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I guess that was better than finding wet tissues, an empty box of wine, and a VHS of The Notebook tho?

Curious about your views on tipping protocols on independent Masseurs. What are their expectations?

Wow. That would freak me out. What was it? Mind if I ask if it was transmitted through typical massage actions?

From where I sat, the only regret I could have that was worse than getting in that situation would have been to get HIV and think there was an action I should have taken. The risk to tops is less, but not non-existent. I wonder how many tops contracted HIV with no other explanation (did not ottom, no IV drug use, etc.)? I was not willing to risk it for me, my partner, my family.

I hear you about peace of mind. I had a massage about a year ago in SF. Made it clear I was not looking for sex, but wanted sensual and legit massage... and asked if he was ok being nude and allowing mutual touch. It was a great experience until the last 15 min. The MT had him aroused, which I found fun. He straddled me and with my junk behind him, stroked me with his hand behind his back. I came, and finished him with my hand. It was all great until he asked if I wanted to cum. I was so confused at first, like ... how could he not know? I said I already did - and he asked, “In me??”. Took a few seconds for me to realize he’d slipped me in him. I would never believe someone would not know had I not gone through this. I asked if he was at least on PrEP, and he said no. He had not asked me a single health question. Not one. Suffice to say, I freaked. Got on PEP immediately. Could not put through insurance. This was $4026 of meds for one month, which THANK GOD I got a one time voucher for. Very expensive lesson. I know my risk was low based on topping, but to not take action was not an option. The regret would be a bigger problem. I now carry condoms ALL the time, and have made a project out of finding the best ones. (Trojan Supra non-latex, no odor.)

Right? There’s not really a bad hood in Manhattan anymore. But, the whole situation is pretty awful no matter!

Hey there. I have become quite a fan. Just saw him two days ago, for the fourth time. Not sure what to make of him not replying, he’s incredibly polite. I have noticed that he does not check his phone during sessions, which I appreciate. I have never protested when other Masseurs do it, but it bugs me. You might try him again?

I just had another incredible massage with Takashi. I wanted a legit deep tissue and he worked his ass off. I also wanted to enjoy feeling sensual, and that managed to be done VERY well without sacrificing massage intensity. This being my fourth visit - we have achieved a great rapport and chemistry. I don’t know why this perfect balance has been so hard for me to find in others, but he’s a keeper. All of the feedback on these forums gave me a different perspective before this last appointment. I really got to pay attention to his craft, his care that I be really pleased, and that balance I wanted in a sensual and therapeutic experience. Kudos to you all on this forum for helping me to not take anything for granted. A+++ Takashi!

. Okay, hilarious!

Me too. He’s incredible!!

God, he’s BEAUTIFUL.

Thanks so much:)

Thank you very much!

I have not heard of any law enforcement issues. Maybe the police have bigger fish to fry. Any stories I should learn from though?

He’s freaking gorgeous. No ego. Just about the hottest guy I have ever touched.

Chad is the epitome of sensual. I mean... THE EPITOME

I have seen Takashi a few times now. Awesome experience. I am a huge fan.

I just had my second massage with Takashi today. He’s polite and sweet, and gives a helluva massage! And, the pics on RentMasseur are absolutely him. I stared at them after seeing these threads, and I do not understand the confusion. He’s HOT, and was very enthusiastic about pleasing me. There are a few good Massuers I have seen in SF - but Takashi is the total package. Cannot WAIT to go back!