I’ve been to two different spas when visiting nyc and both times I was nude and they took towel off. The first time I thought the masseur was up for more based on where his hand was brushing but I was too chicken since it was my first time.
The second time the masseur did seem to be close but I wasn’t sure if he was inviting touch or not. I did show I was excited by him touching me and got a fairly mechanical HE.
In general at these spas if his crotch is near my hand I can risk touching it? Is this a unspoken truth?
Newbie here