Any legitimate provider won’t expect any money until the end of the massage.
If you encounter any that want any money up front in any form move on.
There are plenty of great masseurs to choose from who aren’t trying to rip you off.
I didnt stay at the resort, just came for the massage. When I came through to the spa I walked passed the pool and there were 3 guys hanging out by the pool naked.
Where there are naked gay guys, Im sure there is cruising.
I ask for exactly what I want and then ask if that’s what he provides. If yes, I ask for fee. I feel it’s imortant to be clear in the beginning to avoid surprise or disappointment.
After we arrange a time and place to meet I text back with a summary of what we agreed to and ask him to confirm.
Decided to go. They are very adamant that it is therapeutic only. There is a sign on the desk that says “No hanky panky” and you have to sign a document that says you will not engage in any activity that would make your masseur uncomfortable.
Who would think people would expect more from the providers at a gay clothing optional resort?
Decent therapeutic only massage by a really built and cute guy. He kept me draped the whole time but did expose my ass a couple of times to work on glutes. Also pressed his crotch into my shoulder and arms a few times. I was too paranoid to take the bait because of all the warnings.
It was fine for what it was and resonably priced but I wouldn’t go back.
Has anyone been to The Men’s Spa at La Dolce Vita Resort (clothing optional) in Palm Springs?
If so what was your experience and would you recommend anyone in particular?
All solid choices with strengths and weaknesses depending on what you’re looking for.
https://rentmasseur.com/pan
https://rentmasseur.com/THAIRIFICTOUCH
https://rentmasseur.com/karlkang
https://rentmasseur.com/MassageMM
https://rentmasseur.com/AsnHottie_Max
https://www.arbusmassage.com
I’m pretty direct with what I expect. Ask the fee. If what we agreed to is provided I don’t tip. I figure I’ve told you what I want out of the massage and you quoted me a price. If I get more than what was agreed upon or if the massage was above average I’ll usually tip another $20-$40.