Michael PhD

Hey guys. I’ve gotten into a predicament. Over the last year I’ve casually been seeing a divorced bi man. We have had a lot of great sexual adventures, one on one and with a third (male and female). Recently, I asked if he wanted to meet with a submissive bottom who likes “daddy” types. He jumped at the idea. I sent over pics and a video of the two of us. What I failed to consider is that the guy I was suggesting we tag team is someone he knows… his son. My long term buddy is pretty upset and wants me to promise to not see his son again. I like the young man and have a lot of fun. Is it wrong to continue seeing them both without letting the other know? My head says I should stop but I’m hoping some can convince me it’s not as bad as I’ve made it out to be…

Had a great session. Will be a repeat customer. Thanks!

As someone who has enjoyed meeting masseurs even after they transition from a sensual experience to a strictly therapeutic session, I think you should wait for the clients to come across your ad and reach out to you. I don’t like when I’m solicited for scheduling a massage unless I asked to be contacted (for the out of town visitors) although I recognize that may be a personal issue and not applicable to others.

I had a masseur I met when I was in my early 30s. Great technique, well trained. Met him almost every month when I would travel to New York for 2 years. On a trip to New York one summer, I got in a bad accident. He and I texted often and when he found out I was admitted to the trauma unit, he came and visited. He came probably 15 times over a 6 week hospitalization… fast forward 10 years, we still keep in touch. And I’m the godfather of he and his husbands daughter. A business transaction led to this friendship. Life is too short to pass up making a friend when the right connection is made.

Pretty hot… I’m intrigued. Lol.

There may be options but only a couple well trained masseurs. If you are a trained masseur and have a variety of techniques including deep tissue, I would imagine you’d have clients line up.

I would also suggest doing some research. It’s not just about being a dick sucking enthusiast. I meet masseurs and the best ones are those that want to make the client happy, truly enjoy what they do, and have motivation more than just supporting their other costly passions as a driver for their pursuit of a career in this industry. Would be a bit naive (and disrespectful to the professionals out there) to think that being in this industry is straightforward or easy.

I would probably chat with a guy in the biz that can give you an insiders perspective. If it’s something you think you’ll enjoy and be good at, may be worth trying it out. if you think you’ll have regret in the future, I would consider alternatives. Would be interested to see what your profile would say… your sales pitch so to speak… care to share here?

Don’t have much to add. I host masseurs at bellagio, aria, wynn, cosmo. Most need keys to access room via elevator. Some only require this at night and day access does not require key. Of note, if you are worried about being seen in lobby by friends or colleagues, you can ask the masseur/escort to meet you on one of the non-room floors (restaurant level, gym, spa, conference room, etc) as these are typically open to the public.

In my original post I had inadvertently left out the masseur in questions link to Rentmasseur profile.

I just updated the original post. On a side note, if you come back to San Diego some day, you’ll have a lot of clients! Come back!

Hello. I saw this guy is visiting. Any experience? I’m very interested in meeting him. I may give it a go if no one has any experience to share. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30145/

I met him. Really great technique and massage. He was naked throughout and minimal mutual touch ensued. The massage was great. The ending left me wanting more and for the price, don’t think I’ll repeat. Although I’ve lamented the lack of technically skilled masseurs in San Diego so that may be a reason why I end up going back eventually although don’t plan on it currently.

I have walked out but must admit that in my early days of hiring masseurs, I got misled a few times and was too nervous to leave. Was ok the handful of times since the massage was good except for one that tried to get too physical. That time I protested and when he kept being pushy I called him out. Got dressed and left. Since then I don’t mess around with any of that tomfoolery. If they are being deceitful with pics I’ll assume they are being deceitful with their skills and training. No go for me.

I’m looking forward to the next time we meet. Amazing experience with you.

Any recent experience?

I’m going to reach out soon. Will report back. Any recent experiences?

Hello. I’ve searched through the San Diego threads. Wondering if anyone has had a recent good therapeutic experience (my preference is deep tissue)? I’ve met my share of San Diego masseurs but every visit there, I’m at a loss on who is worth seeing a second time. My favorite masseurs - Grant and Will - have both moved or stopped giving massages. I’ve had decent experiences but no other masseur I’ve wanted to see a second time although I have repeated some due to minimal options. Any new experiences?

Thanks for sharing. Indeed blast from the past. I had fun with him a few times. He bottomed for me and could take a good pounding. The original post has me turned on big time and happy it was good for you.

Any updates? Also want to reach out.

I think he only schedules with regulars

Dann is my go to every time in Dallas. Wish he’d come to San Diego.

Hey guys. Any experience with these guys? Recommend? TWOBOYSFOURHANDS on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

Hey guys. Any experience with this fella? Looks like also a 4 hand option. Would love to hear about both. JockTherapy on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

Agree. He was a lot of fun.