minute scrub with Sergio and an 80-minute massage with Matthew, which was outstanding. He said draping was required which was fine. I wasn’t looking for any extras but often fine draping annoying and distracting when therapists fuss so much with it. But he did it very well.
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Bluefin reacted to Lohengrin1979 in KennyHealer - 411
Saw him a few months ago. Not as trim as the pictures show and older. Massage was very light and swerved into the sensual rather quickly. Would not repeat.
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Bluefin got a reaction from RubMyThighs in San Francisco Advice Please
From your list I’ve only seen Erosflow and can confirm he’s the total package. He’s extremely skilled at massage (if that’s important to you) and he also escorts so you can arrange to top him (his bottoming skills are also incredible)
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Bluefin got a reaction from Harryinny in KennyHealer - 411
Any info on this guy? There’s an old closed thread about him but nothing recent.
https://rentmasseur.com/KennyHealer
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Bluefin got a reaction from Wanderoz in KennyHealer - 411
Any info on this guy? There’s an old closed thread about him but nothing recent.
https://rentmasseur.com/KennyHealer
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Bluefin reacted to viewing ownly in DanWestXXX short king & super-stud
https://www.rentmasseur.com/danwestxxx
The reason of the "XXX" in the moniker : https://www.rawfuckclub.com/danwestxxx
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Bluefin got a reaction from Runningguyindc in LatinManuel - Avoid
The expectation that the session is over as soon as the HE is complete is a pet peeve of mine. If it’s 5 min or so fine but more than 10 you’re shorting me. Especially if you’re rushing me there.
What moves an ok masseur to a great masseur are ones who understand you’re paying for the time so they’ll do a bit more massage after - neck, scalp etc.
Thanks for the report!
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Bluefin reacted to Wanderoz in BengaliBoy, in Washington, DC
Anyone have experience with this new student/masseur?
https://rentmasseur.com/BengaliBoy
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Bluefin reacted to Wanderoz in Daniellin traveling West Coast. Glutes says Asian roulette.
9 on red!
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Bluefin got a reaction from domonkasshu160 in 411 - Andyfly
Massage B- / standard extras
Super nice guy. Older than photos suggest. Very nice build. I saw him in his hotel room so massage on bed, but he has a face cradle.
Travels with Roccochin.
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Bluefin got a reaction from Topform in Milo Massage - Denver (+frequent travel)
This sums it up perfectly. He’s extremely talented at massage. One of the best technicals I’ve had in awhile. YMMV for the rest.
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Bluefin reacted to S_G in Feeling Brandon
Any experience?
https://rentmasseur.com/Feelingbrandon
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/52564/
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Bluefin reacted to chgobrt in Masseurs/Lake Steam Bath, Denver
I was there a few weeks ago and had a great time. Got the most awesome massage from Sung (you can PM for more details if you need). Got a scrub from Sergio and that was just OK.
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Bluefin reacted to + 7829V in Masseur best practices...
AI Summary of ALL previous comments.
This thread is honestly fascinating because it slowly evolved into an unofficial “client handbook” for sensual/erotic massage providers over several years. The overall vibe is less about technique and more about professionalism, authenticity, atmosphere, and emotional intelligence.
Overall Forum Consensus
The biggest takeaway from the entire thread:
Again and again people came back to:
honesty, consistency, communication, hygiene, atmosphere, and making clients feel respected instead of processed like transactions. A mediocre massage with warmth and professionalism often beats a technically great massage with awkwardness, ego, deception, or poor communication.
The Major Themes
1. False Advertising Is the #1 Sin
This was probably the strongest recurring complaint.
People HATE:
heavily edited photos, old photos, misleading body pics, “therapeutic only” ads with erotic imagery, claiming training/certifications they clearly don’t have, promising amenities that don’t exist, charging for one thing then changing terms later. The recent AI-photo comment fits perfectly into the thread’s long-running theme:
That’s basically the modern version of:
“show current body hair,” “look like your photos,” “don’t oversell yourself.” The forum clearly values authenticity over perfection.
2. Professionalism = Huge Turn-On
People repeatedly said that simple professionalism creates loyalty:
being on time, confirming appointments, not cancelling last minute, not rushing sessions, communicating delays, not checking phones constantly, respecting the booked duration. One recurring emotional theme:
Clients hate feeling like:
an ATM, a backup option, or cattle being processed. That’s why your older quote about not soliciting constantly and instead building rapport resonated with people. The forum strongly agrees that:
3. Atmosphere Matters WAY More Than Many Providers Think
A surprising amount of discussion focused on ambiance:
music, lighting, cleanliness, sheets, scents, temperature, interruptions, pets, roommates, parking, ads playing on Spotify/YouTube. The “Spotify ad suddenly playing during massage” topic became almost legendary in the thread 😂
People were basically saying:
Also repeatedly mentioned:
heated tables, warmed oils, quality lotion, clean linens, avoiding rancid smells, trimming nails, fresh breath, no cigarette smell. Very “hospitality business” mindset.
4. Emotional Presence > Pure Technique
This may have been the deepest insight in the entire thread.
Several posters—including actual providers—said the best sessions happen when the client feels:
desired, attended to, emotionally present with, and not judged. One provider put it beautifully:
That idea came up repeatedly in different forms:
eye contact, reading body language, not seeming bored, adapting energy, not talking too much, making the client feel special. The thread basically argues that sensual massage is partly:
hospitality, performance, emotional intelligence, and energy management. Not just rubbing muscles.
5. Boundaries Matter Too
Interesting nuance:
The thread is NOT “anything goes.”
A lot of experienced posters stressed:
know your limits, communicate clearly, don’t get pressured, don’t promise what you can’t provide, don’t blur massage into escorting unless intentional. There’s actually a strong undercurrent of:
6. Regulars Are the Real Business
Many providers emphasized:
repeat clients are everything, consistency matters, regulars deserve flexibility, loyalty goes both ways. The thread repeatedly frames this less as “quick cash” and more as:
Some even compared it to building a long-term client book in other industries.
Funniest / Most Memorable Running Topics
The anti–Johnson’s Baby Oil campaign 😂
This came up MULTIPLE times.
People were passionately against it.
The music disasters
Examples included:
YouTube ads, pop dance music, notification sounds, answering texts mid-session, cheap phone speakers. Basically:
Pets ruining the fantasy
Several horror stories:
dogs staring during massages, cats on clothes, allergies, roommates unexpectedly appearing. The Evolution of the Thread
One cool thing:
You can actually see the culture evolve over time.
2018:
practical basics, setup, oils, timing, professionalism. 2019–2021:
branding, communication, reviews, follow-up etiquette, emotional connection. 2024–2026:
authenticity, photo editing, texting boundaries, image management, “don’t make this feel like Grindr.” The newer posts feel more cynical and more focused on authenticity because people are burned out from over-filtered marketing and transactional behavior.
Bottom-Line Summary
The forum’s collective philosophy basically became:
The best masseurs:
look like their photos, communicate clearly, create a relaxing environment, stay emotionally present, respect boundaries, avoid desperation, and make clients feel valued instead of processed. And the fastest way to lose clients is:
misleading advertising, bad communication, rushing, phone addiction, obvious thirst for money, or creating a disconnect between fantasy and reality. Honestly, for a random internet forum thread, there’s a weird amount of solid business psychology in it.
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Bluefin reacted to wesdxccc in Giovanni in SF (51953)
I've seen him more recently. Nothing new to report, unfortunately. Decent massage, therapeutic only.
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Bluefin got a reaction from BigDMike in Dongdongdedian / Eason
Can also recommend Eason. Massage is on bed when he’s traveling. I encouraged him to get a face cradle.
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Bluefin got a reaction from MikeW in Dongdongdedian / Eason
Can also recommend Eason. Massage is on bed when he’s traveling. I encouraged him to get a face cradle.
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Bluefin got a reaction from Topform in Dongdongdedian / Eason
Can also recommend Eason. Massage is on bed when he’s traveling. I encouraged him to get a face cradle.
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Bluefin got a reaction from JackTim2493 in Aaronxxx in San Diego
Met with Aaron while he was in SF. He’s traveling with his table so bonus.
Sweet and sexy guy. Clear communication and expectations.
A- / B+ massage. Generous with mutual touch. YMMV extras. Would repeat.
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