Wouldn’t change anything about my first experience.
However, advice for a newbie: NEVER pay up front or give a deposit. Professional and legit providers will never ask you for this.
Similar to the above but I keep 3 $20s in my wallet.
No tip: time shorters, basic rub and tug etc
$20: meets expectations
$40: sweet guy, good massage, enthusiastic, doesn’t watch the clock
$60: great massage, great extras
I prefer a table but if there’s a visiting provider I’m interested in I’ll make an exception. A bed is less comfortable but on the plus side makes MT easier
He’s staying in a horrible hotel on the worst corner in SF. I’m a city boy and have high tolerance for bad neighborhoods but no way would I see him for an incall while he’s in SF.
That said our communication was friendly and professional.
I’d add that if your expectations go beyond a HE then stick to escorts unless you’ve discussed this with your masseur prior to meeting and they’ve agreed
There’s a scene in SVU where a male hustler is being interrogated and comes on to Stabler and then Stabler leans in real close and smirks and whispers “I’d hurt you”. Lordy.