The worst is indulging the hot anticipation of seeing the new guy, inevitably being disappointed, and then immediately hiring the reliable regular to make up for it.
I’ve only had an experience once that I ended early. His place was filthy and he was wearing a stained shirt. After chatting for like 5 min I told him that I was sorry but it wasn’t going to work out but offered him 1/3 of the agreed price. for his time.
It’s scary to confront sometimes but if you don’t then it’s on you.
I think the reason why so many people say “YMMV” is because a masseur is not an escort. If you want a guarantee for more than the standard HE then hire an escort.
I’ve had sessions with “sensual only “ providers which became what I and most people would consider erotic and vice versa.
I like going into a session knowing that we will both be nude, and there will be mutual touching and release. I always confirm that with a provider before booking. Anything more is based on chemistry. For me that’s part of the turn on.
1. Know your status. Get tested regularly - every 3-6 mos
2. Use whatever “safe sex” methods are best for you - condoms, prep, or both condoms and prep.
3. Communicate with your sex partners.
4. You’re responsible for keeping yourself protected.