wbtravis

Thanks, and no... not working for me:)

Wow! Thanks! Do not know how I’d have figured that out:)

How do I know which topics are appropriate for which forums? Especially Deli and Spa?

I cannot get a read on what he’s comfortable with. Anyone have any experience to share? https://rentmasseur.com/Pleasuremasseur Or, this gent? https://rentmasseur.com/Stephanking

For the love of God... BEAUTIFUL

Thank you!!!

Thank you. I had seen TOS, and there are no columns... I suspect because I am on phone instead of desktop. That said; I did see the Help “drop down”. Trophies explained. Now to the moniker:)

And, just like that - I am an Apprentice.

As a newbie I am learning what this site is about. Can anyone tell me what the distinctions of Newbie through Master mean. How do you get them? And, trophies? Thanks!

Matt Lanter Channing Tatum Ryan Reynolds Chris Pine Chris Hemsworth Hugh Jackman Ryan Kwanten Will Smith Michael B. Jordan Shit..... do I have to stop???

Wow. Insanely beautiful. These exchanges are hilarious. Loving this forum:)

LOVE this ignore button. So far, have only had to use it on one person.

Well, then! Hey - who is the guy in your pic?

Thanks, Travis! (Good GOD that is a hot pic.) Not taking anything personally, just calling out a bully.

I know I am new here, and Jeff, you are a journeyman and all, but - this hostility is misplaced. What is the point of calling people stupid? Sure doesn’t encourage people to share. You can take or ignore what you want, but bullying isn’t useful.

I exchanged texts some time ago to make sure he was okay with my wish list. He’s proudly quirky. Friendly, and was open to sensual. If memory serves he upcharges, but you should confirm.

Wow. You have quite a system! Have you ever picked up the tip money on your way out because it did not work out?

Well, not surprisingly, the answers varied. I am probably guilty of over-tipping, which seemed harmless... but I do think it becomes an expectation. Some of the guys may even over-estimate their value as a result. I think I will pay attention to how many times they check their phone, and adjust downward accordingly. My favorite guys do not do this - but quite a few do. One guy (Mikey Chen) even left the session three times to “pee”. Three times??

I guess that was better than finding wet tissues, an empty box of wine, and a VHS of The Notebook tho?

Curious about your views on tipping protocols on independent Masseurs. What are their expectations?

Wow. That would freak me out. What was it? Mind if I ask if it was transmitted through typical massage actions?

From where I sat, the only regret I could have that was worse than getting in that situation would have been to get HIV and think there was an action I should have taken. The risk to tops is less, but not non-existent. I wonder how many tops contracted HIV with no other explanation (did not ottom, no IV drug use, etc.)? I was not willing to risk it for me, my partner, my family.

I hear you about peace of mind. I had a massage about a year ago in SF. Made it clear I was not looking for sex, but wanted sensual and legit massage... and asked if he was ok being nude and allowing mutual touch. It was a great experience until the last 15 min. The MT had him aroused, which I found fun. He straddled me and with my junk behind him, stroked me with his hand behind his back. I came, and finished him with my hand. It was all great until he asked if I wanted to cum. I was so confused at first, like ... how could he not know? I said I already did - and he asked, “In me??”. Took a few seconds for me to realize he’d slipped me in him. I would never believe someone would not know had I not gone through this. I asked if he was at least on PrEP, and he said no. He had not asked me a single health question. Not one. Suffice to say, I freaked. Got on PEP immediately. Could not put through insurance. This was $4026 of meds for one month, which THANK GOD I got a one time voucher for. Very expensive lesson. I know my risk was low based on topping, but to not take action was not an option. The regret would be a bigger problem. I now carry condoms ALL the time, and have made a project out of finding the best ones. (Trojan Supra non-latex, no odor.)

Right? There’s not really a bad hood in Manhattan anymore. But, the whole situation is pretty awful no matter!

Hey there. I have become quite a fan. Just saw him two days ago, for the fourth time. Not sure what to make of him not replying, he’s incredibly polite. I have noticed that he does not check his phone during sessions, which I appreciate. I have never protested when other Masseurs do it, but it bugs me. You might try him again?